VirtualInsanity Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 Hang on, am I kidding? Am I too particular? Who knows, I guess time will tell. You tell me. Sorry been long day & I have a monster headache.
Trialbyfire Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 You tell me. Sorry been long day & I have a monster headache. Headaches suck, don't they. Hope you've taken something for it so you can try to shake it faster.
VirtualInsanity Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 Headaches suck, don't they. Hope you've taken something for it so you can try to shake it faster. Yes they do. It's a stress one so only way to get rid of it is to sleep.
tanbark813 Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 Yes they do. It's a stress one so only way to get rid of it is to sleep. You wouldn't be so stressed if you got laid more.
VirtualInsanity Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 You wouldn't be so stressed if you got laid more. Probably less bitchy too.
boshemia Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 So I'm going to have to go with no answer on this one as usual. I'm 34 and I had a wild youth, so lets suffice it to say that I'm at the higher end of the spectrum. I used to feel terribly guilty about it, it was a large contributor to my self-esteem issues, and strangely my self-esteem issues were a large contributor to my number of partners. It was a vicious cycle, either way it ended up with self loathing. I'm not saying go out and sleep with every guy you see, but don't allow yourself to feel guilty about it either. What's fun is fun and what's done is done. Once I accepted the fact I couldn't go back and change it, I had to just deal with it. I can't spend the rest of my life feeling guilty about something I did in the past... You shouldn't either. Check back over previous posts on this topic and you find that this is a very gender biased subject. The majority of posts say that men can get away with more partners than women. People still call a girl who sleeps around bad names, and congratulate the guys who do the same. They say that porn is demeaning to women, but I've never once heard anyone say it's demeaning to men. Good Lord, Women have sex drives too... it's about time we learned to use them without feeling guilty.
pelagicsands Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 Am I too particular? Who knows, I guess time will tell. Well, lately you seem to be nailing people indiscriminately. You should take more pride in your public responsibility.
Trialbyfire Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 Well, lately you seem to be nailing people indiscriminately. You should take more pride in your public responsibility. Why? I keep hearing on LS, that life should be experienced to the fullest. So, it's now become my new motto. Ms. Crabtree is now firmly in the driver's seat...
pelagicsands Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 I keep hearing on LS, That's just the voice in your head.
Trialbyfire Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 That's just the voice in your head. Are you now doing your civic duty? Practice what you preach...
Author TallNYGirl Posted April 25, 2007 Author Posted April 25, 2007 Bosh - Yeah u r sooo right. Why should I feel guilty about something i did in my past. I never had a wild side to me, i always had boyfriends. My single friends were always the wild ones having 1 night stands & threesomes!! YUK, i can't even imagine! Yes this is a very biase conversation. As far back as I could remember for guys to have a lot of girls, they were studs. For women, they were pigs. I don't consider myself easy cause 11 of my 12 men were all boyfriends & I waited 2 - 3 months to sleep with them. Except this last one of course! I guess i'm just not used to having meaningless sex, & thats why its bothering me. I'll get over it! Thanks all
pelagicsands Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 I guess i'm just not used to having meaningless sex, It takes practice. Keep trying. If you're serious about enjoying meaningless sex, then you will make yourself have fun. On the other hand, you never really get used to feeling used.
Author TallNYGirl Posted April 25, 2007 Author Posted April 25, 2007 Pelagicsands NO meaningless sex is not my style, obviously, I had to come here & talk about it. Know I know for sure that it doesn't sit well with me. I won't let it happen again. I'll stick to sex in committed relationships! No I don't think I was exactly used. & why can't i say I used him! hahaha I have hung out with this guy before & we have been emailing each other at work ever since last Friday & we are hanging out again next friday! So I don't take it like i was used! If i was, I'd never hear from him again!
pelagicsands Posted April 25, 2007 Posted April 25, 2007 So I don't take it like i was used! If i was, I'd never hear from him again! I think he liked it. He probably wants to do it again.
Author TallNYGirl Posted April 25, 2007 Author Posted April 25, 2007 Pel - hahah u r too funny. If it happened already, why not happened again, the damage is already done! hahah Whats the difference if its 1 time or 10 times hahahahah.
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