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[FeuFollet]

Yeah. All right. I miss you. You were a very important part of my life during a particularly bad patch. I was a bed bound cripple, and you were the highlight of my week. Your face is too long, as is your nose. You're flat as a board (but you do make up for it with that lovely posterior of yours). I miss the sex, sure. That toned body of yours was wonderful. I miss the intimacy more. The conversation. I miss feeling like someone really liked me. It's been a while since I've felt that way...

 

but the proof is in the pudding, isn't it? Like I told you. It was a fantasy we shared together one night a week. When the words are confusing, look at the actions, they never lie. And you did lie. And you didn't care about me, in the end.

 

 

Tonight, I miss our fantasy together. Now I wish I had the chance to tell you that I might just maybe have been falling in love with you. It wouldn't have changed a thing, but then I guess you'd know the real reason why I don't want to be your friend.

 

I hope he makes you happy. Don't worry, I'll be over you soon enough.

[Lostdreams]

Well I still miss you in spite of my willpower to get over this .... it's getting close to 3 months but still you occupy way too much space in my head.

 

I feel hate, anger and worse I feel bitter and sometimes I confuse which is which. I don't mind anger but bitterness is not what I want for myself ... how can I let this happen ? I know it's in my own hands to achieve what I want for my life. So I must focus on me, be the best I can be and push myself only to look forward ....but if I'm honest some days I struggle.

[Xemyd]

I saw you again today, God you still look good, somehow even after a year you look even hotter to me. At least this time I didn't feel like throwing up when I saw you. Any day now all my romantic feelings for you will be gone.

[dumbass2]

I have come to the realization finally about a lot of things and the biggest is that I did treat you very very well. You wanted more of a jerk and I guess I wanted less of one. I don't hate you, but I do hope that some day you will go through what I have and have someone you gave so much too and loved so much only to have them dump you and then maybe you'll be able to use a little self-awareness on yourself and then be able to learn and improve yourself. You won't be able to see your issues until that happens to you. I wish you the best. 62 days now since you last received anything from me.

[polaske93]

I'm glad I found this page, to bad I didn't find it a few hours earlier. How ironic it is that it was so much easier to let you go before I found out the truth. I wanted to know so bad, and once she told me the truth it made so much sense... I have so many questions that I know will never be answered. And after everything you did to destroy me I still care. I still miss hearing your voice everynight after work. I still miss skyping with you, for hours and laughing at the dumbest things. I still want to hold you. I like to believe you really did love me like you said you did. I like to believe after everything that you still cared. I know your a better person then the one you pretend to be. I know you have a giant heart. I just hope that one day you can find a man that truly makes you happy. I hope you get away from all of your demons ans be the woman I know you can be... today I would give up anything and put aside all of my pain just to look into your eyes today..

[Justm3x]

It's been 6 months and i'm struggling to let you go... I miss you so much and I still love you.. I know i ended it, but we spoke last time and everything was ok This time i had a feeling something was up, when you left the UK to work in Caribbean I was so excited for you but in my heart I know i was going to struggle, but its what you wanted. Everytime we skyped you would have to go after 10 minutes, the calls became less and less, so i did what i thought was best. 7 years we were together and when i sent you that email I didnt expect you to cut me off so abruptly, but now i know why... you were having an affair with your brothers friend. What you didnt realise was even though you delete my number from your phone, on viber as long as i still have your number i can still see your photo.. and to my horror there you were with her in the caribbean with in a week, it almost destroyed me.... Why did you do this to me..........

[jonsnuh]

Career's been on my mind, and I've been keeping busy with people I need to work with everyday.

 

Although I still think I may have had a chance with you, it would've never worked out. I don't care about your happiness, but I'm more or less indifferent to it. Part of me still stings and will always sting as you were my first. The angry side of me that's still contained, that "special place in my heart" that you had described...

 

It ****ing hates you and wishes you died in a horrific accident, living a life of misery and loneliness as I wish for all bad people in the world. As if a special circle of hell at the bottom of Dante's Inferno is reserved for you to live in torment.

 

But I never come to that place again. Instead, I walk away from its suffering. I am my worst enemy. I have been the one hurting myself from all the perceived remorse and guilty conscience that had seethed through my mind since last August.

 

I don't believe in the love you but not in love with you ****-line. It's more like, I hate you but I don't hate the thought of who I was in love with. There have been others like you. There will be others like you.

 

Thank God we didn't stay together.

Edited September 21, 2014 by jonsnuh

[JFReyes]

I don't believe in the love you but not in love with you ****-line. It's more like, I hate you but I don't hate the thought of who I was in love with. There have been others like you. There will be others like you.

 

Been there... I agree with you but it sucks anyway...

[Bella2]

You f*cking assh*le.

 

You left me 4 weeks ago. "I love you, but I'm no longer in love. My life's a mess, I need some time alone" Every cliché there is to be used by a dumper, you used them.

