Post here instead of contacting your ex!

[Petunia20]

I'm craving you today. Wish we could just have hot meaningless sex.

Was going to post something sad when this made me laugh....sorry not trying to mock.

[love1336x]

lol. i think every single day I want to break NC.

 

It's been a week since I made contact with you like an idiot.

[seekingpeaceinlove]

Was going to post something sad when this made me laugh....sorry not trying to mock.

 

No worries! I laugh at myself. I'm horny, miss him terribly, but would never actually have sex with him b/c it would mean too much right now. So, just kind of posting to get it out of my system.

[SimonSerenade]

I'm starting to feel pretty glad you finished me back then, I hated the push over you turned me in to, at least now you can't hurt me anymore, well you can and still do but I don't hate myself for accepting it and sticking by you through it.

 

Yesterday was one of the hardest days I've had to face in my life time and somehow I pushed through it, just like I did through all of this, You can lie through your teeth and say whatever you want about me from now on, I don't care anymore, it takes a good and caring person to take everything you said and did and still love you and stand by you for it and that's what I did, I was kind, considerate, loving, loyal and generally a good boyfriend to you, you were none of that.

 

I didn't deserve any of this and I would of never of turned my back on you and put you through any of this, that's the difference between us, you won't get the satisfaction of hurting me anymore, I gained back the part of me that draws strength from crap like this and moves on yesterday and now that part of me is back, I realize that I've been here before and I didn't really enjoy it the first time but I got over it and I gave less and less of a crap as time went on.

 

You have been a very cold and cruel person and the sad part is, I still don't believe that's who you really are but you can't take back what you said and what you did, I just hope one day you throw that part of yourself over board and go back to being the happy, caring, amazing lovable person that I fell in love with and I hope you make somebody really happy like that one day.

 

I don't hate you, not even for all of this, if life has taught me anything lately it's to let go of a grudge and forgive the people that have wronged you, I forgive you for everything and for the last and final time I'm letting it go, maybe one day we can be friends and have a good laugh about everything like we used to but for now, I'd appreciate it if you left my life and the people in it alone so I can fully heal, it was the least I could do for you so please return the favour.

 

Goodbye Heather, I truly loved you and I would have given anything to have been the one for you, good luck finding the one for you, I genuinely mean that.

[JoelBarish]

Why do you even bother texting me? When did you decide to break up with me? What changed over night? You will never again find a connection like we had. You gave it up for NOTHING! I will never trust you with my heart again. Do you even realize the damage you have done? Maybe you will in 5 or 10 years if you are any wiser which I doubt. You deserve the life you have made for yourself and you are stuck with it. Your still living the same ****ty life with the same ****ty people you were with in your failed marriage. I feel sorry for your children

[movingonnow1]

EXACTLY. Have you ever done it? Tried to make them jealous?

 

Don't go down to that level. I know you want to do that to him but what good will it do? You'll just end up hurting yourself more by opening that line of communication.

 

I think you need to focus on yourself - NC!!!

[movingonnow1]

I think that upon the break up, they are okay with us being with other people. Or at least they are okay ENOUGH to take that chance.

 

Sometimes they break up with you because they want to be with other people but KEEP you around for them too by being friends, throwing you mixed signals etc. For example, my ex lol

[lovelylilly]

Stay with no contact! Fight it, no matter how hard it is. I'm on day ten and it's a really good feeling knowing that I've gotten this far. I'm still wondering when/if I should contact him, but then I think of the conversation I know we'll have and I just don't want to put myself through that. Stay strong!

[JoelBarish]

I am sick of blaming myself for everything. Why don't you take some responsibility for your part in this. Can't you ever admit you were wrong and say you were sorry

[sniperz]

I have kept on changing. Getting more better, less anger , almost a better and caring person. Controls of emotion would be better. Does she know it? We both love each other.

 

I broke it up for the best of me and her. My flaws and so as hers for the moment just to see her happier too and I wished she was fine now.

Edited September 19, 2013 by sniperz

[AnyaNova]

Moving since it didn't seem to fit.

Edited September 19, 2013 by AnyaNova

[Nancy87]

Every morning when i wakeup, i feel this URGE to open his fb page. ughhhhh!

I have deactivated my account n IT WONT HAPPEN.

I HAVE TO MAINTAIN STRICT NC, n if he loves, he would come back without me having to follow him!!

[Nancy87]

i deactivated my account n u know what it maKes me think...

 

 

That i am helping him get over me by vanishing from his surroundings and all.. n i don't want that ..

[lindsay1990]

Good for you.

