Icantletgo Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 My ex, whom I was with for 3 years and who cheated on me for 6 months and whom I initated NC with 4 days ago, is celebrating his bday today. Will he even notice that I won't call/text him??? I mean, I'm not going to...but I just wonder.....GAWD!
krzr Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 ya he will notice. my ex broke up with me and txted me on what would have been the 3 year anniversary and wrote hey just want u to know i didnt forget about today. so they think of u more than u would think.
loveinlife Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 Im pretty sure he will notice. Its definitely a change for him. As for your ex, how things or the types of feelings he will have we will not know. Keep thinking what is benificial for you right now. Hope you are doing good. =)
silentcharon Posted April 24, 2007 Posted April 24, 2007 He'll notice.... and who cares? The bastard cheated on you. He doesn't deserve anything from you, not even a 'happy birthday'. My ex told me he really noticed my absence this past christmas, and thought about me a lot during the holidays even when he was dating another girl. I'll bet it's the case with your ex as well. Keep up the good work with NC!
Author Icantletgo Posted April 24, 2007 Author Posted April 24, 2007 thanks for the support guys. I know i shoudln't care if he remembers or cares or not. But I do. I just want him to miss me since I am trying so hard to forget him. Oh well tomorrow is another day and tomorrow will be NC 5. I know once I make NC 14, I will be great!
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