smith604 Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 My girl and i took a liveing together break about 1 mth ago everyday since we talk and email and she says how much she loves me and misses me and to come home so i say ok and now she dont even talk to me write me or anything dont return calls or email and also removed me from her freinds list on yahoo msn and myspace what is going on ??? my other ex's just said i dont wanna see you goodbye they didnt play a game like she is doing any help would be nice
MattNZ Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 Geez she sounds like a confused girl!! Sounds like she was playing some strange game??? For your own benefit, you need to know where you stand with this so you can either move on and heal, or devote time to make it work. If she isn't returning calls or emails after chasing you during the break, one assumes that she has made her mind up. However, that is not fair on you because you NEED to know the situation. Is there anyway you can confront her face-to-face about this? As hurtful as it might be, you do need to know where you stand for your own mental health! Believe me, being in limbo is not a nice place to be and drains all your energy!!! Might get shot down in flames for suggesting you meet her - but all input helps I guess.
Author smith604 Posted April 23, 2007 Author Posted April 23, 2007 I found out what was up i went to her myspace account and found that she has found someone else and she told everybody shes in love with him and he is moveing down here with her but she still will not talk to me i had a freind call her she said it was my fault she fell in love with someone she plays a online game with i guess it was going on for mths even when we were together and she was still telling me how she loved me and missed me the day she told this ither guy that now what do i do
annabelle75 Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 Honestly, there really isn't anything you can do if you arehoping to get her back. It seems that maybe she was just stringing you along incase things didn't work out with the new guy. I doubt it wil be much consolation now, but knowing how these online gaming relationships normally work out (I'm highly involved in the online poker community), this guy will probably never move to be near here and the relationship will probably end soem time in the near future. People tend to get caught up in online relationships and it is a rude awakening when they try to translate it into real life and it doesn't work. Wish there was more I could say to help you. I know how much this hurts. Keep posting here and let it all out. We all know what you are going through.
MikeC Posted April 23, 2007 Posted April 23, 2007 If girls play games, dump them. Don't let them mess with your head man. Remove her from your life. Either she'll get the hint or not. It isn't your problem anymore. SHE made the decision, not you. So let it go.
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