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[Moniq]

So I caved and texted you this morning. I asked you if it killed you to know that your son still wants us to be together. You said it hurts to know that he does. What does that mean. I have to live everyday with him and I have to hear him saying everyday, why cant dad live with us? He can work here in Miami. Can dad stay at our house when he comes to visit? When am I going to Alabama to visit dad? I get to hear those questions everyday and you don't. You are living your single life. Living in your new apartment. You are alone but im sure you are just fine. I hope you are miserable. You left me and your kids and you chose to be alone. You have no emotion. Your son spent the day with your parents and I missed him like crazy. How can you even stand to be away from him that long. And forget about your daughter. She is just a baby and doesn't know whats going on, but no one pays attention to her. Just me I love her so much. She was the last gift you gave me. But she will not get to know who her dad is. What a loss for her. I hate you

[Petunia20]

So the mornings are getting easier...the days better and the whys and if's less significant. Maybe I'm just excited about my trip to Frisco this weekend. Then the fair when I get back. Then back to Texas for another mini vacation. I live for my vacations now. Where before I lived for our weekends together. Today I know that you did love me, in your own way, but wasnt enough to stay faithful to me. Today I know that we are both living two seperate lives and you dont belong to me. Today I am okay with that. As the day goes on, I hope my mentality stays this way. My apartment will hopefully be ready mid October. I will not spend another winter at my parents house. Just because you left me doesnt mean my life stops there. I got my BMW and getting my apartment and working on that promotion at work. I have all the necessary tools to be happy. Like i said before, i hope it was worth it for you to leave me. Like you told me "you will always have a special place in my heart" lmfao...ok pendejo!

[reddragon588]

I've accepted it's over. I've gotten past the pain. I'm even starting to get used to you not being in my life. But I still miss you a lot.

[terlislee]

I found a letter you wrote me one day when I was sitting next to you, it said that if anybody ever hurt me you'd kill them. It's funny how you're still alive.

[Joyvke]

Really hope you are doing well. For the time being I actually signed up on some dating site and so far I've had quite the attention. Something I haven't had for a long while - also because I didn't let it happen. Due to keeping hope you'd figure out what you're letting go. Not looking for a relation, but some dates couldn't hurt to get my mind of things and see if I can get some friendships as well to broaden my social circle.

 

Starting to think I'm not really relationship material anyway. I do hope we can be friends somewhere in the future, but for now we should be apart.

[joe86]

I'd really like to know how you feel about what's happened and things as they are. I'd like to believe everything I heard before I left was true, but you were so worried about how I was for those few days afterwards, that I'm just not sure

[ellowmay]

Who ****ing made you god? Don't give me advice when you know full well you are full of it half the time. Just because you are older doesn't make you smarter than me. Have some ****ing decency and don't patronize me for once. Screw you.

[KCCK]

You dump me for a guy you just met for 2 weeks... we were together for 2 years and that means nothing to you??? and now after one month of NC, you come and ask me "how are you?" .. if you really care for me and love me, you would never have betray our love.. so please go and enjoy your life with that *********... i am moving on without you and the last thing I wanted was for you to come back as if you did nothing wrong and I was to be blame for your infidelity...

[livdee]

I really would like to know if all the things you said, the way you said I made you feel was true. When you see me now, do you still feel that way? Or was it all just a game to you? I want to believe it was true. I hope you are not that callous. But, how could you just stop? One day everything was fine, next day you had to "do the right thing" then nothing. Do you think of me when you are alone at night, when you would have been texting me?

 

That is what I would like to know.

[im_thedude]

It's been a month since we broke up. The first two weeks were miserable, on-my-knees desperation. I told her, I was going to fight for her. She ignored me, deleted me from everything she could, and pretended like I didn't exist. She made it crystal clear that she had no feelings for me anymore, and that there was no love. We were together just shy of three years.

 

I went NC for a week, but found myself continuously checking in on her social media accounts. So in hindsight, I guess it didn't really count. Gave in a week later and messaged her, telling her I was still in love with her. Was ignored again.

