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[JonjMie]

Hows it going ? Hope the new job is working out OK, how are the girls, I miss them, have they asked about me ?

 

Im gutted you dumped me, even more so via text, wish you hadnt gone through Christmas making things look OK when they clearly werent, I could have spent the time with my own daughters instead of feeling like a spare prick at a wedding.

 

You started dating so soon ? did I mean that little to you ? that hurts that your out there dating and doing other stuff with someone else when we had plans for moving in together this year.

 

Anyway, Im doing OK, started dating, still think about you and what we could have had, I honestly dont think you will find that anywhere else but you tried to dump me four times and I battled back. I really did love you and your kids, I would have done anything to make sure you were safe, thats rare from me but I also listened to all your crap about your ex, drove you places. when all the time you were checking out on me.

 

I miss you but wont ever forgive you, I hope I never have to bump into you again, stay away from my neck of the woods please.

 

Oh and enjoy the christmas presents I went to town on for you and the kids.

 

Thanks for nothing.

 

Twat

[Hello201]

Not every friendship lasts a life time , what does last is the pain when its gone.

Only you know the real reason you broke up with me after we had an amazing Friday , Saturday morning and Sunday and together.

You told me a reason but that didn't make sense . I could surmise as to the real reason but to be honest which I've always been with you its not with my time and effort .

Every time we've seen each other since which has been instigated by me you've cried , why is that . oh sorry one time you wanted to see me new years ever and the chocolate , then you asked me to wait and I said yes. Did you say it because it was easy ? The Wednesday before your interview when I bumped into you , you couldn't make eye contact with me , I never took my eyes off of you . today I could feel your pain , guilt , sadness , the fact I turned up ? And every now and again I let your guard down and I start to feel like I'm falling in again today was one of them . but I get a wake up call and reality comes back , such a shame .

I hope you take this with you honesty is everything in a friendship and in a relationship, and I don't think you've been honest with me. You were the one person I trusted with everything and ....

So this is it then . don't feel bad you make your own path in your life as I do. Is the choice you've made the right one ? Well you're going to find out aren't you

Good luck

[FixItCris]

I'm struggling with the urge to contact you. I know I'm like a junkie, just need a quick fix. I also know you couldn't give a sh*t about me. It amazes me how wrong I was about you. How all the things you said were all just bullsh*t. How you could lie to me about all the reasons for breaking up, and how I believed you. I don't know if you're with him still, but I'm sure you are. I sure you'll stay with him for a long time. Which hurts too. You told me nobody had ever treated you as well as I did, and yet you could only give me 8 months of your time. I look back at all the red flags I ignored so early on in the relationship, I was an idiot. You were beautiful, smart, funny, motivated, sexy as hell, and I guess once I had reminded you of all those things enough you were done with me. You did it the most heartless cowardly way possible though, and then you even tried to turn it all on me and make it my fault. You messed my head up so bad, I actually thought I had gone crazy. I wonder what you told your friends and family about me? Do they hate me too? I just don't get it.

[FixItCris]

I don't think I ever told you, The **** you said to me when you broke up with me were exactly the same as my ex-wife, who you hated so much for what she did to me. How ironic.

[JonjMie]

I'm struggling with the urge to contact you. I know I'm like a junkie, just need a quick fix. I also know you couldn't give a sh*t about me. It amazes me how wrong I was about you. How all the things you said were all just bullsh*t. How you could lie to me about all the reasons for breaking up, and how I believed you. I don't know if you're with him still, but I'm sure you are. I sure you'll stay with him for a long time. Which hurts too. You told me nobody had ever treated you as well as I did, and yet you could only give me 8 months of your time. I look back at all the red flags I ignored so early on in the relationship, I was an idiot. You were beautiful, smart, funny, motivated, sexy as hell, and I guess once I had reminded you of all those things enough you were done with me. You did it the most heartless cowardly way possible though, and then you even tried to turn it all on me and make it my fault. You messed my head up so bad, I actually thought I had gone crazy. I wonder what you told your friends and family about me? Do they hate me too? I just don't get it.

 

Jesus this could be my letter.

[bigtrouble]

You made me realize the real you.

You wanted out of our relationship.

You thought I was less than you deserve.

You were moving up and I was just dead weight.

You wanted more, much, much, more.

You could not find a man to love you as much as I did.

