aaronburdett Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 well my girl freind broke up with me about about 1 1/2 weeks ago and she got realy messed up in the head and im confoused and i asked my self im i gay or not i no i ant cause i look @ girls all the time and want to date them and love girls just the thought runs though my head every so often and it drves me nuts becuase i no i ant gay and dont want 2 be gay cause i like girls , can any1 help me plz cause i no im stright and love woman but i always ask myself some times im i?
Lauriebell82 Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 did ur gf break up with u because she thinks u may be gay? why do u have these feelings? if u like women and are sexually attracted to them then ur heterosexual. what makes u think ur gay? can u give us some instances?
Author aaronburdett Posted April 24, 2007 Author Posted April 24, 2007 no she broke up with me cause I was so called "being a ass",and y do i have these feeling is cause i look @ girls butts all the time but if there is a guy by a girl ill be paying mind to the girl its just when i look away my eyes glance @ the dudes butt sometimes and i freak out about it
Lauriebell82 Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 no she broke up with me cause I was so called "being a ass",and y do i have these feeling is cause i look @ girls butts all the time but if there is a guy by a girl ill be paying mind to the girl its just when i look away my eyes glance @ the dudes butt sometimes and i freak out about it hmm well, ur looking soley and the girl and not even thinking about the guy? is that what ur saying? i guess i dont quite understand what ur asking. it sounds like ur paranoid about the situation or that u feel u may be gay and are scared. if u have no interest in guys and are not attracted to them than ur not gay. i sometimes will inadvertantly glance at a girl's chest or something, it doenst mean i'm checking her out or anything. why are u so scared of this? im just wondering what the deeper issue is here, because from what u've said i'm confused about why u think that u are gay.
Author aaronburdett Posted April 24, 2007 Author Posted April 24, 2007 yea im not even thinking about the dude im paying mind 2 the girl
Lauriebell82 Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 yea im not even thinking about the dude im paying mind 2 the girl then ur fine..i'm still curious why u are worried about this though. not to sound mean or anything but being paranoid that ur gay cause u inadvertaintly glanced at some dude's butt while checking out a girl usually its something that crosses someone's mind. u should think about why u are thinking/worrying about this so much.
Enema Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 This thread is strange. If you find men sexually attractive and love the thought of being intimate with a man then you're probably gay. If you occassionally glance at a man's body, but are attracted to girls... you're not gay.
Lauriebell82 Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 This thread is strange. If you find men sexually attractive and love the thought of being intimate with a man then you're probably gay. If you occassionally glance at a man's body, but are attracted to girls... you're not gay. yeah i second that motion..i actually dont understand why u are asking this aaron..i mean are u homophobic or scared of being gay? and why? these are not normal idiologies
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