 

Two weeks after the BU you see me with a guy. I was just having dinner with him, that was all. Afterwards YOU start sending me emails. How you are hurting, how you are SO sad, how you feel sick to your stomach knowing you have been replaced already. You cried over me, you didn't even go to work, it was all soooooo hard for poor poor you.

 

A couple of days after that you start a new relationship with this girl who apparently was hitting on you before the break up.

 

I seriously hate you for this. You blame me for something that wasn't even true, and a week later you are in a relationship.

 

F*CK YOU

 

(sorry y'all, I needed to get this out of my system)

[StrangerThanFiction]

The weekend was fine. But this morning...ugh, I miss you more than ever and I'm using all my willpower not to contact you. I'm feeling so lonely and empty today and I wish you would just contact me so I know that you at least still think about me. I still love you and I wish you felt the same.

[StrangerThanFiction]

Alright. Instead of sad I'm going to try mad on for size. Here goes.

 

Dear ex,

You are a lying pig. I honestly believe that if you're not a full on sociopath you definitely lean more towards those tendencies than you do towards being a decent human being. You selfish, thoughtless, shallow pr*ck. May all women you sleep with after me give you a disease (a different one each time. Nothing life threatening or anything like that, just embarrassing and uncomfortable). May you have trouble getting it up at all (which you were already having issues with anyway. Always thought it was me, but no, it's you. You're getting up there in years, bucko. It ain't going to get any easier). May you end up alone and lonely and realizing you gave up the best thing you were ever going to get while my life gets awesome and I feel grateful that you're no longer a part of my life. May all future women you date be as shallow as you with crappy personalities and just use you for your money (when you actually have any) and cheat on you all the time just like you did to me and your ex wife. May you go bald on your head and hairy everywhere else. Maybe grow a tail so everyone will see you for the dog you are. May you grow a gigantic beer gut so it matches your fat a**. May you be plagued with ingrown toenails and abundant nose hair. May your breath always stink even after mouthwash. May you fail at every endeavour. And last but not least, may you run into me in a few months after I get back in shape and get a new wardrobe and realize what a sexy beast you gave up for whatever cheap piece of a** you probably left me for.

 

Ahhhh, that was therapeutic and I feel a little better now. I try not to be negative but that had to come out. Better mad than sad and missing you. One day I hope to reread this and not wish those things. I hope one day I'll look at this and shrug and laugh and honestly not care what happens to you or what you do. That's when I know I'm healed and over you. Jacka**.

[Justm3x]

You go girl

[Justaguy30]

I am sure I am not the only person ever to miss someone so much. I have made myself look very stupid and kind of crazy by not just letting you go. I have sent stupid messages drunk late at night and then the next day I wake up with horrible anxiety. I have promised myself that I will never do it again. Its just so hard not being able to be with you.

[jonsnuh]

**** you, for the monster I've become.

[Justaguy30]

**** you, for the monster I've become.

 

I feel the same way man, I am not myself anymore at all. I feel crazy and anxious all the time. I used to be so nice and now I hate everything.

[polaske93]

I can't believe after everything this is where we ended up. It was hard for me to let you go, but I was willing to accept it. I'm a fool for letting you still be in my life, but I needed to hear your voice.. I needed to see your smile. I was still in love and still cared. Until a few days ago when I found out it was all a lie. I gave up my life to be with you, i thought you cared. I found out that you were still seeing your ex.. ontop of all that now your talking tk my friend, that i introduced you too? How could you put me through all of this.. and truth be told at the end of the day it hurts so bad because I still love you, I still care. I've seen the real you, the person deep inside. And she is an amazing woman, but sometimes you can be a real bitch.. I just hope that you can grow into the person I know you are I just hope that your happier. .

[True Gent]

Did I ever matter? Years of rejection from you, everything I did for you - not just you for 'us'. Did everything we've been through together slip your mind or something when you were round at his before you'd even left me?

 

Why does the way you crapped on our life and the way you insulted me still bother me 11 months later?

 

Maybe it's because I have some level of integrity and I actually ****ing loved you.

 

Our dogs, which are now your dogs. How do you think that feels? I took care of them for 4.5 months after our split while you went ****ing about in America. Did I get a "thank you"? No, of course I didnt and I knew I wouldn't...

 

How could I be so stupid, why was I blinded? How did I not realise how selfish and inconsiderate you are? Why did I not see you were shallow and that our life was a just a means to an end for you?

 

Why can't I 100% be happy yet? I convince myself I'm doing good, and I am in many ways much better off without you in my life. Yet I feel like something very important is missing in my life, why is that? You won't feel any of what I've felt, you probably aren't capeable of such depth. Do you even think of me? Is it just guilt if you do? Why do I give a crap?!