 

I am now at full NC, meaning no direct communication nor any indirect means of learning about what she's up to, via social media. It's only day two of this and I'm having a hard time. I keep playing out some scenario in my head where she contacts me, we meet up, and she explains to me that she wants to try things again. This nagging hope, even against all logical, factual odds that she has given me, still remains and it feels like torture.

 

Sitting at my computer desk feels like a gamble every time, because it takes a lot not to visit her Tumblr, or her Instagram. So, when I'm not at work, I'll go out to the living room only to continue thinking about everything. I feel like it's consuming me.

[reddragon588]

I want to talk with you. I don't know about what. I think I'm just a bit lonely. It seems lonely now that I don't have you to talk/text with all day. You sorta kept me company through texts and IMs. Now I don't have that. Maybe it's a good thing, maybe having less stimulation is good but I miss it. Miss you too, you always made me laugh and smile. I'm doing well, I'm past the pain but I do still miss you.

[seekingpeaceinlove]

You did me a favor by being the brave one in the relationship. Even though I wasn't happy with the way we were going I could never have ended it. I was delusional thinking we could have made this work. No hard feelings. Thank you.

[Petunia20]

So my new found happiness yesterday was short lived. Today I was fine up until two hours ago when out of nowhere I missed you like crazy. It felt as if I had just learned about what you did to me. I knew you were going to leave me. I felt it...woman's intuition I guess you could say. When we first met and you left for Xmas vacation back home I told you, that you werent coming back and you did. But in a way I think I saw what was to come of the future. I always knew you would leave here. That was my worst fear, I told your mom that. And you, no respect to tell me that you were leaving. Did you think I would stop you? Yeah I think I would have. If you were still living here I dont think we would have ever left each other. I cant wait for the day when you no longer occupy my thoughts and dreams. we shouldve broken up after the first year. I dont know why you stayed two more years. We did so much...everyone was jealous and we hustled like no other. Italy, a boat and a baby were in our plans. I sound pathetic...i know. Putting so much thought into someone who couldnt give "two ****s about me" as you put it.

[May72]

Sometimes I wish I never met you. You're such a coward. I hate how everyone sees you as this perfect, mature, independent guy and I'm the only one who can see your faults. Your ego have gotten so big you can't even admit your wrongs. Even to this day you won't admit that you cheated several times. I really hate you and your I-can-do-no-wrong attitude.

[KCCK]

I miss you so so much... I miss the emotional support and physical intimacy that we had, not about sex but just lying on the bed having physical contact, touching one another and kissing... I really miss you very much... I know I shouldn't but this feelings are not easy to be forgotten since we were each other's first time... I love you, I hate you for cheating on me, I have mix feelings but decided to keep NC with you.. Praying hard that it will all be fine soon...

[NomiMalone]

Man this is so bloody hard. I am so homesick and I wish so bad that you were here to hold me and fall asleep next to me right now. I know I should be so proud of myself, and that in a few weeks I know I'll look back in disbelief that I'd done it, but right now, I'm just not feeling all that strong. Right now, I wish I was one of those people who was happy with mediocrity, content with the notion of comfort and never having to challenge themselves again in their lives, someone who's never known the thrill of following their passions and hence never had to face the perils in chase of it. I am afraid that relationships are just not for people like me, and that the price I pay to not have to settle will be growing old alone. Anyways, I know you'll never understand any of this. What I wanted to say was that I miss you and wish you were here.

Edited February 27, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[nadepsine]

it's been almost 3 months since i broke up with my ex.