 

 

I moved out from my ex's apartment on Aug. 6th and deactivated my Facebook within the hour. (I had deleted him previously but he still blocked me the second I left the house). I fiiiiiinally opened it again on Aug. 28th after taking a break. Stay strong

[Emma1234]

I'm on over 2 months of no contact. 4.5 months post break up. Trust me it's the cure.

 

He has contacted me 3 times, just breadcrumbs. I'm struggling right now not to respond, it's so difficult. I know it'll be worth it for myself though. I will heal if I don't respond, i just need to remind myself that it doesn't matter if he doesn't think I'm over him by not responding.

 

It doesn't matter what he thinks about me now.

[No_closure]

I should have known you were just a boy and not a man. I should have known better but you had me fooled so well. You couldn't even grow a pair and tell it to MY FACE that our marriage is over. You lied and messed with my mind making me believe everything was ok. But no you reverted back to your mommy. I hope you realize that the grass is NOT greener even though you seem to think it is. You are a scumbag and the lowest piece of crap in the universe. I can't believe I was married to such a weak individual. You tried too hard and you just looked like a fool.

 

I see you made a new facebook. Adding all the people who DON'T like you, who never talk to you, and who you also talk crap about! You are a fake. And I hate myself for falling for your lies and all your BS!!!!!!!! You will regret walking out on me because no other girl is going to deal with your mamma boy syndrome and be your little BTCH and fall asleep with you rub your back make you breakfast and lunches. So PSS OFF!!!!!!!

[baRx]

All of my Nope! F--k you, just f--ck you. After all the sh-t you put me through from 2009-2012, I still forgave you. I let you come back and what did you do? Stabbed me in the f--king back again. You're heartless. Remember all those times you said "I'm gonna die alone and miserable :(" -- you deserve to.

[Nancy87]

I feel so weak right now. Missing my ex so bad..

His warm embrace, his loving eyes, his sweet words...

 

N then i get reminded of his harsh words n him telling me that its God who doesnt want us together. Why would God get into sth like this.. why wouldn't he want two lovers to meet

 

I feel like crying...

 

 

Struggling with NC. since i deactivated my fb i am NOT going to look at his pic. NO!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

*sad*

Post breakup blues.. its been 3.5 months since the breakup though

 

 

I treat myself well, went for a massage, ate good, concentrate hard on my work and even get the things done but he returns to my thoughts in the middle of everything out of nowhere

Edited September 19, 2013 by Nancy87

[hurts2death]

you b itch broke my heart and took advantage of my self fully...

 

i was the one to care more than your mama and instead of banging all these females that were hitting on me and i felt guilt about i was taking care of you and was loyal till death....

 

i exhausted all my money. i got stressed ALOT.

 

i did the extra mile.. left everything for you... trusted you. went inside you...

 

regardless all this you left me for your low ass paying secretary style job in a redneck town....

your friend circle already looks pathetic and the guys that approach you are beta males wanting to put their d@@@ somewhere....

 

i wont interfer with your destiny and trust me it is going to be a really bumpy road... until you end up an old family less ugly fat short heartless brick.

 

kisses to yo mama that was praying for you to leave me ... kisses to your working enviroment (its made of 9 divorced middle aged women) that since you met me to them they started saying sh it about you not being good to be in a relationship that young...and you aint young at all/.///

 

i regret having sex with you ...it was love from me .... and i wish i never did..

 

and sth else

 

your ex was a kind and poor guy that you tored him up for good and i felt bad about it from our start and wanted to take you to him to apologise.

 

 

 

i didnt answer to your latest msg cause i was bored to type.

 

wish you nice and long gig ing

Edited September 19, 2013 by hurts2death

[JoelBarish]

Remember the time we went to the Big Apple and you won all those tickets? Remember all the birthday parties? Remember all the family gatherings? Did that mean nothing to you? How can you throw it all away?

 

I am in so much pain. How can you be so okay with everything? Where did all your love go? I have so much love still inside for you and nothing to do with it all

[Wings Of Love]

Missing him. Ugh.

 

He deleted me from Facebook on August 28th, then tried to add me again on August 30th. Yesterday I had a huge meltdown and after a long talk with my mum, I decided to accept his request. He seems to be self-destructing right now though, and it's hard to see. I've blocked his updates already so I'm just resisting the temptation to visit his profile. I know I should just delete and block, but I guess I'm just not there yet.

 

Tempted to contact him though. My sister's wedding is in October and my ex and a lot of his family have been invited, because my sister and his brother are in-laws, so we're all closely connected. I have no idea if my ex is even going to show up and if he is then I'd at least like some warning. But I don't want to talk to him right now, so resisting the urge to ask if he'll be there.

