smith604 Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 I am so upset right now as i posted before my gf broke up with me for a kid she meet off the internet games and he is still in hs after 5 years but he has changed his myspace name to her baby boy and also has a video with her and the 2 kids for everyone to see she called me yesterday and said she still loves me but still said she hasnt thought about if they are going to be together or if she wants to come back to me but what she posted and what he said on his website was he is moveing down here with her when he gets out of hs i am trying to deal with this but its hard becuse i only have a hs education so she says i need to stop working hs jobs well wtf do you hink hes gonna get with no education burger king oh yeh that will make them lots of cash lol so i can deal with the fact we are not together but how do you deal with the fact she has another person she cant really know very good she has only talk to him by phone and email for like 3 weeks????
Enema Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 You need to stop wasting time and energy on this woman. She is only maintaining contact with you as you're a backup guy in case her new relationship fails. She'll come running back when she realizes the new guy isn't right for her, but she'll only stay with you until she finds someone else again. Drop her from your life now, and forever.
Author smith604 Posted April 25, 2007 Author Posted April 25, 2007 You are right about her I need to drop her from my life forever what makes it hard she was my best freind for almost 10 years now and i hate looseing a gf as well as a freind but i am going to try to change my outlook on life and try my best to focus more on my 2 kids then worrie about her so much and get my life back together
annabelle75 Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 She is only maintaining contact with you as you're a backup guy in case her new relationship fails. BINGO. Don't let yourself get sucked back in to her life when things with hs boy fall apart. And incase you haven't already figured this out, any woman with 2 kids that hooks up with a boy in highschool that she met online is an idiot. Do you really want to be with an idiot? I hope not. This girls problems got problems. You don't need her.
Icantletgo Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 Sounds like trailer park trash. 1. you need to not look at their myspace. I use to do that, drove me crazy, made me cry, made me paranoid. STOP IT. 2. go back to school. if you are not the college type at least enlist in those vocational 6-9 month programs. you can get out and make 12-16 bucks an hour. It is your time for "revenge". go out, be happy, get a better job. show her what you can be. In the time it takes you to do all this, you will be over her and she will be miserable with her jailbait.
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