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[depressedman87]

This have to be one of my best summers...

 

Odd, right?

It all started with us breaking up.

Without the break up...

I wouldn't have reconnected with old friends.

I wouldn't be happy with my blessing that I have...

I wouldn't love me more!

 

I dunno... I am always active always doing something with my life.

I'm not wasting my day away!

 

All because of this break up! It pushed me! It forced me!

I want to be happy! I don't want to be sad. Life too short for me wanting somebody I can't have!

For some LOSER, IMMATURE BABY, POT HEAD!

I AM A PRIZE!

If you can't see that! OH WELLL!!!!!

 

I can't PM you. But check out my post if you can. https://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/486811-its-finally-over#post5820261

[supportlove]

You son of a bxxxh, I miss you.

[love1336x]

Its been nearly a month of NC!

Soon I have to take off my block service.

Its a little bit on the costly side.

Time to take off the training wheels.

You won't message me because before going on NC I told you I was going to block you.

 

I'm trilled to see you again.

[perduetseul]

I had a lot of dreams about you last night. It was amazing to have you in my arms again. I miss you so much! I still love you with all my heart... I realized how I am able to "forgive and forget" EVERYTHING just to feel your love one more time. I miss you so much!

[mangetout]

I feel empty. Just emotionally drained when I think of you. You gave me so much heartache. I am tired of it. I want out

[love1336x]

I'm simply accepting it.

It makes it easier.

[Sweet108]

What I would say to you today is that I am hurting.

Do you care?

I'd also tell you that you are immature and a porn addict.

You've gained weight. I found an old picture of us, you're really going downhill in the looks department. Are you sweating in the heat right now during your outdoor time? You're a mamas boy and socially awkward. You're altruistic actions aren't really altruistic, it's the attention you want for doing good things.

The person from your hometown area that you fantasize about who is now single , she's moping around from divorce. It's laughable how she has you in the friendzone and you don't even see it. She probably calls you for emotional support and you constantly hope for more.

Why did I ever agree to "friends" after our breakup, it was because I was stupid and desperate.

Are you thinking of me today, how did you like my no contact when you kept offering more generosity? I tell you how I felt: empowered. I got to do the door closing! HA!! You suck!

[edgygirl]

Today is the real 1 month of NC, as it's the last time you wrote me and I did not reply. It's hard to believe we haven't contacted each other in a month.

 

I went on a date yesterday. Nice guy, same profession and area as you, a little more mature. Still, he wasn't you. It was not as fun as with you. It made me miss you. Ugh :/

 

I wonder if it happens to you. I wonder if you go on dates or if you are dating someone and sometimes you think: "she's not as fun as her, I miss her". I guess I'll never know.

 

They say people start to value their ex when they meet new people and realize how in fact it's hard to like someone and have them also liking you back. It is hard indeed. Yes as you said there are millions of people in the world... but they're not you. Or me. Or us.

 

I hate that I still miss you sometimes. But it's getting better.

 

There must be someone out there that will make me realize there was a reason it didn't work out between us. I hope I meet him soon. I want so much to get you out of my mind for good. I think it will only happen for real when I meet someone I really like again

[edgygirl]

I'm a better woman than I have been

'Cause I don't think about way back when

It takes two to love but only one to leave

It was you who did that dirty deed

 

I got better things to do

Better things to do

Better things to do

Than remember you

 

It's a brighter day than ever before

'Cause I don't think about you no more

I got a new life and I'm feeling right on

My head is high and my spirit is strong

 

I got better things to do

Better things to do

Better things to do

Than remember you

 

Sharon Jones & The Dap-kings - Better Things

 

[love1336x]

Ahhhhhhh!!!

We work together on Thursday!!!

So not happy about this!!!

I'm panicking!!!

Ahhhhh!!!

Gonna be so freaken odd!!!

Not fair. I haven't broke NC for nearly a month!!!

Not fair!!!!!

[BridgetGrey]

The truth the reason i been ignoring is that I decided to break my attachment that I had of you for a almost a year. Yes I contacted you when I was feeling weak and needy because of my illness , but it's not like you hurried up to actually be there for me which I'm not blaming you for you have your own life that's established when I ended things ...

The thing is that if i kept talking to you it would have maybe meant unnecessary drama like I dunoo if I have still have feeling for you or not , I may have resentment for the stuff you pulled like going to my sister behind my back and you calling me insecure when you knew long distance was not working ...

I decided to go no contact and ignore you because I realized I needed to get myself back and stop being needy because that relationship brought the worst out of me at times ...

The truth I use to miss so much and long for you and your advises and tips , but now it's like I don't even miss you anymore that much maybe because I realized 2 -3 years of you were enough for me lol.

I'm not saying to ungrateful or bitchy but it's just I valued you so much and I don't anymore like I don't hate you and I wish the best and a part of will always appreciate the friendship and relationship because it made me learn and grown , but I don't feel like I need you in my life anymore.

 

I'm not saying let's not be friends but I'm not dying for that lol

funny enough I do wish our friendship recovers after months or years and we have a cup of coffee somewhere , but the right that chapter of me running to you about my problems is done.

 

 

hahha I'm actually not going to send him but man this is awesome

[love1336x]

I won't let this break me.

[Never Again]

It's been a long time since I logged onto this website.

 

It's been over a year now since we split, and over half a year since we last spoke.

 

I should be completely honest with you at this point: I cried every day for two months BEFORE the breakup. I slept only when I collapsed from sheer exhaustion. I was frequently irritable and was easily upset. I was stressed out, unable to provide the comfort, love and affection I had before.

