Post here instead of contacting your ex!

[dyna85]

Was just thinking about how when you needed to speak with me urgently, I always answered. Never did I once ignore you when you specifically asked a question. I always picked up your calls. I responded to your texts. Never did I leave you hanging. Yet you left me hanging. Without a second thought, you left me hanging. When I needed answers to some really important questions, you just ignored me. It literally makes me sick to my stomach that you could be so cold. Never will you be able to undo this hurt that you caused. But then, what do you care? You're a selfish piece of crap with no regard for me and I wish I never met you.

[Sad26]

Why does your friend have to tweet about you. Why did she has to tweet that how your 'new' bf came to visit you both, how you all had home cooked dinner and then watched a movie together. You know that I check her tweets, and if you had one bit of respect for me then you would have asked her to stop doing it. May be it is you who is asking her to do it, but why punish me, for what?

 

I am the one who has been cheated on, lied to, broken up over text message, denied the last phone conversation, decency of reply, asked to move country and then dumped. How much more you want to punish me, and for what ? just tell me what I have done to you, so that I can put all these pain in perspective. I would rationalise the pain and the hurt. Just tell me what did I do.

 

It has been 7 months, can you once please reply or respond. Did I ever treat you the way you are treating me now.

[Sad26]

Remember when I wanted to break up after you admitted cheating on me. You didn't let me, and one of the reason you gave me - if we break up like this then I will not respond to her in future if you ever contact me. I could not hurt you, and I didn't break up. So you do know that how it feels to not respond or how even an ex needs to get in touch even after break. Today you are doing exactly the same to me.

 

You know how much it hurts and still you doing it. Why? to hurt me. Well I have had enough. Just let me go. Release me from the pain. Today I am willing to die, if that's the price you will put for the last conversation. I promise you this, and you know I don't break my promises. Living with this pain is impossible anyway.

Edited January 11, 2015 by Sad26

[dyna85]

I feel like I wanna die right now because I checked your fb tonight. So stupid of me. I'm not going there ever again. This is so ridiculous. I should be over you by now. I can't sleep. I'm sick for the first time in forever. Not eating right. Don't want to dream of you as I did last night and I'm scared of awakening to thoughts of you again, as I do every morning. Please just leave my mind, permanently. Please, for the love of God. I can't take this pain anymore. I really just want to be the me that I was before all of this. I was so strong and hopeful. Now, I'm just so depressed. All the time.

[Sad26]

I feel like I wanna die right now because I checked your fb tonight. So stupid of me. I'm not going there ever again. This is so ridiculous. I should be over you by now. I can't sleep. I'm sick for the first time in forever. Not eating right. Don't want to dream of you as I did last night and I'm scared of awakening to thoughts of you again, as I do every morning. Please just leave my mind, permanently. Please, for the love of God. I can't take this pain anymore. I really just want to be the me that I was before all of this. I was so strong and hopeful. Now, I'm just so depressed. All the time.

 

I was doing so well, but on Friday evening, I checked the twitter of her flatmate. There was a description of my ex's new bf visiting them for dinner. It knocked me back to day one. All the progress has been wasted.

[dyna85]

I was doing so well, but on Friday evening, I checked the twitter of her flatmate. There was a description of my ex's new bf visiting them for dinner. It knocked me back to day one. All the progress has been wasted.

 

Sad, I wanna cry. Seriously. I wish I had words of wisdom, but I don't know what to do anymore. Well, for one thing, we need to never check their damn social media (or that of their friends) ever again. I've seriously made a vow that I will never go there again and you need to do this too. We're not going to move past this fully until we stop peering backwards at them, these uncaring fools, who have no respect or care for us.

 

Screw them for being sadistic and torturing us with silence and the indecency of a reply. Every time I think of it I feel sick. Literally and figuratively. It's like a movie where someone good dies at the end. You don't want it to be true, but it is true. It happened and there's no turning back. You can't go back to the beginning or even the middle. You can't erase the ending and it sticks with you. This is who they are. It's heartbreaking and cruel.

 

I wish I knew how to end the suffering.

[dyna85]

I'm seriously letting you go. 19 days NC. Go me. So I did kind of cheat a little on the nc and look at some pictures, but guess what? I'm never doing it again. I refuse, because I'm hereby noting how incredibly *****ty that made me feel and I refuse to let you continue to bring me down when you're not even in my life anymore. Screw you for letting a good thing die. Okay, maybe it wasn't so good, because you treated me like crap. All that push/pull toward the end and then just dump and run. Wow, you're a great catch.