 

My day will come. **** knows when, but it will.

[me85]

I had a great weekend out of town! I barely thought of you at all! It was amazing!!! Thanks for not emailing me as much as you used to - over the last month. It has really helped me a lot. When you first started to slack off, I was scared you were forgetting about me but then you always contact me, eventually. So, LOL, I realize I don't have to be scared about you forgetting me at all. Won't happen. In fact, I'm sure you'll think of me everyday for the rest of your life.

 

You emailed me "hi+smiley" yesterday, then I reply "hello+smiley" then you ask how I've been. I reply "really good. Spent the weekend out of town. How are you?" you reply. "Good. Wow cool. Go to any concerts? I'm really good too." I respond, "Good. Just caught a small show while there. I love that city." And...no response from you since.

 

YES, I want you to know I'm happy and living life perfectly fine without you. But of course I want you to know that!!! So, if you're "really good too" as you tell me, then why are you emailing me?? My guess is that you're just bored. But still...I mean, you've got this great new gf who's 6 years younger and making something of herself, remember?? So why am I ever even on your mind at all?? I mean, do you really think by keeping in touch with me will ensure that I'll give you another chance in the future when you and your next ex BU?

 

Well, I won't.

Edited September 23, 2014 by me85

[falxmanolo]

Dear Corporate Ex

 

Lol, this actually feels weird. I haven't had the compulsion to speak or message you for very long.. very very long. And now, I feel like I need to update you.

 

The message you sent me at 1:40 am was really weird. Before that, let me tell you what's happened in a year

-I've gotten used to living alone. I have no fear of being alone. I actually enjoy my own company, thanks for leaving me in a rut in that massive house on moving day. If you hadn't left me to fend for myself on 14/9/13, I would have never learned to live alone, survive and enjoy my own company and thoughts.

-I have completed 3 massive projects and I recently received an award from one of them! I have found passion for my career and I'm absolutely fuelled! SUCK IT!

-I have hooked up (yes, I got over my fear of strangers) with one guy who I've never met before. I told him my name is Beyonce and the sex was great! But I'm never hooking up with a stranger in a bar again because it's DISGUSTING! And he could be a serial killer which would not be very sexy. I also met an absolutely wonderful man (not sure you know what I'm talking about) at my parent's 30th anniversary. He's made me think about the kind of man I'm looking for. I think I may even have a type! And the type may be him, haha!

-I wear heels everyday without worrying about towering over you! And without your pathetic bland taste in life, my wardrobe is bright and bustling and BEAUTIFUL yet again!

-I got highlights! I don't care about what you think about highlights! I love them and I think they make me feel FABULOUS!

-I got rid off everything that reminded me of you. I dumped the necklace in the harbour... I'm sorry. Perhaps you spent you're hard earned money on it but I didn't want anything to do with you. And if in the future you did eventually regret breaking my heart into 2 billion pieces, I didn't want to owe you any answers. I felt by getting rid off the necklace I owed you no more answers.

-I literally love myself. I cannot begin to explain this, but I love me for me. I love being weird! I love loving animals and being comfortable about my short-comings! I don't care if chanel mademoiselle doesn't suit me- I still wear it because i like it!!!! I love wearing leather pants on saturday nights! I love my crooked teeth!!

-Thank you for being your ungrateful self. You taught me the consequences of being so ungrateful. Since you left me, I've learnt to appreciate every single person in my life. and those who have wronged or hurt me, I've learned to let go off them. No place for negative people in my life!

-Thanks to you, James is such a great friend of mine now! He takes me with him to spiritual classes and teaches me the art of cultivation. Cultivating positive thoughts, gratefulness, love and compassion for all living beings. It's truly amazing! I am so overwhelmed by how much you're friends have done for me! I hope James admits to you one day that he and I are in fact really good friends! For now, he fears you may get cross at him if you knew he and I were friends!

 

Moving on to your wonderfully weird message. Like wtf dude? What kind of a ****ty person does what you do and then sends such a selfish message when you're bored and lonely? Get your act together! If you want me, MAKE A REAL EFFORT! if you miss me, show me what you have to trust you ever again.. actually I don't care. I don't want to know if you're happy or miserable. I just want you out of my life for good. I hope by removing you from all social media you will leave me alone and let me carry on with my life as I am. I wish you the best! Please get your act together before you fck up other people's lives!

[Justaguy30]

I really miss the life we were supposed to have together. I still don't know why you did what you did. It didn't make any sense. I am not sure if I am still in love with you or if I am still in love with the dream I had with you. I really wanted to have a family with you more than anything but you apparently just wanted to sleep around. I often wonder if you actually regret what you did? I still feel bad and wish that I had handled the situation better because I feel had I things may have worked out. I miss you and the kids today like crazy. But then I think about how you act towards your children and how you really don't take care of them and I am glad we are no longer together. Its hard being in love with a fictitious person. You made yourself the woman of my dreams and I wish you had just been open and honest because things never would have turned out this way. In fact our relationship may have actually worked out because then I would have known how to help you instead of just being angry at you for what you were doing.

