skper138 Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 I know you guys have read my previous threads regarding my bad break up. Anyway, Friday I realize my ex and that stupid B had been snooping around my myspace page. I am pretty sure he read my dirty little secret blog I wrote. The blog pretty much says that I am seeing someone that him and I know. He is curious and wants to know who that is. He says he doesn’t care about me but is still snooping around my page. Well, Friday night I get a tex from his friend, John asking me what I was up too so I asked him to come over. He told me he was home alone and then told me he was with his friend Jason at his house and then he said that my ex was also with him. he asked me if I would fight with my ex if he came over. Why would he be asking me if my ex could come over? This absolutely shocked me. He later changed his mind and said he wasn’t feeling well so he was going to bed. My ex reading my blog and me getting that tex at 1:00am was a bit fishy. I think that the one texing me was my ex not john. Perhaps he is trying to find out who my dirty little secret is 1)is he looking at my page a sign he cares? 2)What does that texing situation mean? 3) If it was someone very close to him like one of his friends what would be his reaction? 4) Why does he refer to me as a B whenever he talks about me? 5) Why does he hate me so much if I have done nothing?
Tony T Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 1)is he looking at my page a sign he cares? No, just bored and mildly curious. A bit immature. 2)What does that texing situation mean? Nothing better to do that time of night. Attach no significance to this episode other than mild curiosity on his or her part. It's very normal but by no means should be construed as interest. 3) If it was someone very close to him like one of his friends what would be his reaction? I left my crystal ball at the office. 4) Why does he refer to me as a B whenever he talks about me? I left my crystal ball at the office. Most likely he wants to show this other lady that he's not interested in you. 5) Why does he hate me so much if I have done nothing? Immaturity, irrationality, insanity. Again, no crystal ball tonight for me! This is the way it happens a lot of time, until people get older and develop maturity, skill and wisdom. They they can break up and remain friends if they care to. Most of the time, there's not good reason to remain friends and it interferes with future relationships. Rise above all this and move on. Why should you care who stops by your myspace pages. This is all so silly. If you're wanting answers to the questions above, just ask the source straight away. And what will you do with the answers. This is a total waste of time. You'll get a LOT more of his interest and attention if you act like you just don't care. Don't stay on the phone with these friends of his...or him either. Make contact brief if any at all. Move on. Understand that the less interested you act, the more you will drive him crazy.
MikeC Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 The real question is, do you want him back? I mean, you sound like you do. If you truly don't, cut him off.
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