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[LukeRBetts]

HI

 

I cant beleive who you have become since you left.... i said u wouldnt never just from one relationship to another, or anything like that, but not 3 days after we split u have men over at your house, and many different men....men u hardly know and you have my children at this house.....who dare you...i dont care if you put yourself at risk, but putting my kids as risk its not on, your a better mother than that.... your a better person that than, wish u could see who you have become. You have thrown away your life, you have quit your job that i busted my ass working to put u through school for, u have let the repayments on the car go, and are about to get it repossed, dont u care about anything? i hate that i love you .....i hate that i feel that i could save you, i hate that i want you back, i hate myself for feeling all these things. But i will not give into them, i want my self respect back. Im a better person than that and you made all these choices...you live with them.

[Sad26]

How can you break up with me over text and not let me have one final conversation. I didn't want anything but just 5 minutes of phone call to say what I want and you didn't give me that. I begged for months but you could spend your hours partying but no five minutes for me. Is that how little I meant to you? All that we had was fake, and I was just an object for you to be used and discarded.

 

What a contrast - I had to move country and set up my life in a new city where I don't know anyone. You are having fun, find it satisfying to post pictures and tweet about it for me to read. Seems you could not wait to break up with me and enjoy your life. Since you had cheated on me with two guys, I just can imagine how you are having sex with a new guy every other weekend. Enjoy your life and make fun of me for being the fool I was.

 

I hate myself, I hate everything.

[Sad26]

How could you talk of being fair and then let your friend call me names on twitter. What did I do to her, I don't know her, never exchanged a word with her so why did she call me names on twitter and why didn't you stop her.

 

After asking so many times I wish that you would tell her that is not okay to call someone names on twitter but you didn't. You told me that she is your friend and she can do anything to me. How is this fair ? How does it feel to be called names on twitter? You both must be laughing at me, and how little I meant to you

[Sad26]

I am out of your life, there is nothing between us, I have not contacted you, yet why you could not stop hurting me. Please let me go and don't hurt me anymore. When people break up, they just break up, they don't go out of their way to be cruel to the other person. Why do you wanna hurt me so much.

 

Please don't hurt me anymore. Can't you have this much consideration for me. After all, if it was true, you loved me one day. What do you want - that I go and kill myself ? if that's what you want then say it. If that's what will give you peace and pleasure then say it.If not then why do you keep finding ways to hurt me even though I have dropped out of your world without a trace.

 

Please let me live in peace. Please

[lakerman34]

Dear C,

 

I feel bad for you. You're bipolar. Some weeks, you're depressed and I know you struggle just to get through each day. I know that having to deal with the BU compounded your struggle. I know all that, and for that, I wish they found a cure for your disorder yesterday.

 

BUT you don't get to disrespect me and act erratically towards me. Like some of my homeless kids, it sucks that they are homeless, but that doesn't give them the right to bully my other kids. You were being an emotional bully to me. That's not fair. You and I will never be "cool" until you apologize. I don't think you have the balls nor maturity to do so, so I'm not holding my breath.

 

You are FINALLY acting civil towards me. Took you 2.5 months, but you're FINALLY acting civil. You are also dating some schween who vaguely looks like me, except shorter and flabbier. Good on you. Also, your own BEST FRIEND told me she can't stand how boy hungry you've become all of a sudden. Stop being so thirsty. Work on yourself. Lord knows there is a LOT of work that needs to be done.

 

I've already apologized for saying what I said, and I apologized shortly after saying it. Your evil rampage thereafter was COMPLETELY uncalled for. You lied, you passed judgments, you made things up in your own head, yet you have the nerve to say that you want to become a SOCIAL WORKER? Honey, if my children went to a school where you were the on-site social worker, I'd pull them right away (not that they'd need social working, but I digress).

 

The C that I fell in love with and dated is dead. I took you chopping your hair off as a metaphor. With that hair that fell to the ground, so did the lovely person you were. Everyone sees the facade, you do a good job of showing it, but no one knows your heart like I do. Yes, there is a lot of goodness and kindness there, but also a LOT of darkness. You are upset at me because I see that. You know that I see right through you, and that upsets you.

 

If being neighbors (which is THE hardest thing) is going to work, I'm going to need this from you: a) an apology, b) a conversation, & c) I never want to see nor hear this new guy or any other guys. If you fail to accomplish any of these 3 items, we will have problems.

 

So screw you. I hope your car engine dies and your heater breaks. I hope you feel the pain that you've given me ten-fold. I hope karma bites you like the biitch you showed yourself to be. I hope you get turned down from the Peace Corps and every application you turn in. I hope every guy you go after turns you down, like that one guy at the party who pushed you away when you tried to grind up on him JUST because you saw me grinding up on that lil cutie. Aside from life or limb (I'm not a monster), I hope everything you own breaks. You deserve it.

 

Love,

Y

 

P.S. That old C (minus the bipolar), if she's out there, I'd love to have her. We were perfect for each other. There was electricity whenever we were near each other. But, that C isn't you. Maybe if doctors would get on it, find the right formula, we both could have happiness with each other. I'm not holding my breath. You have Mr. Schween, and I have a few lady friends that I enjoy hanging out with. None compare to the old C, and Mr. Schween doesn't compare to me, but I'd prefer Cruella DeVil over the girl you've become.