 

Also kinda wondering why he promised to return my things (via our siblings) but still hasn't made any effort to do so. It has been nearly a month since I asked for them and he promised to hand them over asap.

 

So yeah, just posting how I feel here, better than pouring my heart out to him.

[JDPT]

you b itch broke my heart and took advantage of my self fully...

 

i was the one to care more than your mama and instead of banging all these females that were hitting on me and i felt guilt about i was taking care of you and was loyal till death....

 

i exhausted all my money. i got stressed ALOT.

 

i did the extra mile.. left everything for you... trusted you. went inside you...

 

regardless all this you left me for your low ass paying secretary style job in a redneck town....

your friend circle already looks pathetic and the guys that approach you are beta males wanting to put their d@@@ somewhere....

 

i wont interfer with your destiny and trust me it is going to be a really bumpy road... until you end up an old family less ugly fat short heartless brick.

 

kisses to yo mama that was praying for you to leave me ... kisses to your working enviroment (its made of 9 divorced middle aged women) that since you met me to them they started saying sh it about you not being good to be in a relationship that young...and you aint young at all/.///

 

i regret having sex with you ...it was love from me .... and i wish i never did..

 

and sth else

 

your ex was a kind and poor guy that you tored him up for good and i felt bad about it from our start and wanted to take you to him to apologise.

 

 

 

i didnt answer to your latest msg cause i was bored to type.

 

wish you nice and long gig ing

 

amen, may she rest in peace.

[RiceaRoni]

I'm just going to rant..

 

Forget you.

Telling me how you've been hurt so badly from previous girlfriends and how they abused you, and how I showed you better love than they ever did. How I loved you more and cared for you. Stuck around for when you broke down or was having a bad day.

 

Whatever you A**hole. I've seen guys like you, I've been with guys like you feeding a girl lies. Telling her that you just want to be single and aren't ready for a relationship when you just want something else. You didn't want me. You just wanted to have sex with me and hen iI turned you down because I wanted to get more comfortable with you first and made sure you weren't a flake you totally bailed...blaming me for other things I didn't do, accusing me of betraying you and putting words into my mouth making me look like the bad guy, making me look like I was a terrible girlfriend. When you couldn't even take responsibility for your own mistakes. Turning everything on me, constantly giving up on me. When you know damn well I've treated you better. Then wanting to be friends so badly afterwards. NO F*** You.

 

Get the heck outta here. I need a freaking man, not some chump who plays and manipulated girls and then ditches them afterwards. I'm so upset and frustrated I let you play me, how I let you come and go , in and out, back and forth with me. You were wishy washy, you don't even know what you're looking for. And with how you treat women, I doubt you will. You already have so many F***ing female friends still hung up on you wanting to sleep with you. That's why I never slept with you. Why waste my virginity on some fool like yourself?!

 

I deserve better..and you were older than me, I thought you were mature enough. I thought you were a man. No. You aren't. Goodluck. You have many issues with yourself it's no wonder you're like this. I'm am so upset and hurt you did this to me. I'm upset at myself for falling for some guy like you...for actually giving you a chance. I knew I should have trusted my gut and my intuition. I should have left you in the friend zone where you belonged. Good riddance...chump.

 

I'm sorry you guys I'm just angry...and hurt..I needed to let it out.

Edited September 19, 2013 by RiceaRoni

[HeartInPieces]

What is going on with you?!?! We have been broken up for a little over two months and we are still in limited contact. Why? Why did you invite me over recently to give me "closure" ? Why not just let me go? I know I asked for one last visit, but you didn't have to agree to it. Why did you show affection towards me when I last saw you? Why did we kiss? Why did you say you miss me? Why did you say you love me? Why did you say "I'll see you soon" when I left? If this was supposed to be a meeting for closure, I'm even more confused now than I was before. I know you've been with someone since our breakup, as hard as that was for me to hear from you, but I still love you. Why did you tell me I am a good guy? I'm a good guy but I'm not good enough for you? I just want to give this another try... you can't just give up on us after five years I wish you would call me. I always wonder if you're thinking of me.. or even care anymore

Edited September 19, 2013 by HeartInPieces

[JDPT]

I wish you will. I try not to be angry at you on a daily basis albeit you really fawked me over and you know it. I forgive you and I forgive myself for making so many mistakes and not realizing the type of person that you truly are. No more I keep saying to myself. I find inner peace and hope to one day be fully heal and find someone who will truly appreciate me and not use me like you did. Thank you.