 

In all sincerity, I wish I never met you. Why oh why did I let you reel me in to your ridiculous reality, where you thought you could keep me at an arm's length and that I would be okay with that? Don't you know I never settle? Never have, never will. Oh wait, you don't know, because you don't know me. The fact that you thought it was such a good idea and such a compassionate thing to do to ignore me when all was said and done, proves for the umpteenth time you don't care. Well fine. I don't care either. Have a nice life. Hope you're happy. But more than that, I hope someday I can forget you and move on with my life and be happy with someone who appreciates me and doesn't give me the runaround and shatter my heart into a million pieces like you did.

 

- From someone you didn't know to someone I thought I knew

[batt]

My head is about to blow up from thinking about you so much. You probably couldn't give a **** could you? I'm torturing my sell wanting to text you and offering friendship. Why didn't you let me know your boundaries. Is it that hard for you to talk to people? Do you get a enjoyment out of making anyone you were with agonizing about what they could have done wrong? How many guys have you done this to? I can see why Spencer cheated on you. I know I don't deserve this. Remember when you said you felt your life is at a standstill? Well, guess what thats where my life is now. I don't want to be upset at you because. I will get to that point some day, just wish that it were faster. People have said don't judge you too harshly, but its so very hard at the moment. Why cant you just get therapy? Are you that stubborn? If not for yourself, then at least for any poor guy that enters your life...Remember how you always talk about wanting to punch people? Well I want to punch you right now so very hard. I hate this ****

Edited January 12, 2015 by batt

[fire_angel94]

I was doing so well, but on Friday evening, I checked the twitter of her flatmate. There was a description of my ex's new bf visiting them for dinner. It knocked me back to day one. All the progress has been wasted.

 

I know it gets tempting. But just keep thinking she isn't worth your time. Just don't do anything that will jolt back a memory, no matter how much you have the urge to.

[batt]

I go out and forget my phone. Why do I check it to see if hopefully you called or texted? Silly me. I guess I should thank you for not having a facebook account.

[batt]

Who needs you when I have beer!!! When I said I was gonna quit smoking I was serious, I wasn't joking when I said I've gone back to the gym, I also start my Brazilian jiu jitsu/judo tuesday.

Edited January 12, 2015 by batt

[batt]

Damn this rain!!! All its been doing is raining!!! Isn't it just great that you like rain and I hate it?!?!?! Some depressing ass ****!!!

[fire_angel94]

So, you text me on whatsapp. Proceeded to say whatever you want and while I'm being genuinely nice, you go be a jerk with your egoistic responses. And then you block me. I wish I can slap you right now you childish, unkind, narcissistic good-for-nothing. Don't speak as if I owe you anything you cheating bastard. It should be you owing me.

[batt]

F you!!!!!

[batt]

God I miss you so much...

[FixItCris]

My princess,

I just wanted to say how much I hate you. I hate the way you lied to me, led me on and messed with my head, all along knowing you were leaving for another guy. I gave you the benefit of the doubt, because I was madly in love with you. But the you I was in love with didn't even exist anymore, if she ever did to begin with. You always said you had never been so open or honest with anyone in your life. What a total crock of sh*t. Then as if just to prove how immature you are, you let me find out by posting it on his facebook, then making it public so of course I would see it. Whore. Then, just to add a little more salt to the wound, you change your profile picture to a photo of you and him. I didn't see that one, because I refuse to waste any time looking at you're lying bitch face anymore. You knew that would get to me though, because you never ever posted any photos of me. Total kick in the nuts. I gave you everything, and you took it all and left me with nothing.

So in closing, I hope you're happy with your crackhead boyfriend, his ex wife and his two kids. You deserve each other. I hope he treats you exactly the way you deserve.

Oh and PS: yes, you were getting fat, and wrinkly and old. But none of that mattered to me. It's been almost a month since I busted you in your lies, and a few days will be the anniversary of our first date. I hope you think about that, and I hope it hurts. Go hug a tree, you self-righteous, egotistical, manipulative, lying, whore.

Love,

Me.

[lostsoul6486]

Hey. I was so sure I didn't want to answer the text you sent me on Friday, but now I'm getting the urge to for some reason. I knew that you wouldn't text me an apology and tell me that I'm such a great man and that you didn't realize it out of the blue after five months of no contact whatsoever. How convenient that one of your friends casually brought up how you're now single again in conversation with me. You felt good when you had someone, huh? Now you think you could just come back into my life like you did before. I don't know if you really just wanted to apologize like you said, but it is such a coincidence that you're doing it now that you're single again. I'm guessing he dumped you because you would've had some other guy lined up had it been the other way around. You can't stand being alone. Honestly, I hated your new bf when I first heard of him, but now I respect the guy for getting up and leaving you behind because if you treated him anything like you treated me, I'm glad he had the self respect I was missing before to get up and go.