Edited November 27, 2014 by lakerman34

[NomiMalone]

I want you to know that I love everything about you. You are amazing in every way and you've completely swept me off my feet. I wish so badly that we were more compatible, but we are not, and to continue what we've started would be unfair to both of us. This makes me so, so sad, but I think you're awesome and I only want to do what's right by you. I wish you the very best in everything, and all the happiness and love in the world. Don't ever change xoxo

[NomiMalone]

Wish so bad that you were here with me right now

[StrangerThanFiction]

Wow. So I was cleaning out the storage room in the kitchen when I found an empty box of condoms and an open condom wrapper stuffed behind some boxes. Those were definitely not mine. So I guess it really is true. When you were at my place (and what used to be yours too) while I was at work you were screwing other women in my bed and from how many condoms used to be in this empty box it was a lot. I'm in shock. I haven't heard from you in a month but somehow you, and just how awful of a human being you are, keeps showing up in my life to punch me in the gut again and again. Sometimes I wish you'd just frickin die. But no, you are having a great life, I'm sure, while I can't seem to pull myself out of this pit I'm in. I'll be doing alright and then out of nowhere I find out something else about you that destroys me all over again. I hate you so much right now. Maybe next time you go on a "spontaneous" expensive trip your plane will crash where everyone but you survives. Ugh, I don't really mean that. But damn if I don't wish your life would fall apart sometimes. Go to hell you *******.

[Sad26]

What will it take for you to stop this cruelty and torture? atleast tell me what I have done for you to be this cruel with me. You got what you wanted, you cheated on me, you lied to me, you made a fool of me, you made your friends laugh at me. You got everything, why to be cruel now.

 

If my death will stop your cruelty, I pray to God that you get this wish. Today my flight almost crashed at landing and I thought of you getting what you want. Alas, I am still living. I will have to pay for my mistake in judging, trusting, believing and finally loving you.

 

I will pay, and I will suffer.

[me85]

Thank you for leaving me alone. Finally. I didn't think of you today until I got home tonight after spending Thanksgiving with my wonderful family. I've been over you for a while but I did/do think of you because we were still in contact but that's all behind me now.

[nav]

[Arient]

Hey dovie dove, tomorrow is your birthday, so I allowed my emotions to run wild a little bit, whether you're knowing it or not I think you're so right when calling me a masochist, as again, I'm causing myself some pain today. I just re-read our FB messages, from the time that you added me, more than 4 years ago. Gosh, there were so much love in them, and such great things we had together. I did not cry or anything, because I finally accepted the end of our relationship. But I know that, in both our hearts, those memories will always be there. They are making me feel sad that such great love ended, but at the same time, made me crave for another adventure. I don't know what is out there, maybe just crap, or maybe something even greater than our past love? I don't know. I just know that I am so excited to go 'hunting' again, and to find love again. I love that feeling of love so much, and this time, dove, wish me better luck!

[Lostdreams]

Wow Arient - I feel the same this week emotions running wild. Just came on here after checking out some old photos of us together ..........so much love and he lived it too - so yes it is shared memories and still he walked away....

 

I also didn't cry but feeling a deep sadness for what was (is) lost and what I miss. I'm trying to date again but nothing comes close .......... I guess I still have to improve my acceptance levels

 

So I am wishing you luck, love and happy "hunting "

[me85]

I dream of you a lot and have gotten to the point where it doesn't even phase me at all but this morning I dreamt we were making love and kissing so passionately. The colors, the smell of your cologne, the touch of your body & your tongue ...omg...I hate that I dream so vividly. I even felt your sweat. I felt the desire I had for you in that dream. It was crazy intense and so realistic. I know it's just hormones because I haven't been sexuality active in many months but I wish I could dream about some other good looking guy.

 

I haven't heard from you in a week and a half. This is progress!

[Hoosfoos]

I can't believe it's been more than a year now. I can't believe I'm still broken from you leaving. Broken.

[Arient]

Wow Arient - I feel the same this week emotions running wild. Just came on here after checking out some old photos of us together ..........so much love and he lived it too - so yes it is shared memories and still he walked away....

 

I also didn't cry but feeling a deep sadness for what was (is) lost and what I miss. I'm trying to date again but nothing comes close .......... I guess I still have to improve my acceptance levels

 

So I am wishing you luck, love and happy "hunting "

 

Thank you for your kind words I have been excited with the idea for quite a long time, but still haven't found enough energy to do it. Just take your time with dating. Do it when you feel like it, and when you can start having the good feelings with the guys you meet, not sparks or anything, just the feeling of enjoying some company. Gradually, we will get through this and will love again! Hugs!

[lilbaby38]

I am hurting so bad this morning. I miss my friend, he is so cold to me. I don't understand why he don't want to my friend anymore we were close. I thought we were. I am sad, I can't eat nor can I sleep. I think about him all the time. I am lost.

[Invictus01]

Next weekend I'll be in town. Remember, the trip we planned a month ago for me to come and visit you? You know, the one that you were so happy about. You wanna grab a beer at our spot? Let's sleep in Sunday morning or even better, stay in bed all day long...

 

And then I remembered... The trip might have been scheduled with her, but I will spend the weekend without her

[love1336x]

Day one.

I already miss you.

[love2ride]

Wake up lonely, would love to reach over and pull you close, smell your hair and feel your warmth. I miss you.

[Xemyd]

I miss you and I still love you. Why does it have to be this way?

[me85]

I'm not going to do it, but oh how I want to send you a really nasty email. I never did it. Not in the 16 months we've been BU. Why do I always have to be the better person? All my life...

[love1336x]

You didn't even care to fight for me. You simply accepted.

I hate calling for you when I dumped you.

[Arient]

I miss you and I still love you. Why does it have to be this way?

 

Same here Xemyd, broken up from a LDR, and I still found myself loving and missing him after 8 months. I'm getting scared....

[love2ride]

Do you ever think of me at all? How can you date other guys, doesn't it hurt to kiss someone thats not me? Don't you feel depressed at all when you meet these guys cause they are not me? Don't you ever just miss me and my company? I miss you.