You can't get a Man that is equally committed.

You settled for a Woman...

 

One day you will grow up and see the real world

and its not a bed of roses with butterflies flying around.

 

Love and commitment brings happiness... not the other way around.

 

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I wouldn't dream sending this one but I would love to say this to her face.

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[JFReyes]

I don't get it, there must be something wrong with me. It's been 1 1/2 years since you dumped me unfairly after 10 years together; I'm 4 months into a new relationship with a wonderful woman (this is not a rebound); I know you so well that I bet you're alone and feeling lonely with only your kids and female coworkers for a social circle; you've been LC/NC for all this time; yet I can't still shake you out of my mind. There must be something wrong with me. Lord, please help me get through the end of this.

 

All I want is peace.

:-)

Edited January 22, 2015 by JFReyes

[Chrystopha]

I think I'll finally find myself a therapist or counsellor to talk to. Maybe it will do some good, maybe not. I've not been the same person since I was rejected and I don't like myself sometimes.

[mangetout]

I am moving on, Thank God. Half way there. Better than not at all... The pain and the yearning for you has lessened.

 

I am starting to see the way out. Slowly but surely

[CopingGal]

It's been 3 1/2 years since I dumped your sorry azz. You stopped thinking of me while you were still dating me. You didn't care. Told me you kept me around while you were cheating in case your new relationship didn't work out. I was mad at her and you...mainly at you for so long. I never realized how much of a victim she was- a victim of your lies the same way I was. I didn't realize how you took advantage of her. I didn't realize that you treated her worse than you ever treated me. Now you have moved onto someone else. She looks mentally challenged and it would not surprise me if she was. You need someone who is mentally challenged so that you can maintain complete control. Boy, do I feel sorry for her...so completely sorry for her...to be saddled with a loser like you? Wow, you are the type of person even losers call "loser." Wow. I know what it's like to sleep with scum. You are a worthless piece of trash. The world would be better off if you had never been born. Did you hear me, you worthless piece of trash? THE WORLD WOULD BE BETTER OFF IF YOU HAD NEVER BEEN BORN, you psychotic piece of filth. Thank Goodness I no longer live near you. I haven't seen you in years and I want to keep it that way. You are someone else's problem now. I hope she has a good psychiatrist.

[dezzy1028p]

So far...one month. Still you're in my mind, but I'll be better. You wont pull me back down, because I know the person you are. I'm slowly starting to smile again without you. That's progress and I'm proud of myself.

[FixItCris]

I was doing so well. You were almost gone from my mind. Then I saw you driving. Remember how freaky good my memory was? Yeah, it's still freaky good, but that just means seeing you kickstarted those memories I had all but suppressed. Then I txt you as well. I wish I hadn't. I'm glad I did, because I had some things I wanted to say, but it set my recovery back a few weeks. Then u say you twice in the following two days, and it just sent me spiraling. I need to stay away. I can't afford to see you. It brings up too many memories. I wish I could be grown up and mature about it, but I can't. I must stay away until I have found indifference.

[The Poster]

I have so many great things to tell you babe about improvements I've made in my life. Things that you helped inspire. I wish you'd reach out so I could tell you about it. I think it would make you happy to know you made such a positive impact on me.

 

Unfortunately, I have zero idea of what you think about me or if you even care. I suppose time will give me that answer. I do hope you are doing well.

[KBarletta]

It's been three months since you said you were leaving. Three months, and you are still the first thing I think of when I wake up and the last thing I think of when I go to sleep. I still hear your voice saying goodnight to me when I go to bed. I don't know how much longer that will be true, but it is now. I wish I couldn't remember it so well because it only brings me pain now.

 

Every day I see things that remind me of you and wish I could call you or text you or e-mail you to tell you about them. I wish I could hear you laugh about them and see you smile about them.

 

I have no idea what you are thinking or doing with yourself. Do you miss me? Do you think about me? Do you wish things could have been different? Do you wish we had never met? I do, sometimes.

[leavesonautumn]

Well, J, it's been a few months since I've posted to this thread. I dreamt about you 3 nights ago and have been thinking about you ever since. Thought I had made it, thought you were gone from my mind and then there you are again. Don't understand this pull. I have no urge to contact you or be with you again but I've been feeling nostalgic and an overwhelming sense of sadness regarding you. I can't pinpoint what it could be. I've always had a sixth sense when it came to you and I feel like "something" is going on but I can't focus on it too much as you're not in my life and haven't been for a year.

