How to quickly tell if he's an "angry" and/or "bitter" man?

[tanbark813]

women choose which men they want to be with....and the more things they have going for them then the more men they have to choose from. easy as pie. men generally have little say in the matter.

 

the majority of relationships are started AND ended by the female.

 

You crack me up, BETA.

[alphamale]

You crack me up, BETA.

ok well we'll start another thread and see what people say...that should help you to understand.

[tanbark813]

ok well we'll start another thread and see what people say...that should help you to understand.

 

If you want to start a thread about not being able to score chicks be my guest.

[Star Gazer]

If you want to start a thread about not being able to score chicks be my guest.

 

 

Glass houses... 3 months...

 

Like I said, drive fast!

[tanbark813]

Glass houses... 3 months...

 

Like I said, drive fast!

 

Wait, is this you choosing or me choosing? These things are always so confusing. I'm glad we have BETA around.

[alphamale]

Wait, is this you choosing or me choosing? These things are always so confusing. I'm glad we have BETA around.

whatever you say TAN FART

[tanbark813]

whatever you say TAN FART

 

Don't be jealous.

[Star Gazer]

whatever you say TAN FART

 

:lmao:

[Salicious Crumb]

women choose which men they want to be with.

 

 

LOL...when I read this, it reminded me of the scene in Borat where the driving instructor told him in the US a woman has the right to choose who she has sex with and Borat said "What?????"

[Art_Critic]

whatever you say TAN FART

 

Is that the same as calling someone an old fart ?

[tanbark813]

LOL...when I read this, it reminded me of the scene in Borat where the driving instructor told him in the US a woman has the right to choose who she has sex with and Borat said "What?????"

 

 

I love that movie.

[Virgo1982]

I would think that any kind of negative talk when on a date with a guy in general could mean bad news..

Depending on the negativity should tell you where it is going to surface in the relationship.

 

If he makes comments about how much of a bitch his ExW is then you can assured that he is bitter and will say the same thing about you later on.

or if he says he hates his ex.. same difference..

 

I think in general when getting to know someone that we try top put our best foot forward and if they don't that is a red flag...

 

It's kinda like that job interview rule: don't speak bad words about past employers. It says something about you. Now, nobody expects date conversation to be like a job interview, but it does turn women off to hear men refer to past partners as b*tches or just being really negative about them.

 

Now, if he keeps attracting b*tches, there's only one problem:

 

1) Him

 

He makes the wrong choice or his behavior is pushing them away. If we keep trying the same thing and expect a different result, that is crazy. Sometimes we have to step out of our element and try new things. Change is good-sometimes...

[Guest]

OP, have you ever thought about things from a different perspective? Maybe you'll get further along if you change your question to, "What is it that I do that brings out men's bitter side?" If you look deeply, with the help of a therapist or at least someone *neutral* who knows you well (kind of hard to find the latter), and you find no behaviors that could be contributing to your situation, *then* and only then can you start asking your original question. You're being unfair when you presumptively label these men as "bitter" - not just to them, but to yourself. If you can't even entertain the possibility of some responsibility in this mess, you'll just keep banging your head into the same wall over & over, and wonder why it hurts!

[johan]

 

I love that movie.

 

It bugs me that the DVD cover for Borat has a Cyrillic character in the title. But it's the wrong one. I assume we are to pronounce the rest of the characters as if they were English, because the R is not backwards. So the title should be pronounced "Bordt". If you prounounce the whole thing in Cyrillic (pretending the R was just written backwards), then it would be "voyadt".

[tanbark813]

It bugs me that the DVD cover for Borat has a Cyrillic character in the title. But it's the wrong one. I assume we are to pronounce the rest of the characters as if they were English, because the R is not backwards. So the title should be pronounced "Bordt". If you prounounce the whole thing in Cyrillic (pretending the R was just written backwards), then it would be "voyadt".

 

Agreed. Along those same lines, it bugs me when the Greek sigma character is used in place of 'E' in English words.

[Tony]

This thread has veered WAY off topic and no longer serves any useful purpose except as a home to back and forth banter. Closed!