we've dated for 4 years. we've had fights and make-ups. there were no fights anymore this time. i can't say i'm the best person. i do admit i tried really hard to be. i never put restraints and i encouraged him to go out without me when i was sitting home. my bad traits is maybe i was too devoted, possessive and shoving love and kindness down his throat. yes, he was a jerk. i knew that from the first day. i accepted the fact that the only one to blame for him being jerk to me was myself because i let him. if you're wondering how he was a jerk (just so you won't say i am imagining it) he would act like a girl on pms. i'm asking him are these clothes ok to go out. he would be "yeah sure" and the moment we're out he would bitch on how he does not like how they look on me. there are at least 3 times when he stood me up. one day he insisted on me comeing to his place while i was on a very busy day. i was aware on how many times i would reach his front building at 5 pm and he was like "just a minit, i'm comming down" (you know i could of just meet him out, it would of skipped me half of road wasted). after i finished all my home chores, as he insisted, i called him the minute i stepped out and he was "outside, with his buddy, in a different block". The last time i ever bothered to come to his place by his request was when he wasn't home, he was at his father's, eating, and he didn't bother to tell me this little hange of plans. So i was taken for granted and being complained about. he was ashamed with me to go out because i am 10kg overweight. after 3 damn years. and you know what, i told him we need to talk "why? you cheated on me?" (really, really retarded reaction) i just simply asked "do you even care about me?" and he was beating around the bush saying "well you really are slacking and bla bla"... and all i said was "ok, i get it, i'm really really tired of having to put to heart every **** you say, i'll just stop caring"

 

 

yes, it hurt. ALOT.

 

i recently her gossip that he is becoming even more of a jerk.

and even more of a "virgin *******".

he found a crush (a goddamn cute looking girl with blond hair!)

and my heart was racing just hearing how he was nervous just to text her.

and i really feel HONESTLY sorry for him

because that cute girl eventually was kissing someone else right in front of him. all he did was smile arrogantly and talk to himself "it's no problem, i have another girl on backup" (it was a crush, not even a girlfriend and he was actign as if he had more, i really think that he was making a fool of himself by trying to act macho out of this)

 

i really cared for him, so along to resentments i stil feel for him

i feel sorry for him

i wouldn't take him back, not even to comfort him

i wouldn't deserve to punish myself like that so i will look out for myself.

 

i am worrying he might just get hit in the face with "shovels" like this on end

i really don't think he would stop acting like a kid...

he is not rich, he is not a gentleman and he never bought condoms (i did)

what girl would fall for him if he wouldn't pay for the drink?

he is blindly narcisistic, it's gonna be his doom :<

 

 

 

i really felt the need to share this with virtual strangers

[KCCK]

you are a great partner.. i admire your courage for sticking to someone who treated you so badly for so long.. you deserve someone better.. dont worry girl, you will find someone who really appreciates you and will take good care of you... =)

[shvrk]

I miss you terribly. I want to text you to cuddle, to watch a movie, to take a nap, just to be in your arms. I really want time to pass, and I want to see that beautiful freckled face again. I want to kiss it again.

[reddragon588]

I know I shouldn't have, but I looked at your twitter, and saw you re-tweet something about reaching out to someone you care about today. That's why I want to reach out to you right now. Miss you very much today for some reason.

[im_thedude]

I have the weekend off, and all this time alone in my room is just killing me. I'm getting out a lot - hopping in my car and driving aimlessly. I'm trying to take my mind off of you but you somehow still creep back into my conscience.

 

After you dumped me, I was floored. The pain was unreal, for weeks. And now I'm experiencing a different kind of pain - the realization that details about you are starting to fade. I don't know you anymore, and it hurts knowingly having to force you to the very edges of my mind and heart. I went to the pier today for breakfast. Walked the very same path we took all the time. And it seemed like an eternity ago that we did that, even though the last time was less than two months ago.

 

I know I need to move on for my own sake. But I miss you so much and this is so hard.

[reddragon588]

Missing you.. Each day makes me realize and understand more and more its over.. Starting to accept it but it still hurts

[xXCountryXx]

Hey, we had our falling out and things will never be the same again because I refuse to allow myself back down that path. However, I'll always have feelings for you... I know you'll never see this, but others will and they'll know...

Regardless, I know it's 4 days away and im not sure why im bothered by it, but happy birthday.

I genuinely hope you have a good one. Take care...

[Hoaks]

So, bump into you after 2 months and you continue to lie straight to my face. Looks like you did get away with everything with no fallback. Well done, miss gutless. You are not human, you don't care, don't feel guilty, no empathy. Only looking out for yourself. Wait for karma. Don't expect me to acknowledge you if we cross paths again, that's me, not lying to you.

[love1336x]

I am taking back my life.

 

I refused to think, "what ifs".

You had your chance you blew it.

 

If you wanting me you would have let me know... you don't..

I'm sorry I can't keep holding on to... hope.