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[Lost_Dragon]

Well.. You got my jeep now. You can't even drive it and I know it's not at your mother's. I drove past there to see if it was there. I don't even know if you are still living there. Whatever. I don't want to know. I hope you are satisfied with yourself. You said you won't contact me ever again. Somehow i know that's a lie. You will use some lame excuse, Like your birthday or Xmas. I won't respond to your nonsense. I know you probably thought I wouldn't see this through. There's only room in here for one.

I decided it's not you.

[TylerDurdenn]

Let's run away to somewhere hot and get married x

[Lost_Dragon]

Trick or Treat!!!

 

What a scary mask!!

 

Oh, I'm sorry..

 

It's your real face.

[Haydn]

Fitful night. I dreamt you loved me. No hope no harm. Another false alarm.

[Lost_Dragon]

You're out of luck.

Because this is me

Not giving a f*ck!

[love1336x]

THIS IS NOT FOR MY EX.

It's for a friend...

 

An ex best friend...

I thought you was like a sister to me... We known eachother since grade school...

 

I said SORRY. I said sorry to you and your man...

Yet you wanna treat me like crap? For what? What more do you want? I know I cross the line, I know I shouldn't have said what I said, but IT WAS SAID! GET OVER IT.

People have arguments. People get over them though! Not you! You just wanting a reason to cut me off i guess.. a reason not to be my friend anymore.

 

 

I said sorry... maybe sorry isn't always enough... You think you known somebody for so long, then they flipped on you...

[Katie9321]

God I miss you. I'm sorry....more than you'll ever know.

[Nikki Sahagin]

Thanks for not bothering to message me about my dog.

Do you hide my posts or are you just a heartless jerk?

[Never Again]

I don't know if I've been changed for the better, but - because I knew you - I've been changed for good.

 

Get bent.

[Dumped85]

I wanto speak with you one more time and say **** you you slut your a ****ing bitch I hate you, but youd really get me on a restraining order hey. You heartless bitch..

[2fargone]

Life without you isn't the same as life before you. Wether it's better or not I yet have to find out...

[Blastoplast]

Whoa, visiting this new girl I've been seeing in HER town tonight -- and turns out she lives about 4 blocks away from you! How sweet would it be to bump into walking with a huge upgrade around my arm

[Dazed'n'Confused]

Hey babe,

 

How's things? Been missing you like crazy and it's only been five days no contact. Work's been stupidly busy, but it's nice to have a distraction.

 

I'll be seeing your parents on Tuesday to say my goodbyes, I'll also give them your brothers birthday present so I won't have to come down on the day.

 

Saw the counselor the other day and I'm working on dealing with my anxiety. I've also booked in to see them again before Christmas since it's going to be a tough time for me. I let my illusions become a delusion, but what a beautiful delusion it was. I love you very very much.

 

DnC

[Dumped85]

Miss what could hav been, but I don't miss you

[Haydn]

Had a great night last night, live music. Forgot you. Woke up this morning could smell your hair. Remembered you. X

[Dumped85]

Im done having you on my mind, I am over the bull**** of thinking of you. You left me and moved on to another. I just want to do the same. I hate you, never want to be thinking of you. Can't believe I actually loved you, you're a slut a bitch a cunt Go get ****ed.

[AnyaNova]

Shoot.

 

Just found out something that I couldn't not post about.

 

So, I'm an idiot sometimes, and I was really one with this.

 

I thought that I was going to help you with your problems and your self-esteem issues and everything, help you to be the best you, you could be.

 

I am an idiot. Because I think that we both probably have Avoidant Personality Disorder, perhaps yours stronger than mine, I don't know, because I don't tend to send people I love away before they can hurt me by leaving, but reading through all those symptoms, I am pretty sure we both have it.

 

Damn. The last thing either of us need right now is this stupid NC. I don't know what kind of relationship would be healthiest for us to have right now, my guess is that answer to that would be "not romantic", but friends working through this together? Or take time ourselves with a limited NC, knowing we will come back together somehow?

 

But I know that you would have to be willing to admit that something is wrong. That you have this too. So you won't contact me. And if I just tried to tell you, you wouldn't believe me. Damn. Damn. Damn.

 

there are many ways that we could be really good for each other as friends trying to work on this.

 

But it won't be. Will it.

[Klaatu17]

It's amazing to me the way you treated me on our last night. You were the one that was doing something sh##ty, (you told me you were leaving with some guy you just met) but you tried to make me out to be the bad guy...(telling me that I was co##blocking you)...well, unlike the last time, I didn't take your bait and simply just left the bar with you and your new "friend" talking away. You really are a piece of work and should get help for your obvious emotional problems. I've just deleted your # from my phone...now please just leave me the f##k alone. You truly do not deserve my friendship.

[what_a_blonde]

Trick or Treat!!!

 

What a scary mask!!

 

Oh, I'm sorry..

 

It's your real face.

 

 

Teehehehe

[JoelBarish]

What a roller coaster you and I are on. You know how badly I want our relationship back. And what do you want? You don't know, do you? I treated you like a queen and you know this. But you don't know how to be happy. You don't love yourself.

 

What will you feel some day when you run into me and you see me holding hands with someone else? Will you finally understand what you have given up?