[me85]

I'm glad we were in LC when we were because you told me you weren't going to the music festival I'm going to this summer and I'm so relived you aren't going. You went to it last year and it sucked for me to see you and your new gf there together. I saw you freaking 3 times. You didn't see me but anyways...I'm so thankful I won't have to worry about seeing you there again. THANK GOD!

 

I'm working out and getting my hot body back. All the drinking over the last year made me gain a little weight. I did the right thing and apologized for the incoherent emails I sent last week and you replied "no worries" and I replied "ok, good." and a peace sign. That was my goodbye. I really am completely over you at this point. You're such a distant memory to me. Like we never even met.

 

I'm miles away from who was only a week ago. It's crazy and hard to put into words but I'm evolving ever so much. Changing so rapidly into the person I'm meant to be...it's a great feeling, moving on. I'm doing really good and I'm honestly very happy despite the backwards steps I took. Those setbacks never lasted long.

 

I don't wish you bad, I don't wish you good...I guess I'm closer and closer to indifference.

[Oneness]

I keep hearing the song "Drive," by the Cars when I think of you. It is haunting and sad, and makes me think of you, all alone and far away from me, and the dreams of us that you shattered along with my heart.

 

Today, I have resisted stalking your FB and your friends FB. I have resisted checking my trash folder to see if you emailed me...NC is the only way. I have not indulged in looking at any pictures of you, listening to old voicemails, readng old texts and emails, and cyber stalking you in anyway. Maybe I am healing...or maybe grief took a day off today.

 

I don't have any illusions that I am done grieving the end of our relationship, or all the abuse I suffered at your hands. But today, I did not cry...

 

"One day, I'm gonna forget your name...and one sweet day, your gonna drown in my lost pain," - Sweet Sacrifice, Evanescense

[Sad26]

You are the most brutal creature ever walked on this planet. Enjoy your life, party as much, and make fun of me as much as you could. Why? because I am helpless and this world is unfair.

[Frank13]

Been three years, and two of NC, but the last two days you were in my dreams. Why?

 

I'm definitely better than I was in the beginning and some days I don't think about you at all anymore, but there still seems to be this tiny sore spot in my heart and I still miss you even after all this time. I can't figure out why because you no longer care.

[FixItCris]

I miss you.

[FixItCris]

I don't miss you.

I miss who you used to be.

I miss who I used to be.

I miss who we used to be.

[goodman223344]

I will make this simple. Loved a woman for at least 12 years. She lied and cheated on me so many times but was always able to manipulate her way out of it. I gave her several warnings to stay away from a guy she has cheated on me with. I seen them together a few times since the warning and i called it quits. ignored her emails that said she just wants to be with me. Then would see her with him. She drinks everyday and is known to be very easy when she is drunk. This has all happened over the last several months almost year. The problem is she lately emailed me saying she loves me, and AND AS WE SPEAK THEM TWO ARE AT A BAR as we speak just a short drive from my house. I would never ever let this lying manipulator back into my life but I AM PISSED.....any advice would be great. Shaking as I am typing this. Sorry

[goodman223344]

you say you love me. you love me. you miss me.. and your at a bar with the dude that ruined us. your a drunk home wrecker who will be a mistress sitting at the bar at age 60. good luck thot....

[CopingGal]

Hello Worthless,

 

How are you doing, you good for nothing whore? Screw you.

[CopingGal]

I will make this simple. Loved a woman for at least 12 years. She lied and cheated on me so many times but was always able to manipulate her way out of it. I gave her several warnings to stay away from a guy she has cheated on me with. I seen them together a few times since the warning and i called it quits. ignored her emails that said she just wants to be with me. Then would see her with him. She drinks everyday and is known to be very easy when she is drunk. This has all happened over the last several months almost year. The problem is she lately emailed me saying she loves me, and AND AS WE SPEAK THEM TWO ARE AT A BAR as we speak just a short drive from my house. I would never ever let this lying manipulator back into my life but I AM PISSED.....any advice would be great. Shaking as I am typing this. Sorry

 

Stay away from this person and get tested for STDs. Heal. Sorry you are going through this.