missy121 Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 I have been dating this guy for about two months now. He is not the problem...it is one of my close guy friends. I had a huge crush on my guy friend for probably about a year and he knew I liked him but never did anything about it and basically said he wasn't interested in a relationship. So that was fine...whatever...I moved on. Since I have been with this new guy, my friend has almost altogether stopped talking to me and is acting very jealous that I have a boyfriend now. I confronted him about it last week and he was fine for a day or two but then went back to acting jealous and not speaking to me. I am just confused because he is the one who told me that he didn't like me in that way but then why is he acting so jealous?? I tried to make plans to go out over the weekend and he said in a pretty snippy tone,"Is your boy coming?" I don't know what to make of all this...could it be that he did like me and that is why he is so jealous now that I have moved on??
VirtualInsanity Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 I have been dating this guy for about two months now. He is not the problem...it is one of my close guy friends. I had a huge crush on my guy friend for probably about a year and he knew I liked him but never did anything about it and basically said he wasn't interested in a relationship. So that was fine...whatever...I moved on. Since I have been with this new guy, my friend has almost altogether stopped talking to me and is acting very jealous that I have a boyfriend now. I confronted him about it last week and he was fine for a day or two but then went back to acting jealous and not speaking to me. I am just confused because he is the one who told me that he didn't like me in that way but then why is he acting so jealous?? I tried to make plans to go out over the weekend and he said in a pretty snippy tone,"Is your boy coming?" I don't know what to make of all this...could it be that he did like me and that is why he is so jealous now that I have moved on?? Missy, If your attached, why do you care what the other guy thinks?
Enema Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 Of course he's jealous. Even though he said he didn't want a relationship with you, he still sees you as his "property".
Author missy121 Posted April 25, 2007 Author Posted April 25, 2007 Missy, If your attached, why do you care what the other guy thinks? We have been friends for a couple years and I don't want to lose our friendship. But the way he is acting I think it will come to that.
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