 

Whatever the case may be, I want you to know that I am happy. Unlike you, I didn't pick up a new person right away and use her as a rebound. I found myself and remembered how great I was before I met you. I remembered the things that made me happy before you.

 

As ****ed up as it seems, no matter how bad I want to tell you how well off I am without you, I'm going to do all in my power to not tell you a single word because it feels good to give you a taste of your own medicine. You know, I always thought you would contact me in some way after your new relationship ended and I always wondered how I would react. Good thing it lasted long enough for me to be happy again or I may have taken you back with open arms.

 

Despite it all, I still care about you. That's what makes this all so difficult. We've both told each other how much we care, but, unlike you, I've shown it time and again through my actions. All you've given me are empty words with no actions to back them up. This isn't the first time you tell me you "didn't realize" how great of a guy I am. As much as I would love to believe that and as badly as I would love to get back together and be what we once were, I've seen this movie and I know how it ends. The ending sucks. The last scene ruins the whole movie. I think I'll just save my time and pick a different movie this time around.

[Sad26]

I can't tell you how much your friend has made my life hell. She was not only the reason that you broke up with me, but also the reason my recovery is so difficult. I can't stop reading her tweets, and she can't stop tweeting about you and your wonderful love life now. If only I knew you were joined at hips with your this friend, I would have not given you the time of the day.

 

I used to be such a happy, successful, career driven person you changed all that. Made me unhappy, dejected, and disenchanted with career and the world. You made me change country and then have no courtesy to even reply back to me. How do you even sleep at night with so much treachery and having beguiled me. What was my fault?

[getagripordietrying]

feeling again down when I'm at home.

we broke up with my girlfriend of two years 6 months ago. we were really in love, inseparable but I got very busy and started to took the relationship a bit granted. we had this silly fight, she just wanted some pause then but since there was this other dude in play too now, I got nervous and overwhelmed her. So we broke up. I cannot get over about what happened still. I'm even kind of fine that we broke up, as I now see I really had become a bit of a hard person to live together, but I cannot forgive myself than I was still such an emotional mess months after the breakup. She wanted to come back to me several times but since I couldn't keep my cool, she pulled away still. This push and pull thing really hurt me as it went on months after. I still loved her, so I got too ahead of the game, when she wanted to be with me again. Why couldn't I just kept my cool. She has now lost respect for me and the attraction is gone, as she thinks she can just do and decide whatever. She now has occasional other boyfriend too but she also moved away until summer. Not sure what the hell is happening.

 

I have other girls who are interested in me and actually I'm quite a catch. But I cannot get her out of my head. It feels so stupid classic 2 year breakup and felt totally possible to overcome this little crisis but since I cracked down emotionally I really pushed her away. Hard to forgive this to myself.

 

I'm doing everything to feel better but in the evening at home I still feel down.

I woud date but I'm not really ready. I had some girls after, but each time she showed up and kind of messed it up again with the others. Those weren't really serious anyway though.

[Mandy26]

He was in my dream last night. I woke up tired. Checked my email this am, and of course. There it is, a message from linkedin, "he" likes your work anniversary date. I was so upset...see my account is not completed, I have maybe 7 connections, I am not a linkedin user. "He" is and "he" introduced it to me. "He" utilizes it for business and networking frequently....why did he bother? Just another breadcrumb, is that what it is? Can I get some feedback from anyone? I just need some help grounding myself, I know it probably means nothing, I am just so sad still and miss him even though I should not.

[FixItCris]

Anything at all to prove I was more than nothing to you, that's all i ask. I don't know how you could even show me that. But i wish you would.

[FixItCris]

I got called out in the middle of the night tonight, and after barely thinking of you all afternoon you are right in my head in the middle of the night. How can you love with yourself and what you did? All the conversations we had about how cowardly and horrible cheating is. And what did you do? I hate that your ex "the evil narcissist" got treated better than me. You broke up with him. But no, not me. You had to totally f*ck me over.

[batt]

I'm still trying to wrap my head around what went wrong. Its hard to heal not knowing what I did to deserve this. It'll be a month in two days, with my bday right along the corner. Valentines is coming also. I hate you.

[kabukicho]

its killing me knowing you received my message, but didnt bother to read it.

I saw you online and chatting with other people, but my message just got ignored

[kabukicho]

Because of you i am heartbroken

Because of you i am stuck in a moment

Because of you i dont see the light at the end of the tunnel

Because of you i am a pain towards my family, collegues and friends

Because of you i use our long pillow pretending you still sleeps next to me

Because of you this appartment has lost its comfort zone

Because of you night are so much longer and colder

Because of you you made me show true happiness

Because of you i learnt to be emotional

Because of you i changed from a solid stone to a spunge person

Because of you i become more fun

 

if you just ask me to come back, i will run to you

 

Because of you, i miss you