bonehead Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 No its not me. I know someone who is dating a woman who is divorced. Her divorce was partly due to an affair. She dropped contact with her affair partner 3 years ago. Claims they had been really good friends before the affair. Out of the blue a few months ago she renewed contact because she felt bad about the way things ended. Since then she has admitted he wants to pick the relationship back up and claims she has no desire to. He has bought her a couple little gifts, and has given her an IPOD which he claims came with a computer he bought over a year ago. She says he has made some remarks that she wasnt comfortable with and she told him so and he has let up on them a bit. I say she needs to tell him flat out and anything less is leading him on, or at least saying its a maybe. Any thoughts?
Tomcat33 Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 I say she needs to tell him flat out and anything less is leading him on, or at least saying its a maybe. Any thoughts? Absolutely! I totally agree.
Jinxx Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 I say she needs to tell him flat out and anything less is leading him on, or at least saying its a maybe. Totally agree.
Author bonehead Posted April 25, 2007 Author Posted April 25, 2007 Its not even the fact its an ex affair partner. Its the fact he has made his intentions KNOWN. Are people that blind? Or is she lying and wants the attention?
Chapter2 Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 Out of the blue a few months ago she renewed contact because she felt bad about the way things ended. Since then she has admitted he wants to pick the relationship back up and claims she has no desire to. I don't buy her reason...when people make contact after so long and then claim they're not interested it seems to me she just wanted reassurance that she still "had him" if she wanted him. Seems if she really wanted the best for him (as her regret of how things ended implies) then she'd leave him alone. She needed an ego stroke and now she's claiming innocence after she poked the bear.
Tomcat33 Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 Its not even the fact its an ex affair partner. Its the fact he has made his intentions KNOWN. Are people that blind? Or is she lying and wants the attention? I think she loves the attention. I wonder if that was not what was in if for her even back when the affair was going on.... It's not right what she is doing, try to talk some sense into her she is only going to screw with this man's head again and it will set him back by three years, basically to how it felt when the A ended.
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