Guest Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 Im having a bit of a problem with my sister regarding friends. firstly shes my twin and were extremly close which is a good thing, i tell her pretty much everything and i always introduce her to people i know because shes like the most important person in my life. Anyway we ended up going to the same uni after going to different schools (she didnt get the grades for her other uni and this one was her back up). to start with it was really good, i had a really hard time so it was nice that she was always there to speak to. We decided though that we would have spererate groups of friends because having the same ones would be to wierd and we would have no space, espically as we had sperate groups back home. This was fine by me and although we introuduced each other to people it seemed to be working. Were both very friendly people so making friends was ok for us, however i made an active effort not to get involved with any people she knew because of what we had said, i didnt hang out with them even if i got on with them really well, of course some of our friends over lapped but normally it was fine. Recently i introduced her to my group of friends that iv really been hanging out with the most, she really clicked with this one girl, more so than i did but i accepted that and said it was fine for them to hang out. now its getting a bit out of control, she always seems to be with my friends and not hers and its really starting to annoy me, i dont want her always there, she never listens to any of my objections and said that she wouldnt have a problem with me hanging out with her friends even though she really would Do you think im being to harsh? And is there away to fix this without hurting people involved, its really affecting the relationship with my sister and i dont want that to happen at all. Thanks
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