Post here instead of contacting your ex!

[me85]

LMFAO!!!!! This thread is great! LOVE the "ring ring...hello?...It's me B" Rolling!!!! In tears from laughing so hard at that. Oh man...

 

Anyways.

 

Dear Ex,

 

You will never be truly happy in life with ANYTHING if you keep going through girls like objects just because they don't praise you every second of every day for how "wonderful you are." You are so very selfish and untrustworthy. You keep buying stuff to fill the void and show off to your jerk off friends (who you're just like btw.) You and them are SO LAME. It's all about money money money, and babe I ain't being funny. It's immature to do the things you say and do. You are 28 year old boy who will never be a man at the rate you're going. You freed me and spared me from a lifetime of misery and I THANK YOU. I wish people knew the real you. You're such a fake person. Especially in front of your family, who just think you are so perfect. Psssshhhh. You have no respect for women. You abused me in every way and hid how you really are to me in front of others because you don't want to look like the one at fault. But one day you'll get caught. You're 28, have your own place and your Mother still takes care of you and comes to clean your house all the time??!!! Ugh! That woman! She is such an enabler. She is mostly to blame for spoiling you your whole life and praising you as if you deserve it. Not her fault though, she really has no clue who you really are, that you hit and choke women, and cheat on them and lead them on and on and just don't care. I am trying so hard to keep out of my heart but I am so angered by your actions. How could you ever be so cold to the girl you sais has loved you the most??? You are a F*&%^#@ idiot and so mean. You lied. Telling me you "love me so much and care deeply for me" Well how can you do me so wrong then?!!! You obviously DON'T love or care for me, because if you did you would HAVE NEVER HURT ME THE WAY YOU DID! I'm still so mad and wish you regret what you have done to me but you don't care. You are completely & totally narcissistic. All the abuse you put me through, you nearly destroyed my emotionally. It will take a long time to heal from all you put me through. I hope you choke on your guilt!

[Petunia20]

Days like today make me miss you so much. Days like today i feel jaded. I should be happy today but I'm not. All I can think about is that its 11-12-13. And how supposedly you two were supposed to marry today. well, did you? did you marry her today? Are you really happy? Because, I'm doing ok. Im coping well. At times I cry when i think of you or what could have been. BUt i snap back to reality and realize that it wont and cant be. my life is full of awesome people. I took a step back last night and realized that i am a good person. I have a lot of people who love me in their life. Some who wish i could be with them. BUt i feel nothing for them. Like none of them can replace you. Im not sving myself for you. I'm still seeing that guy. He's ok he makes me happy when i see him. I cant figure him out at all. He has had a lot of hurt in his life, i could tell. I wonder what life, God has instored for me. On 11-17-13 it will be 4 years since I left my ex-husband. A month later I met you and i felt like i had found the one. that i had been rewarded for everything i had suffered through. idk david, I dont hope you're happy. I just hope that your decisions were throughly thought of. I hope that you left because you were 100% sure you didnt want me anymore. I hope that where you are at is where you want to be regardless whether you are happy or not. I am here where I have always been because this will always be my home.

[Dumped85]

Dear J

This will be my final message to you, the final moment you are on my mind. Im sorry with the depth of my heart, that I did not know how to love you like you wanted me to. It was my fear of losing you, that ended up being the cause of losing you. Im sorry that you lost your love for me, your identity because of me. The overwhelmness effected us both and im sorry.Im sorry I wasn't the man you needed me to be. I know it does take two. And neither of us are to blame.

Take care.

 

I wanto send her this little letter, even though she threatened with police involvement. She just needs to know.

[mutant]

DONT! Silence is better, she will still get the message and there will be no police involvement.

[JoelBarish]

I've been telling myself since yesterday that I am over you. Is it true? Quite possibly it is true. So what do I mean by that statement? I don't mean that I do not miss what we had, I do miss the relationship. I don't mean that I don't think about you much of the day because I do that. I don't mean that I can't be hurt by you or by the sight/thought of you. What I do mean is that I think my feelings for you have changed. I don't find myself wanting you back and I really no longer care for your breadcrumbs.

 

Maybe a better way of putting it is I am getting over you.

[Riou]

Well,many forums have games,why not this?

This game is easy to play: imagine your ex died

and you are at his/her funeral and what would you say to him or her.

Try to make it as funny as possible,yet be forgiving and kind.

 

For example:

 

it's 6am in the morning but it's already raining.Is the sky crying for your death? Or was it the sky doing us a chore so we can use the heavy rain as excuse to not attend your funeral?I came still after all,it's the first time i get to see your photo in black and white.Maybe the first time i see your face without a mask though i don't know if your mask is thicker or your make-up that conceals your age.

Only your parents are here,they look more dehydrated than your dry body,they must have cried alot. I bow to your picture and look into the container that house you now. Maybe for once now you feel secure.

