Guest Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 My ex broke up with me last week. We were together for about two months. I sent him an email last week because he had some stuff of mine that I needed back immediately, and of course in the email I pretended that I wasn't upset anymore. I recieved one back of him telling me to realize that there is a good side to everything, and that he's not going to say anything overstated like "let's be friends", but he does wish it would happen. This has been the hardest break up I've had to endure yet, mainly because I broke down a lot of barriers for/with him. The thing is, I'm so extremely confused about why it is we broke up that I don't think I'm going to be able to get any perspective unless I know. I realize he may even not know, but I think he has an idea. So, my question is: should I contact him via IM or a mutual friend to ask him to help me understand why we broke up, or should I just stick with NC from now on, now that I'm getting my stuff back?
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