joel Posted April 26, 2007 Posted April 26, 2007 ok my question is how do u get a girl be it a girl -aquiantances, classmate in college, girl u met in library, girl u met from off the net, co worker...etc to be a friends with benefits, or no strings attach fun, casual sex girl. i chattin with this girl off a dating web site and i asked if she was into f** buddies ,and she didn;t answer witha reply and 1 day later she tells me shes not intersted in a man w** my question is how do u make a girl be it anywhere to be ur nsa, friends with benefits. thats what i want ,but i don;t now how abouts to go and get it. i got friends who are girls, but we just chit chat about school, life, shoppin, our lifes and what not. seems like a lot of girls i so called hang out are prudes-or maybe i am doin something wrong. how can i get em horny , how can i get em interested and intothe bed room. do i have to wine and dine em, from what i read in other posts and forums, all the did was hang out , chit chat and then back to his/her place and do it. what can i do to get a girl to be my friends with benefits , i just want casual fun -nothins serious
sweetasugar Posted April 26, 2007 Posted April 26, 2007 well coming from a females perspective, the only times ive actually thought about getting physical with a guy friend is when i know he wants it but he's modest 1. flirt. flirt a lot! 2. compliment her, in a modest way. "why do you have to be so cute?" "you always make me laugh" "wow your eyes are so green" " you look really good today" "did you do something different to your hair, looks good" 3.touch her back for a second next time she makes you laugh 4.get almost to close to her in a crowded space making quick eye contact 5. be calm no girl likes a guy too pushy or excited and one last tip no girl likes to have the label friends with benefits, so just let her no your plans of not having a girlfriend and just having fun
Enema Posted April 26, 2007 Posted April 26, 2007 LoL, you're a funny guy. Finding a woman that is interested in a NSA relationship is very rare, you can't just "make" any old woman "horny and interested". It strikes me that your attitude about this is all wrong. I don't really know how to fix you either.
Brushfire Posted April 28, 2007 Posted April 28, 2007 This is interesting. How then do most friends-with-benefits and no-strings-attached sexual relationships happen?
filiasan Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 ok my question is how do u get a girl be it a girl -aquiantances, classmate in college, girl u met in library, girl u met from off the net, co worker...etc to be a friends with benefits, or no strings attach fun, casual sex girl. i chattin with this girl off a dating web site and i asked if she was into f** buddies ,and she didn;t answer witha reply and 1 day later she tells me shes not intersted in a man w** my question is how do u make a girl be it anywhere to be ur nsa, friends with benefits. thats what i want ,but i don;t now how abouts to go and get it. i got friends who are girls, but we just chit chat about school, life, shoppin, our lifes and what not. seems like a lot of girls i so called hang out are prudes-or maybe i am doin something wrong. how can i get em horny , how can i get em interested and intothe bed room. do i have to wine and dine em, from what i read in other posts and forums, all the did was hang out , chit chat and then back to his/her place and do it. what can i do to get a girl to be my friends with benefits , i just want casual fun -nothins serious You can't. You're better off to find a girl who is into that stuff. One who is not interested in FWB is not going to suddenly change her mind.
SydneyHeart Posted May 6, 2007 Posted May 6, 2007 Get her really drunk? No no no no, really you pretty much can't 'make' someone interested in that. Just play the numbers game. Be honest about what you want, don't be a swine and pretend you want more, be honest and say you are not looking for anything serious right now. Then when she says no thanks, ask another hundred. Probably one in every 200 will say yes.....just keep asking! Keep in mind that females can pretty much get sex whenever they want it for free. Anywhere, anytime. So you'd better let them know why you are so special. Would def help if you let them know you were well endowed and very skilled and considerate (unless that's a lie...). Might help if you say you don't even want her to touch you, you want it to be all about her, you just are in the mood to make her scream, something like that might help. Course if all goes well, you'll get yours too.
Salicious Crumb Posted May 6, 2007 Posted May 6, 2007 ok my question is how do u get a girl be it a girl -aquiantances, classmate in college, girl u met in library, girl u met from off the net, co worker...etc to be a friends with benefits, or no strings attach fun, casual sex girl. From what I understand by hearing most women...all ya gotta do is be an as$$hole and a player...and they'll jump right in yer bed.
che_jesse Posted May 6, 2007 Posted May 6, 2007 These posts are always funny. The first thing I want you to do is make a list of all of the things that you can offer a NSA partner that other men your age can not. The second thing I want you to do is go to the library, starbucks on campus, or sporting game of any sort and look at the other men there, make sure that you are: 1) more attractive 2) have more charisma 3) are a better lover 4) are overall more applealing If you fail on any of these compaired to any of the other men then it probably will not happen because your potential partner has other people to pick from. Speaking as a woman I have had NSA partners in the past and belive me when I tell you that there is nothing the man could have done to sway my mind to or from it. Also be weary that there are losts of women out there that tell you they are ok with NSA but are really desperate and crazy and will go pscho on you eventually.
Guest Posted May 6, 2007 Posted May 6, 2007 These posts are always funny. The first thing I want you to do is make a list of all of the things that you can offer a NSA partner that other men your age can not. The second thing I want you to do is go to the library, starbucks on campus, or sporting game of any sort and look at the other men there, make sure that you are: 1) more attractive 2) have more charisma 3) are a better lover 4) are overall more applealing If you fail on any of these compaired to any of the other men then it probably will not happen because your potential partner has other people to pick from. Interesting... In cases like flings or other no-strings situations, how would anyone know what the other "has to offer"? I'm curious just how anyone is supposed to know whether they're a better lover than another unknown person. Men also can have other people to pick from, though. How do no-strings-attached situations happen in real life then?
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