You don't need living people to reassure you now,you don't need those shallow friends,you just need a plastic that will not move or sway.

You won't feel cold anymore,it's gonna be very hot for awhile before

you become the air around us and i am not sure if you will fall on my shoulder like a droplet of rain as i kiss her.I loved you and let you go,because i gave my heart complete i am able to reclaim it fully without bits of it in corners of the world.Every place we had been to is full of morning sunshine and evening calm,you have no shadow.

Hours pass by and still there's only three of us,your mum,your dad and i.

Is this the moment of wake that you realise your shallow friendships don't matter more than us?

Bon voyage to you now that you will be cremated soon,remember to become oxygen not carbon dioxide when you linger in the air.

[Canadiangirl78]

Hi a$$wipe..

 

Here's to it being as hot down there as I hope it is..

[AnyaNova]

Well,many forums have games,why not this?

This game is easy to play: imagine your ex died

and you are at his/her funeral and what would you say to him or her.

Try to make it as funny as possible,yet be forgiving and kind.

 

Forgiving and kind won't really work for this, for mine, because of the nature of it (not that it is unforgiving or unkind, it just is what it is)...

 

As he gave me in life, so I give him in death...

 

complete

 

radio

 

silence.

[radiodarcy]

I can't seem to stop fighting that urge to look at my cell. Even though I know you have no way of knowing whether I'm looking at it at all or how often.

 

And while I'm slooowly letting go of the hope that you'll contact me with the words I want to hear; I'm also wishing you would at least send me something - - even if it isn't what I want to hear - - so I can at least have the dignity of ignoring you as you have ignored me

[love1336x]

Ughhhhhh. I miss your sex.

You are the only man who made me have the big O.

.... I guess when came to sex. You wasnt selfish...

 

*le sigh* I hope my next boyfriend is better than you in the sack.... I hope.

[maturityassets]

why the hell not post here for all times sake... Mmmmm I have changed and for the better R. Idk but I became a man since the break up. No longer a boy in my opinion. Like for some reason.... I feel powerful. Maybe my sexual chemistry is just better with E but I've certainly grown to be proud of myself. I feel like im attractive, I feel that I'm strong, I feel like I overcame the world itself. For I've been to the bottom of life. I know what it feels like to be dumped, depressed, despaired, shamed, guilty, ostracized, abandon, disappointed, alone and most of all anxious! But now **** you! I've put myself together. I'm on top of the world and you know what, nobody can bring me down. I've thrown off the shackles of society. I've become a wolf; strong, independent, dominat, daring and proud. Jeez I love my new hair style for the past month, and I love maintaining the short sides with my new trimmer. Also keep a nice short beard on my face with that trimmer, honestly I get so many compliments now... And have been put into awkward situations of turning down dates because people don't know about E. You know what R, I still wish nothing but good things for you. You know while I'm saying **** you! I'm also saying thank you! I grew up because of you and I became me! I'm Me! I'm not my parent's son, i'm not a student at my college, I'm not a citizen of New York, and I'm not your boyfriend or anybody's figment of who I should be! I am who I want to be! And I want to be happy with myself

[me85]

Yesterday I was full of anger, today, I thought about you every second in a "miss you" kind of way. I have no idea why. You are such a selfish *******.

 

I went to the movies with a mutual friend of ours…yet another movie without you, my movie buddy:(

 

After the movie, I gave our mutual friend your house key to give to you like I said I would even though I think you had forgotten I had it.

 

It doesn't seem right to be living life without you but it's obviously what you want even though you still act confused and like I could be "the one."

 

I know you are flirting with other girls and have probably even slept with someone by now because I know what a sexual person you are and how you can't go more than a week or so without it.

 

I look forward to the day when I only think about you every once in a while. Not every second like I have been.

 

Why do we always want what we can't have even after we've already had it and know that it just leaves such a bitter sweet taste in our mouth?

Edited November 14, 2013 by me85

[tooslowatlove]

Today would have been our 2 year anniversary, and I miss you so much. I still can't go more than a couple hours without thinking about you. You were stubborn and unmovable about getting your way, but you were also a joy in so many ways. I still wish I hadn't had to break it off with you, but I couldn't marry someone who insisted things always had to be her way or else, regardless of the problems it would cause.

 

 

I'm still madly in love with you, and not having you in my life is agony. I wish we could try again, but the last time we talked you still didn't get that what you want is not always what has to happen. I doubt you've changed your mind.

 

 

I still love you. I still want you. Even though I know I shouldn't.

[radiodarcy]

You know what bugs me the most: the fact that you never even gave me a chance before you cut me off.

 

I mean I get that you never met someone online and you had your reservations about it. I tried my best to reassure you. I made every effort to being accomodating and was willing to meet you in a place you would feel comfortable. But you kept putting me off. Guess that should have been my red flag right there.