[Justm3x]

Today has been really hard... I'm in so much pain physically and mentally. I cried all day thinking of you but then I suppose you didn't even give me a second thought.. Of course not because you have HER now. I keep looking at your viber picture of you two together and thinking, that should have been me.. She knew about me and she just carried on like the f*cking slag she is and you like the lying cheating piece of scum you are. Yes I miss you but I have no freaking idea why, you called me fatty but you know what, I can diet but you can't fix ugly and you are both on the outside aswell as on the inside. Everyone says you were punching well above your weight and that I can do better, yes I can and one day that will happen and I just hope to God you will just end up as somebody that I used to know. One day I will be strong enough to say, yes I was with that loser for 7 years wtf was I thinking.... But I know for a fact one day you will make contact and then it'll be my turn to screw your life up.

[tory1012]

Dear Ex,

 

i am sick of your stupid breadcrumbs that you send me and proclaiming that you want to be single for the rest of your life while adding new girls on facebook. You ended things with me! Don't tell me you miss and are sad because you are lonely. It's your own fault.

 

I accept why you broke up with me because I was a lying b*tch and I did a lot of bad things however I never cheated and I was nice to you! When we broke things off you demanded I stay elsewhere while having no family to go to. I would never do that to you regardless of how i felt.

 

I had fixed my problems and i'm sorry that you couldn't let them go. People make mistakes and they can be better which is what i'm going to do. I'm going to be the best me that I can be for the next lucky person who gets to enjoy my "bubbly personality" as you have called it.

 

I've accepted my mistakes and it has been one bitter pill to swallow! Regardless of whether I did things in our relationship to make you decide to end it your history and number of relationships tells me that it would have ended anyway I'm just glad I could quicken the process up instead of being far more hurt down the line.

 

I'll be looking down to you from the pedestal that I have put MYSELF on very soon and will be waving goodbye to the callous pr*ck who kicked me out and left me with nowhere to go. I feel sorry for the next woman who has to deal with your emotional immaturity.

 

ciao

[edgygirl]

Who am I kidding? I miss you like hell.

 

I like to think I am over you. And I probably am, more than 2 months ago.

 

I am not even sure it comes from a place of being "desperate" to have you as a partner or so. I just truly miss hanging out with you. Being around you. Looking at you and your weird way of being which I always found so adorable. I took it for granted that we would make it work out because it felt so good together "even when it felt bad". I should learn the lesson which I never do apparently, to live everyday with someone as if it was the last.

 

I wish I enjoyed us more instead of worrying. Just enjoyed our time together. Maybe if i had the slight belief that it might end for real, I would have.

 

I feel silly for not have always enjoyed it. I miss those moments so much. I miss you. I still do :..(

 

Good looking guys are talking with me. What do I care? I miss YOU. I miss US together.

[StrangerThanFiction]

I woke up this morning feeling like hell again. I moped around getting ready for work. But out nowhere something inside me snapped. I looked at myself in the mirror and asked myself: "why are you doing this to yourself? This isn't you!"

 

Being miserable is not my natural state and I refuse to let this BU and you control me and my emotions any longer. I am responsible for how I feel and I can't take this anymore. I'm sure you're not sitting around being sad and missing me, so why am I wasting my time and energy doing it to myself?

 

Seriously, how can you hurt me now? Oh, you have a gf? So what! All this shows to me is that you are too insecure and afraid to be on your own. Oh, you don't love me anymore? So what! How you feel about me is irrelevant to my life from now on and day by day my feelings for you will fade away as well. Oh, you NEVER loved me? SO WHAT! I loved you. Deeply and truly, and I don't regret the fact that I am capable of actual honest love. Someone out there one day will appreciate, cherish, and deserve this love that I have to give.

 

So, in closing, we're over. We're done. I accept it and I am going to put all my determination into getting over this and making my life without you awesome. Peace.

[Lostdreams]

Thanks a million for just cancelling our month old appointment to exchange our stuff "due to unforeseen other commitments" written in your best corporate English WTF. Why am I not surprised .........don't forget this comes from you - Mr Commitment himself.

 

I hate you today - this was to be an important step for me and as usual you always look out for YOUR own interests and safeguarding YOUR own plans.

 

You are no longer the man I knew and loved, the man you have become holds no interest whatsoever. I never want to set eyes on you again I can't believe I was blind enough to waste 7 years of my life with such an ***hole. It sucks today but this can only be temporary - I know am a better person than you will ever be - you treating me like this just proves it.

 

So now I will really and genuinely say "thanks" for opening my eyes - once again - you are slowly curing me of any kind thoughts I held for you