Guest Posted April 26, 2007 Posted April 26, 2007 I have been with my girlfriend in a long distance relationship for about 3 years. I am gay and my girlfriend has also always claimed to be. However, i recently found out she shared a kiss with a guy. Is this a big deal? At first i was all set to leave but she said it was only because she thought she might be bisexual and had to figure out who she was. She says she has feelings for this guy (they have a history) but i'm the one she really wants. I forgave her a few weeks ago but i'm now finding it difficult to think about. I just don't know if i'm setting myself up to be hurt. We're long distance so trust is something thats already more difficult in our situation. I really really really love her but should i stay or should i go?
mopar crazy Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 It's up to you if you want to stay or go, no one can tell you what you should do. You have to follow your heart. As for the kiss, I would say it's a big deal. If you are in a CR w/ this girl then what she did was wrong. IMO I would take a break for awhile so she can figure out what she wants.
4whatItsWorth Posted April 28, 2007 Posted April 28, 2007 If she was the one to tell you about the kiss, I think it was because she felt guilt and wanted varification from you that she didn't commit any adultery, that she just "tried it out". In her head, she is trying to make herself feel like she did nothing wrong. If she wanted to find out, she should take a break from the relationship before she goes off kissing other ppl. How is there a difference between kissing another girl than a guy? I'd still be as offended! It's cheating wheather or not she is gay.
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