 

I hid it because I was embarrassed. Because I was scared. Because I didn't want you to think I was weak. Because I didn't want to hurt you. Because I loved you more than anyone I'd ever known.

 

So I withdrew. I pulled away. I gave one word responses to texts, kept phone calls short, and was selfish and curt. I wasn't the kind, gentle, goofy, witty, positive guy you fell for. It wasn't my fault for being in such pain, but it was my responsibility to fix it. I just didn't realize it's gotten so bad. I needed you to tell me that I was making you feel lonely, that we weren't connecting, that there was something wrong.

 

I needed you to ask.

 

Yet, I still adore you. I haven't checked up on what you've been up to in months, but I'm sure it's incredible and exciting. I wish I could be a part of it.

 

Good luck, kiddo. Knock 'me dead.

[love1336x]

I need to be content in my own skin.

I need to be okay with being alone. .

I know I will find somebody else.

But it usually takes me so long like a year.

I want to bounce back within couple months or weeks

 

I simply want to find somebody who will in a sense "complete" me.

Corny I know. Awful I know. Where are you?

[love1336x]

I feel OKAY!

WHY!!!!

I AM LOOKING AT YOUR PICTURES.

I FEEL OKAY!!!

I FEEL OKAY!!!

WHY AM I NOT SAD????

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?

 

I FEEL HOPE STILL.

What is WRONG WITH ME!!!

[love1336x]

I wish I could cry....

I think it would ease the tension inside my heart... Seriously. its so tight...

[Shields boy]

You said I would regret it all them years ago. I must say I certainly do. If I could just spend 5 mins with you now, you would see how much you mean to me.

 

I never expected things to turn out like this. If you stepped in my shoes for a day, I feel you would be really heartbroken for me.

[love1336x]

Today has been sad day for me.

I accepted we won't be together again.

I thought it would have hit me harder.

What a big hole my heart has.

I want to called you so badly, but you might be with her.

I miss you so much. I think about you every single day.

You were my babe.

You were everything to me.

Where did we go wrong?

Ugh. Why me?

[CopingGal]

I see you have yet another woman. You screwed up the other woman you were dating- I felt so sorry for her. Now again. All you ever do is move from woman to woman and destroy their lives. 6 months from now she will be running to get away from you. You are so pathetic, so sick, sick, sick. The woman you cheated on me with is actually afraid of you. You are not human. You are disgusting piece of filth that I found under my shoe. You are vile, revolting, you stink, you smell, you have no body, you have the dead eyes of a shark and you are just the most disgusting thing I've ever seen in my life. Screw you, a-hole.

[supportlove]

Oh my god, I really miss you. Just woke up from a dream with you in it, feeling so hopeless right now. how are you doing？have you ever missed me at all?

 

It's been a month now, we have NC since the day we BU. It felt so hopeless that you missed a person so much but cannot talk to them. At the same time, I scared that if one day I do stop thinking of you at all, the thing between us would officially gone. It would become a period time of my life. A history. I cannot do that right now. So I suffer, feed it with sorrows and keep it alive.

 

Your side is just so quite. You don't talk to me. You don't care.

[Arient]

How sad it is to realize that I now am only allowed to miss you, but no longer can expect to receive the love back from you.

Having to move on, as you said, to be in the best option for both of us, is damn hard. I really feel like by moving on and leaving our love behind, I'm killing something so beautiful and precious of my life, with my own hands.

But you chose it that way. Fine. I'm struggling a lot, but I will pick myself up again, and be stronger, be better and sexier. Maybe I will see you again, maybe not, but I wanna make sure that the next time we meet, my heart won't skip even one beat.

NC - Back to day 1 again - I love you dove, a lot still.

[me85]

You suck you suck you suck you suck you suck you suck you suck, oh & uh...YOU SUCK!

[Xemyd]

I hate you for turning me into a mess.

[Justaguy30]

Its been about six months since I moved out and about 10 months since our relationship was any good. I still think about you pretty much everyday when I first wake up which is weird and just doesn't seem normal to me. Its hard starting my day thinking about someone that wants nothing to do with me that I don't talk to and don't even really know anymore. I still miss you but not like I used to, you are more of a distant memory which is kind of hard for me. I wish that you would have decided to try instead of choosing to get over me in any way you could while we were together. It seemed like you just couldn't understand why I was so upset and missing you. Its because I was and am alone, its always easier when you have tons of people to hangout with or screw because then you don't have to think about your feelings. I suppose this all worked out for the best. You were never going to be the kind loving woman that I wanted and needed in my life and I was never going to be the cold heart'ed person that only loved you enough to stick around but not care that you screwed around all of the time. No contact has helped a lot because every time we talk I want to talk some more and then hangout and you don't because you are dating that one guy you work with. I have heard that you cheat on him too so I guess it really didn't have a whole lot to do with me, it was about you but it sure felt like I wasn't good enough for you. I hope all is well and that you and the kids are happy although I doubt you will ever truly be happy having to know all the horrible things you have done to people. All the best

[hedyo]

I can't believe you did this to me. I thought we were together for the long haul. The first sign of trouble or boredom, and you bail? How could you say that you never saw anything special in me? After everything I shared with you, all the love I gave you, and you say I acted like I didn't care? That we didn't have true intimacy? All the times I tried to be nice and ignore hurtful things you did, and you throw it in my face like it's my fault for being a pushover? No. It's not my fault you couldn't see me for who I am. You don't deserve my love, and I'm happy you ended it. I hope you enjoy destroying yourself with alcohol and easy lays. We had something good, and you didn't care enough to work at it. I will survive this, and come out of it a stronger person. You'll still be a coward.