 

And why oh WHY did you respond to my email when you disappeared last week???? I told you not to bother and that I would take your silence as a sign that you aren't interested and then you come back tell me that you still are then send me a few texts the next day and THEN disappear for six days (and counting). DUDE? WTF??? You were home free at that point, you should have just kept running.

 

If it weren't for that I would be nearly two weeks into my healing, instead of fermenting on day 6.

 

Oh and bear in mind that just because you meet someone in cyberspace doesn't mean they're not a living breathing feeling person. I gave you ever opportunity to find that out for yourself and you refused to take it.

 

Maybe YOUR own shady behavior is the reason why you don't trust people over the internet...

Edited November 14, 2013 by radiodarcy

[DoesThatMakeMeCrazy]

Back when you were 29, and I was turning 23 in a few weeks, you told me that my age was the absolute youngest you could go for because anything younger, you'd feel like a dirty old man. Well, from the looks of it, your new girlfriend is 21 years old, so now you're a 31 year old with kids dating a 21 year old girl whose idea of a satisfying life is going out partying four nights a week and boasting about how drunk she is on Twitter. Your strategy really is preying on young, inexperienced, insecure girls who don't know any better than to avoid a man with kids at their age, isn't it? Speaking of which, you also told me you despised nightclubs and the party lifestyle, and now you're dating a girl who seems pretty entrenched in it. LOL. Sounds like a recipe for success. Getting desperate, are we?

[AnyaNova]

Well, it is official.

 

I have my first real crush since the breakup happened.

 

Just keeping it light and fun. No expectations or anything. Just nice. He's got a great smile.

[MoooOinkBaaa]

tonight is a crying night, i miss you so much it's been over two months now and you're not going to come back are you, are you? you're just going to leave me here. what am i suppose to do now.

 

i waited so long, sooo long it was so ****ing long. for nothing

 

i waited so long for you

[thishatteredsymphony]

A fascinating and wonderful thing happened today. At 4pm I suddenly realized I hadn't thought about you all day. That was literally the first moment the entire day you crossed my mind. And all I felt was indifference. I didn't care what you were doing, who you're with. That moment in time I thought about you as much as I think about a random guy I pass on the street.

 

It's not over yet, but that moment has made me realize I'm getting there. I'm finally reaching indifference. And it feels better than anything.

[JoelBarish]

The things you said the other night really hurt me. When you were my girlfriend you were so sweet to me. Why did it change? You wonder why you aren't happy? It's because you gave up the best part of your life, me. I just want to remember you the way you were when we were together or not at all.

 

We can never go back now. You've burned too many bridges. You said that you don't know how to get over me and that you cry over me every other day, then why did you do this to us? You and your actions are the source of your unhappiness. You should think before you do things. Again and again in your life have you gotten yourself in too deep and then you wonder why you are trapped in your miserable life with no way out. You've done this to yourself.

 

You are too needy and too clingy and you get too involved with people. You are like this parasite that attaches to any nearby host. You are everybody's girl. I hope that ogre you are involved with knows that you were ****ing me the whole time he was chasing after you. I hope he feels real special that he is the latest to take his turn with "everybody's girl". He won a real prize when he found you, a parasite spreading from host-to- host

[DoesThatMakeMeCrazy]

I've already established that you're not the type of guy I want to be with for about 6,000 different reasons, yet I still keep thinking about you and wishing I could talk to you. I've resorted to trying to figure out how to get my name to show up on your "People you might know" list on Facebook to see if it'd prompt you to contact me..don't think it's possible to do this anyway.

 

I don't think I actually miss you; I certainly don't want to be with you. As physically and emotionally drawn to you as I might feel, logically I know that a relationship with you could never be anything but hell. I think I just want the closure I never got. The fact that we spoke every day for months and shared intimate details about our lives and then just abruptly stopped talking is messing with my head so badly. All I wanted was an official "goodbye" and an acknowledgement that we had *something* at some point and that I meant *something* to you. I don't know how to even verbalize what I'm trying to say. That's part of my problem; I'm all scatterbrained and brain fogged. I just wish we could talk one final time, finalize everything. And I wish we could hug...that doesn't have anything to do anything really; I'm just sad and want that hug you used to tell me you wished you were giving me when we'd talk on messenger.

 

The worst part about all of this is that it wasn't a "real" relationship since it was online and we don't even live in the same country, so I can't even talk to anybody about it. As far as my friends are concerned, I've never had a boyfriend. And what am I going to do? Go to a counselor and say I'm tired of crying every night over my cyber ex-boyfriend?

 

This is so stupid. I wish I could just meet someone else and forget all about you, but I don't attract people because I'm too stupid, fat, and ugly. Sucks. I don't know.

