Guest Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 I've been dating a fellow for about 10mths now. Within the first month while talking he told me how he was homophobic. (he thinks it's wrong, gross etc.) I told him my views..(I have no problem with gays etc..) A few months later he starts telling me that his two bosses who own the company he works for are a gay couple. He had no problem with working for them as long as they don't try anything on him. I explained that gays don't attack you and force things on you. lol A few weeks later he starts talking about how the boss jokes with him and compilments him. This kind of stuff was brought up every couple of days with me. Fast forward a few months. Our lovemaking has turned into something totally different. It started as normal penetration lovemaking, to him talking non stop about my ass...and how he wants it. He revealed to me that since childhood he has always had an ass fetish when looking at women. Ok fine I thought..but now he doesn't even attempt to penetrate my vagina. He rubs his penis against my anus. (sorry for being graphic) This is all he does now to get off. He makes sure I'm taken care of ..and the lead up to sex is romantic and good..but then he goes into some mode where he closes his eyes and does the ass thing. He is now working at a new job for about two months. In the last couple of weeks he has started to tell me how some co-worker (a married male) is teasing him. Like coming up behind him and rubbing his shoulders..or saying things like "you better watch it or I'll turn gay on you" WTF? He told me that he turned around and told the guy to back off and don't do that. This whole gay stuff is sounding weird to me. These stories come out of the blue and I'm thinking he's making them up. They just seem strange. He works in a blue collar, red neck environment..so I just can't see it happening. How can this gay stuff happen in two different jobs within mths apart? My red flags are flying like crazy and I have even calmly asked him if he thought maybe he (my boyfriend) is gay? He said no. He's always had girlfriends..seemed very popular with the ladies in his younger days and has been married. I know, this means nothing. I know men like anal because it's tighter? The thing is I hadn't had sex in almost 20 yrs...yes 20 yrs LOL when I met him so I was and still am very tight. I haven't done anal with him. I know if I told him to go back to vaginal sex he would..but I don't want to take away any fetish he may have. Maybe we have to compromise. On a side note..he treats me very well, and is very loving and affectionate. I just don't know what to make of this.
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