 

Was our whole relationship a lie? Was any of it real? I don't know you anymore and what is worse is I'm not sure if I ever did.

[AnyaNova]

Did you even read it? Do you care? Even if I am wrong and you don't have it too (although the likelihood you don't is not high, since I find those characteristics "safe" in my partners. I seek out other people with it too), by even if you don't, I am suffering with this. Do you even care?

 

I think you know how deeply rejection cuts for people who have this. What, did your parents forbid you from contacting me? Are you completely unwilling to look at your life and acknowledge that there might be something wrong?

 

You know, again, I find myself being willing to give more than you, because if the situations were reversed, I would have gotten in touch with you. I would have tries to support you as best I could.

 

All those words you spoke or being open to friendship down the road. Were they complete bull****?

[thishatteredsymphony]

If there’s one memory I recall more vividly than any other, it’s walking into what was still legally my home and finding him sitting on the couch with you. It is the sort of thing you might expect to see only in your nightmares, the kind of scene no one ever wants to come home to. You had many opportunities to do the right thing throughout the whole situation and you failed each time – just as you’ve failed so many times before. You never learn.

 

You point fingers and cry about others’ “judgments” when you’ve brought judgments on yourself, instead of facing your difficulties head on, likely because you don’t know how to – a rather sad realization. Keep your own judgments about the wrong things I did a month ago, which you've surely connected to me by now. They are in no way comparable to your actions, and quite frankly I'm not at all sorry.

 

These choices you’ve made are a reflection of your moral deficiency, mental and emotional weakness, and lack of empathy. Perhaps, deep down, you ultimately realize this, which is why you’ve always considered yourself mediocre. Perhaps, this is because that’s all you really are.

 

I have no idea what your last text message said, because I deleted it quickly without reading it. But judging on how short it was, you were trying to make small talk which I'm not interested in, let alone any talk at all. Contact me all you want, you're not getting anything from me this time. I'm done with you.

Edited November 4, 2013 by thishatteredsymphony

[justtrying]

Hi everyone! I really hope to get to know some of you and your stories.

 

I have a pretty urgent question that i would really appreciate answering.

 

My girlfriend told me 2 nights ago out of nowhere she doesn't think she loves me anymore but needs to think about it and repeated 'this might not be the end'. I'm going full NC but there's 1 thing I'm not sure about. I know Facebook isn't the place for this stuff but it still says we are in a relationship, would me removing that be a good or bad decision right now? We didn't officially break up and I do have hope we will reconcile but this feels like an important factor.

 

Thanks guys, Toby

[Never Again]

Sigh.

 

I wasn't feeling "in love" or attracted to you back in April.

 

It ate at me. You were beautiful, energetic and affectionate. You were everything I ever wanted in a woman, but I wasn't "feeling it".

 

I pulled away then. I buried myself in the career I hated and the search for a new one.

 

I backed out of disagreements with you, made you drive to me, and basically let my insecurities show for 4-5 weeks.

 

And then, after nearly a month and a half of brooding over it and being a drag, I came to my senses. I *loved* you. That "spark" didn't matter. Attraction and "those feelings" don't last forever, but I could see a future with you.

 

And lawd did I want it.

 

But my doubts, and the lack of confidence I showed while they ate at me, revealed my vulnerable side. Suddenly, I wasn't as strong, confident or fun. You never confronted me about this - never said a peep. You just silently let your attraction for me fade away, while still flirting with me, demanding to see me and initiating sexual activity.

 

I only felt something was "off" when you were away on your two week vacation. We were having our first post-honeymoon "rough patch"...or so I thought...but nothing huge.

 

I was falling in love with you all over again, now that my rose colored glasses had come off.

 

Just as I was, you apparently bottomed out. You couldn't take a valley in attraction to me while I was in a tough spot. You left in a fit of tears. You "loved" me, but didn't have "those feelings" and couldn't convince yourself to try. Not even a little.

 

That's what actually hurt. That's why I cried.

 

Not because the relationship ended. I knew I could live without you. But lying to me for a month? Leading me to believe you still wanted to be with me? Refusing to communicate because you "didn't know how" or "didn't think it would change anything"? You were supposed to be my lover AND best friend.

 

Yet, after 10 months of sharing everything, you couldn't even tell me that *we* weren't meeting your expectations.

 

Balls.

Edited November 4, 2013 by Pfenixphire

[Petunia20]

So yesterday my curiosity and my feeligs that I still hold for you got the best of me. I looked at both your Twitter accounts. I cant say that I was surprised by what I saw. I was already expecting to see that stuff. You are constantly proffesing your undying love for her and she is to you as well. You call her your wife and she calls you her husband. From what i read it seems you have plans to get a house, a motorcycle and a car? I guess I just wasnt the one for you. I wasnt the person you wanted all that with and she is. You're ready to build a family with her and if she is pregnant like she claims she is, although i dont believe her, then u will have all that. As for me, well I will go back to not looking at your accounts. I hope that I can go longer this time and eventually just not care what you are up to. Doesnt really hurt me anymore like it used to. Maybe because I'm having fun with someone. I've accepted that ur gone. And i know that we could never be again. I honestly wished i had never helped u with anything. u took and took and gave nothing in return. BUt it is what it is and only time will tell our future. For now, i am content with my friends,my family , Moe and Palm SPrings lol