[JustaRegularGuyZ]

I miss you Kitty.

[AZtragedy]

Dear _______

 

I want you to know how cruel and inhumane it is to leave me all alone, with no warning, no foreknowledge, and no reconsideration after 16 years. What sort of a person makes the decision to leave without even giving me the chance to try to understand what is going on with you? You are my wife! What gives you the right to make all the decisions about us FOR us, without one word of what you were feeling?

 

You say now that "sometimes relationships change"... this should not be a newsflash, but this is not just a "relationship", WE ARE MARRIED!! This is the most serious commitment and promise two people can make while they are on this planet. Since you do not feel it is that important to honor your word in the most serious way possible, WHY SHOULD ANYONE TRUST YOU or WHY WOULD ANYONE RESPECT YOU ever again?? Your word of honor and your promises that you make to your loved ones are all you have!

 

Your new quest for "happiness" is, like you say, incredibly selfish. It is also disrespectful, degrading, disgusting, and pathetic. You are a 39 year old woman, not 18, not 21, not even 29!! You tell me that your weight loss made you a "new person". Well, this "new person" is someone who will cheat, deceive, lie, manipulate, disrespect, and treat others like they are nothing at all, in order to satiate your curiosity about what it is like to "be in a relationship with other people" and find out what it is like to have sex with other people. I hope someday you will think about this and wonder if it was really worth the hell you have caused.

 

Since other people's opinions and thoughts about you are now more important than what I feel and think about you, I wonder if you will ever have any sort of peace or contentment for yourself.

 

Also, it is so trashy to have an emotional affair with a coworker, then allow it to turn physical, and then decide to tell me that you were "drifting" and that the marriage is through, and then move in with him a day or two later... I suppose you are in a big hurry to "move on" because your biological clock is ticking away, and now is your chance to try to live out the youth you thought you were deprived of......is it really very wise to shack up with someone immediately after leaving our home?

 

You did not allow me any opportunity to reconcile (even though that is what I want, despite all the pain you have caused me). Despite all of the misery that I have been in for 6+ weeks, I am still willing to TRY to work out our problems or differences. You do not want that, at least not now. This power trip that you are on must be very enjoyable for your insecure ego. You have all the power now, and I have none. Well, the only power I do have is to move on and make myself an even better person than I was before. After all of this, I am going to be a much, much stronger and wiser person than you will ever be.

 

Enjoy your foggy delusions in unicorn land while you can...sooner or later, reality and routine will catch up with you (the cheating wife) and your new "soulmate" (the wife stealer/lowlife). You are both disgusting, with no principles, no scruples, and absolutely no class whatsoever.

[Mario79]

So you called me first. Because you accidentally dialed my number. I dont know how you accidentally dial someone but you did and you saw my drawings of you and liked them. You knew I was hurting, you knew talking to me would do me harm. You went ahead and did so anyways, giving me hope that at least we could be friends. Since you have no idea how **** my life has now become since I lost my friends at work and have been alone.

 

So one day after going through severe anxiety, 10 days after your call, I text just wanting to congratulate you and graduating your cosmetology course, which I just said, congrats I think you are an artist in this craft. To which you replied, never speak to me again you have caused me 1000s of problems today, how the hell can a message like that cause so many problems??? I then tell you that wasn't my sentiment, I am sorry. To which you tell, leave me alone once and for all, I am going to change my number.

 

I had enough restraint to understand that I shouldn't contact you ever again since you are a damn crazy bitch who is with a married guy who obviously does not respect your privacy and checks your ****ing phone like once did me, cause since he is cheating with you does not trust, and you are mad at me cause he more than likely saw my message. WTF, you called me and made me feel like I could contact you. Now you treat me like criminal, a stalker. During our time together even when fought I distanced myself and gave you time and patience which you never did me. Please do me a favor and go to hell.

[Sasa123]

I miss talking with you. I miss having you in my life. I wonder if you're thinking of me? Are you happy with your decision? I will never understand how you could walk away.My heart die a little every time I think of you.

[Petunia20]

I wish I could hear something from you. Anything...anything at all. A sign that you still think of me. I find it impossible that you dont think of me here and there. But what kind of thoughts come to your mind when you do? Bad ones, good ones? My thoughts of you are mixed so maybe I just answered my own question. For the most part I just want to know if you miss me at all. Maybe I am still in denial that you are happy where you are. I cant imagine you being happy over there but the truth is that i dont know and I probably wont know. YOu were never going to stay here. Your home is over there. Just needed to get this thought out before I head up to Big Bear for the weekend. Maybe in another month or two I will review my progress on this forum. I sitll have love for you. I dont miss u as much. I guess I forgot what its like to have you in my life. I know what you did for me but I forgot the feeling you used to give me. Maybe in some other universe we would have worked out. What is done is done so goodbye for now.