Guest Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 I have been with my boyfriend for five years now and I mad a big mistake, he causght me lying to him. He called me up one day last week and said i need you to tell me the truth im giving you the chance he wanted to know if i checked his voicemails which i had, and i lied and told him i d did not i went on and on for an hour about how i didnt do it but then the next mornign i broke down and told him i lied. I had gone into his voie mails to dlete a message i had sent and changed my mind about but to do this i went through all his other messages as well I appologozed for lying and i just freaked out i knew he wold be upset about me doing the voviemail thing and couldnt admit it right away. Any way at first he said he would work things out with me but later on that night he said he couldnt do it. He was at my house for 2 hours that night we were both crying and hugging. He said he didnt want to do this and it was so hard, he didnt want to let go of me but he was so hurt that i lied. He told me not to call him because when he hears me upset he gets weak and comes right back to me he also asked me to not pick up if he calls me. We had been kinda living together as i stayed at his apartment 6 out of 7 nights per week so he brought me all my stuff that was at his place. He said maybe we need some time apart to grow and see others and that someday down the road if we meet up this could all work out again. I broke down and called yesterday and all it did was gt him furious at me because he flet i was trying to sucker him back to me. I want to marry this man how do i get him back, is it possible that he is over reacting and will change his mind if i give him not contact for a while ? I NEED ADVICE , i cant let 5 years of my life go down the drain we both still love each other and dont want to be apart HELP
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