Sad, really. Very stupid and sad.

[elliann679]

I am SO MAD RIGHT NOW I WANT TO SCREAM!

 

So, a couple of months after my boyfriend Ryan and I got together, we hooked up my best friend Kellie with his good friend Nick, because she had just broken up with her boyfriend of three years and I honestly thought she just needed some good sex. Kellie and I have been best friends since seventh grade (we're both 22 now)... so that's a really long time to be friends with someone.

 

Needless to say, she got swept away with Nick (they hooked up only a mere FIFTEEN DAYS after she broke up with her LTR bf) and thus, stopped hanging out with me and stopped hanging out with her other friends, who happen to be my pals, too. Every time she DID hang out with us, she brought her little pet along. (That's what we started calling Nick.)

 

So, sometimes, when I called her to hang out, and wanted her to go to eat with me or go to the bar with me, she started asking me if it was "ok" if Nick came along, and after a while I got really sick of it and just stopped wanting to hang out with her all together. (I don't hang out with Ryan every day! Especially when it's just supposed to be me and the girls!)

 

One day, Ryan was acting really, really weird with me, so I called Kellie and asked her to talk to Nick. When I asked him if anything was going on with Ryan, he said he didn't know. So I just hung up. Me and Ryan had a fight and Nick called him to tell him that he should "get the %&* away from me". (!) Kellie didn't stand up for me at all.

 

Then I found out that something I had said about Ryan to Kellie got back to him...because she couldn't keep her big mouth shut to the new "love of her life"! Some confidant!

 

Later that night, Kellie and Nick had the nerve to show up at my house to "visit my roommates". (I knew they were just testing me.) I, of course, gave them the silent treatment even though what I REALLY wanted to do was punch them both in the face. That night, I was hanging out with my roommates and one of my ex-flings, who is also friends with me and my roommate, and it was warm out so I was wearing very short shorts.

 

The next day, Kellie called me (for the first time in weeks) to tell me what a "b*$%" I was... (this was after Nick called Ryan and told him that I was a horrible person for giving them the silent treatment after they told him to get away from me), and THEN...THEN she reprimanded me for wearing shorts in front of my ex while my boyfriend wasn't around! You have GOT to be kidding me!

 

Later that week, they showed up at the bar Ryan and I were at. I tried to be civil and make small talk with them, but they were making out the entire time so I really didn't want to deal with it. Ryan asked if I wanted to go hang out with them later and I said that was fine. We went to their house, and my head started to spin from all the drinking. I told them I was sick, went and sat in Ryan's car for twenty minutes until he took me home.

 

After we were driving a ways, Ryan turned to me and said, "You know, both Kellie and Nick told me that they wouldn't blame me if I just wanted to leave you."

 

I haven't spoken to either of them since. I really just want to punch the living daylights out of her... what do you guys think I should do? And obviously Ryan loves me enough not to listen to them...

 

Even though he does stand up for them sometimes! GOD! Sometimes I just want to let them all have a big orgy since they're all so in love.

 

I think it's just great she could throw away an entire decade of friendship for someone she's known for two months!

 

ARGH!

 

Oh, and by the way, Kellie has thrown away every friendship she has for this man. Her own SISTER told everyone she hasn't talked to her in forever, and when she does, all she talks about is Nick! That's fine...but why try to sabotage me?

 

<3

Elli

[sinkerswim]

WOW.

This sounds like something out of my life. Seriously.

I truly feel for you..she is a lousy friend. Dont call her. eventually, she will get hers too. She is not a friend. Screw her. You will find much better friends than her in the future. I know it hurts and you want to just punch her in the face...BELIEVE ME I know!! Just ignore her from now on..get busy with other people. You will feel better.

As for your boyfriend have a serious talk with him. If he is in love with you..he will not associate with them anymore.

Good Luck and let us know what happens.

[monkey00]

Wow talk about selfish. But hey thats how life rolls sometimes, some people are more loyal to others, and some wait to backstab you when you least expect it.

 

But in any case I wouldnt advise trying to accuse her or his friend of anything or try to explain the situation. Remember, the more you accuse them of doing evil things to you, the more your bf will defend them. If you try to explain the situation (if your bf accuses you of X), you'll come off appearing guilty.

 

But hey, just remember karma's a b*tch...couples that ditch their friends for a relationship wont have anyone to turn to once the relationship goes stale.