john 07 Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 So my ex broke it off with me after 7 years. A week later shes with a guy i know. They have been togather for 5 or 6 weeks. Im in the healing process. I find out today that something bad is going on in her life. I felt that as a person who spent alot of time with her, I felt I should email her to console her. Was this the right thing to do? yes no?? i had to break NC for this.
Shandy Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 Well, I think it shows that you're concerned about other people's wellbeing, which is a good trait. But since she left you for another guy and you're still healing, you shouldn't contact her anymore. She knows you care, and that should be enough.
2ndIINone Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 I find out today that something bad is going on in her life. depends what the something bad was.... sick parent, family member? Or did she break a nail? 7 years and a week later with someone else??? I wouldn't have written her unless she had a death in the family. And wouldn't respond if she writes you back.
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