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[JoelBarish]

I don't know why you came over this week. The stupid toys didn't matter and you know it. What happened? Was he just a friend? Did he dump you? Did you dump him after you realized he wasn't me? If you really want to get ahold of me you know how.

 

I really wanted to text you after I found out about your visit. I wanted to open the lines of communication again. But I didn't. If you ever want me back the burden is on you to make things right.

 

My niece doesn't want the things you have given her anymore. I wish I were as strong as she is.

[AnyaNova]

The sandwich is smooshed.

 

I am still pissed that of the biopsychosocial model, it seems to be all bio, and very little psychosocial.

 

But as a very wise poster (Joel Barish) said here,

 

"A full meal with someone new is better than breadcrumbs from an ex."

 

How true.

[Familia]

So I have made it through Friday night and most of Saturday now without breaking down and trying to contact the EX, its been super difficult its now been a week since I decided to go NC. I have heard nothing from her, although I really am stuck to the phone in the hope she msgs or calls damn this is so hard and I hate counting the days/weeks.

 

I miss you Misspolly - I wish things could just be back how they were and I was holding and cuddling you all weekend, although I know that is now a distant memory. Love you Polly xoxoxox

[JoelBarish]

It's time I face it. You are never coming back. Sure I will see you in a few weeks time when you pay me. We will both be polite. You will ask me how I am doing and maybe I will give you a few tidbits. I will ask you if you and the boys are doing good. I won't ask you about that guy I saw you with. If you mention anything that even hints at upsetting me I will tell you it's better not to reopen old wounds. We'll be polite but it will be awkward and it will be over quickly.

 

Halloween is coming up...Thanksgiving..your birthday...Christmas. My memories of last year will be drowning me.

 

But you aren't coming back. All of my thoughts entertaining you coming back is delusional. And if you did come back, what would it be like? Would you be honest and come clean with me? Could I ever trust you again? Could I ever give you my love again?

 

There is too much against us and you don't want me. I just need to finally let you go in my heart. I have to give up on you just as you gave up on me.

[JustaRegularGuyZ]

**** You Cunt. I am glad our relationship is over. You demanded so much and you assumed I gave you nothing in return. You are a joke. No other guy will be able to take your **** for as long as I have and if you ever contact me, I will tell you to **** off and to have a nice life.

[Lost_Dragon]

It is true. Nobody really likes you. Yes, it is all your fault. You're a shady, two faced, back stabbing disgrace.

 

Have a nice death

[AnnaAnna]

It is true. Nobody really likes you. Yes, it is all your fault. You're a shady, two faced, back stabbing disgrace.

 

Have a nice death

 

Sounds like you're talking about my ex

[love1336x]

In two week it will make a month since we last spoke!

Crazy how time flies by!!!!

 

NC is as always getting easier.

I have my days when I want to talk to you and days when I don't even think about you.

 

I'm healing!

[Lost_Dragon]

Don't know why I miss you

Hate that I love you

Can't stand your presence

Love that I hate you

Stay with me stay

Stay

With

Me

Stay

STAY AWAY!!!!

[lindsay1990]

I may have my issues, may be impulsive and impatient but YOUR BAGGAGE ruined us. For being 26.5 years old, virgin, never having had a girlfriend DAYUM you carried a heavy, heavy burden.

 

Between your OCD, your lack of self-awareness, your extreme people-pleasing, your keeping your previous crushes as "best friends", your attachment to these emotional affairs, your ridiculous expectations, your constant ASSUMPTIONS, your lack of backbone, your crappy communication skills (if we consider you even had any skills), your overbearing mother, your meddling, self-righteous family, your shallow, nosy friends, your bringing everybody into our problems, your talking about our issues, talking about other peoples' issues, your never apologizing, your victimizing yourself, your blind-siding me the vanishing of your feelings, and your not matching what you thought/felt in public, private and secret.... there was no way we could have worked.

 

 

You have a waaaays to go before you can call yourself a Man. Good luck with that. (Just kidding, worst of luck. you deserve little more).

Edited October 26, 2013 by lindsay1990

[Lost_Dragon]

I may have my issues, may be impulsive and impatient but YOUR BAGGAGE ruined us.

 

Between your OCD, your lack of self-awareness, your extreme people-pleasing, your keeping your previous crushes as "best friends", your attachment to these emotional affairs, your ridiculous expectations, your constant ASSUMPTIONS, your lack of backbone, your crappy communication skills (if we consider you even had any skills), your overbearing mother, your meddling, self-righteous family, your shallow, nosy friends, your bringing everybody into our problems, your talking about our issues, talking about other peoples' issues, your never apologizing, your victimizing yourself, your blind-siding me the vanishing of your feelings, and your not matching what you thought/felt in public, private and secret.... there was no way we could have worked.

 

^^^THIS^^^

 

Same as my Ex.

[SunsetWay]

I do not accept your non-apology. You make me sick!

[Lost_Dragon]

You saved the best and put me last.

 

The worst part of me was you.

