krzr Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 its been like 8 months since my girl broke up with me and the pain is gone and all that but the missing is still there. i think im at the point where im close to finally letting go and i seem to be gripping onto it more and more even thou what im holding onto is nothing but good memories now. i come to ls daily and read all the threads im just wondering if this has been hurting me or helping me it seems to be helping myself in a way grip my limbo even more.
searchingforanswers Posted April 28, 2007 Posted April 28, 2007 I understand you completely. It's the question of whether hanging on to the hurt is a way of holding the relationship. I battle with this too. My ex left me about 5 months ago and I still get random bouts of depression and I wonder if it's healthy to let go by venting here or if coming here turns into a crutch to hold on. I tread lightly and perhaps that's really all you can do. Be aware of how you feel you're hanging and do your best to move forward. Good luck. It'll be ok. It has to otherwise we're all in a boatload of trouble.
Trialbyfire Posted April 28, 2007 Posted April 28, 2007 If the pain is gone, maybe you're just missing the closeness of a relationship. I hope you've been dating and getting to know others in this process. You might be ready for a new future with someone else now.
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