[AnnaAnna]

I am back to laughing and having fun again. I am almost at the point where I was before I met you. I really missed that old me. Always happy and smiling. It feels great!

You made me miserable and your love was very toxic. I am happy I don't have to put up with your nonsense anymore. You enjoyed hurting me and I was stupid for letting you!

I hear she's not happy and I can't help but laugh. If only she knew the real you she would run for the hills.

[AnyaNova]

Must remember the smooshed sandwich metaphor.

 

We had a sandwich. It got smooshed. Ground beneath your heal. Well and truly smooshified.

 

Its gone.

 

There is no sandwich. There is no, "we"

 

More than one man on OLD have expressed interest in having relationships with me. Many men have expressed interest in, well, I'm sure you can imagine (of course, the ones that lead with that, well, will never, ever have a chance at that with me. :-))

 

But this is the equation. The only one that matters right now, because you have made it clear that this is so. Tim = smooshed sandwich.

[AnyaNova]

You know, I really want to go to the Zen garden. I really want to, but if I go alone, I know it will suck, because I will be thinking of you and the couple of times that we went there.

 

I think, if I don't get a call from Troy, I may just pack it in, put on comfortable clothes and do more homework.

 

This sucks, tonight!

[lindsay1990]

What you did was worse and COWARDLY.

[firefly2613]

I think that I'm not happy with what you've done, but in some ways I understand it. I wasn't my best self and you're 18. I know you have a lot to figure out.

 

I burned all your stuff today, even the special note you told me to always carry in my wallet. That hurt the most. I sat in front of the fire holding it, crying, and it took everything I had to throw it in. I cried for twenty minutes, and we've split for a little over a month.

 

I cried because I found out you're already dating another guy when you said you wouldn't. I cried because you only met him two months ago, and I just can't forget that everything was perfect and everything was happy, and my memories are all over this town and all this house. I'm so conflicted. Did he steal you from me? Are you rebounding? Did you bail? Are you really confused with your life?

 

I put everything I had into this, and I loved you. The sad thing is I still love, and I would take you back today, but granted I would make you work for it, believe me. I guess in time I will learn to build a wall - but part of me knows that there's no way you're over me. It's only been since the 18th of last month since we broke up. Sometimes I catch myself imagining the day you come back - I think about it more than I should - but then I try to convince myself that we really are done forever, like everyone says I should, and it starts the cycle all over.

 

You told me I was suffocating you and you needed space. That's what I'm trying to give you now. It has been 11 days since I have spoken to you, and you have not tried to reach out to me.

 

Am I holding onto vain hope, or are you really gone?

 

Why can't I convince myself that it's over?

[JoelBarish]

Every day that goes by makes me sad. I am sad because the time we were together is getting farther and farther away. And you don't miss me at all. You are probably out enjoying your new life with him. You disgust me. I showed you the other day that I don't want your lousy breadcrumbs. Just mail me what you owe me. We have nothing to say to each other. If you ever look back and feel regret I will remind you that you made your own bed, now lie in it.

[AnyaNova]

So, it turns out I was wrong. I had missed a text from the guy right after apologizing for not feeling up to it, he wasn't being a jerk with the phrasing, it just seemed like it. And then he changed his mind.

 

I went out on my first date tonight since you and I went our separate ways in September. It was certainly unique. But he was nice. I was cold and the jacket I chose was not sufficient, he lent me his jacket and helped me put it on. He certainly was a gentleman.

 

I wonder sometimes if you are dating or you miss me. But this was a good step. I'm glad I did. And during the whole thing, I didn't think of you at all save one time when a car drove by that looked like yours, and then only for a second and I forgot right afterwards.

 

It was good. It was a step I needed to take.

[Familia]

Well its Sunday night now and I have made it through the weekend without trying to contact you. Its been a week today since I decided to go NC. I have heard nothing from you and have resisted all temptation to contact you over the weekend. Its so damn hard to not get in the car and drive a few blocks just to talk, although i know you will turn me away as you have moved on and asked for NC. Damn this is so hard to not contact you.

[Haydn]

Totally lost this week without you. I hate you S.

[love1336x]

Somebody today called me with unknown number.

I doubt it was you because you have to give a fly about me...

[Lost_Dragon]

You used to say I didn't care.

Were you trying to convince me?

I tried to go, but you blocked the door.

I never left. You left me.

My door stayed open.

I let you back in.

You ran away.

I let you back in again.

Why are you yelling at me?

Just leave me alone.

I'll take all the blame.

Turn everyone against me.

You need to be free.

I won't hold you back love.

[JustaRegularGuyZ]

I've been talking to this wonderful girl for the past few days. I've known her back in school and was always interested in her and now I find out she always thought I was Hot. She is intelligent, educated, well established, and for the first time I feel like I am able to talk to somebody on the same intellectual level without making the conversation easier for you to understand.

I am so glad that we are done, if not this BreakUP I would've never met her. She is so interesting and you were so boring.

I am glad we are done. Thank You ex.