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[NomiMalone]

I still hope that one day you'll call out of the blue to tell me you're a changed man and that we can have a future together. We can have a summer wedding on the coast and you'll wait for me at the end of the aisle like I already dreamt of.

[JourneyLady]

Ha... You must be desperate to be with someone if you choose a woman who professes to be married (to someone else) on facebook. Technically you are helping her to cheat! Doesn't even say "separated". It doesn't occur to you that she might cheat on you later?

 

And... I know you're reading my blog everyday, from the logs. Does she know this? Have you shared that? If not, then you are still the withholding bast***, aren't you.

 

Yeah I noticed and was curious who was reading, since only two people are reading it. You'll never guess who the other one is.

 

But that's okay... I've got some things going on right now that make me very happy. I noticed when I post really happy stuff that you post things on facebook that make it sound like it's all working out for you. Oh I know it is... for the first three to six months, just like it did with us. But she's already stopped going to so many meetups for study and I suppose is just hanging out with you. Any woman (to make you happy) is going to have to be around all the time to fill your emptiness and clean up after you and only spend time with you. I know I did. I'm amazed at how much time was freed up when you went out of my life!

 

And soon... and soon... I'll have someone who doesn't take up so much time being cared for and will be able to go out and do things with him as well as accomplishing things like I'm doing now.

 

Good luck with THAT.

[unexpectedlyhere]

You look really hot.

 

(Would like to post this under his new display picture)

[reddragon588]

I'm sorry you feel that way about me deleting you on social media. I'm not trying to "erase our relationship". I couldn't do that even if I wanted. You gave me an amazing three years of memories that I will always cherish. But the thing is, those three years are in the past now. I have to think about the 60 or 70 years ahead of me instead. I've found that since we broke up, contact with you, incidental or purposeful, good or bad, has left me emotionally hurt and pained. I still have feelings for you, and as long as we have this kind of contact, it's going to cause me to feel pain. I don't hold any "disdain" towards you, but I'm just working to move forward with my life.

[karpeezy]

Your feelings stalled and didn't progress. I wish you had told me that. I wish we could have worked on things. I wish we could have tried harder and talked things through. Up until the night you broke up with me, we talked about vacations, about the future. I am so shocked, there was no warning. You gave up.

 

I told you I love you. You told me you didn't think you'd ever love me. That you'd never see a future with me. But you also couldn't see a future with anyone really, not now. You need to grow up, work on yourself.

 

My heart is broken. You are the first man I ever loved. I can only hope you find happiness in your coaching and work life, and eventually find it within your heart to love someone.

[L1ght]

Give me my soul back you damn energy draining life sucking vampire!

......no seriously, go jump off a cliff.

[RightThere]

It is taking every effort not to call you right now to hear your excuse. I am taking all of this so seriously, but I cannot believe that you are committed to this. I'm sure there are many valid reasons why you never called, but they're all still pointing towards something that you considered more important.

[chow538]

Okay all I want to say is, you said from the beginning that we had something, I kept asking if we were on the same page and you agreed and shook your head saying yes. Now you dumped me and I say to myself what the f**k. But really I know what it was. It was all one sided, girl F**K you seriously, if you had this problem from the beginning you should have said something instead of stringing it out to this length. You were my first gf and now I have an empty emotional feeling because your dumb but head couldnt tell me the truth from the beginning. All you were doing is using me for sex, thats great if you wanted to just be like that, then effing telling me. dont go behind my back telling your friends you dont like me and tell me to my face you love me. Thats not how this S***T works!!!:mad:

[aw_1187]

You had it all and you threw it away. Look at the predicament you are in now. You chose to break up our marriage and leave me for him, who told you lies about his successes and what he could offer you. Some people would feel sorry for you for the situation you are in now, I just laugh. I put up with your cheating ways for to long.

 

When we broke up, people said I would amount to nothing - look at me now. I cut all ties with our mutual friends and your family as they all covered for your affairs, packed my car and left on Christmas Eve. I drove 300 miles to London and spent Chritmas alone. It was hard, and it still hurts at times, but not enough for me to consider coming back to you.

 

Now I have a very good job in the city, new friends and new social contacts. We had some good times, but my memories are tainted as I do not belive anything we had was real when I found out how long things had been going on for. You took your vows infront of our families, knowing the person you where having an affair with was sat in church watching us. You even looked me in the eyes and told me you loved me! But I am making happy memories with new people now. I am travelling all around the UK and the world and loving every minute.

 

You might thinkg that I hate you, but I do not. If anything I would like to give you a hug and say thank you - you enabled me to get back the one thing that money cannot buy - my pride and self respect. I now walk with my head held high knowing that I will never let anyone treat me like you did. For the first time in many years I am actually happy.

[Petunia20]

I wanna believe that you truly think I cheated on you. I wanna believe that me talking to "John" truly did hurt you. I wanna believe that I somehow hurt you in any way. Because if I dont believe that, then you truly did hurt me out of pure selfishness. If none of that is true, then you are ugly inside and you are a cheater and a liar. And I was never enough for you. But maybe what I have heard is true but who knows, you're such a good liar that it may not be true. You still left me here in this ugly city that I hate. And you brought her here to visit, and you took her to my favorite place. Seeing that I will never forgive you but you will never return so it doesnt matter.

[NomiMalone]

Goodnight my love. How much I miss you. How much I'd throw all this away if you could just try to change so we can have a future together.

[Chris715]

I woke up this morning and I'm incredibly tempted to text her and see how her school year is going so far and tell her I miss her. I don't know what to do. I feel awful if I don't contact her and I'll probably feel awful if I do contact her too

[Petunia20]

Hey love! I hope your doing well today. I miss you like crazy. I remember the fights we would have through text arguing who loved who more and how crazy we were about each other lol So I went to a baby shower today for a co worker and I couldnt handle it. I walked out of the room before she opened the gifts. I cried a little. I thought that our baby would've been turning two next month. But you never think about that. Even after, you never once mentioned it. When id cry over it you never showed emotion or anything. You never thought of what would've been with that baby. I always thought that we would have another opportunity to have one. But I guess we were both selfish and now at 28 I'm alone and full of regret. Hope you've found happiness in those kids of hers. But know this...nothing will ever compare to having a baby of your own. And if you do have one with her, it will be her third, which means she has taken the "first" out of that experience.

[TrblinMN]

Why the hell did I have to see you today at the gym?!?!? You know what time I go and you had to go the same time I did even though you can go any other time. I thought you moved!!!!!! Will you please just move so I don't ever have to run into you ever again!!!

[L1ght]

I'm happy. I'm really starting to see how staying together with you would have added numerous complications to my life due to the fact that we come from totally different worlds.

I looked past all of these things when we were together cos I'm the type of person who believes that anything is possible if two people want something bad enough. I feel relief like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders and I have zero pressure now.

I'm ready to be myself again which is good news for me cos when my head is in the right place I never have a problem attracting women since the most appealing aspects of my personality shine through and honestly the rest comes real easy.

The way things are moving I ask myself what my perception of the time we had together will be in one year from now and the answer I come up with is that you will be a blip that doesn't even mean anything to me....I like that, I like to think you at some point you are gonna mean absolutely nothing to me and the faded memory will feel like an insignificant dream rather than something that actually happened in real life.

These past few weeks I have been checking out a lot of women....I've got that desire and hunger to pursue the attentions of the ladies in my life and it actually feels great to genuinely want to give the best of myself to someone else.

I don't even care if you are with someone else cos it all just feels insignificant to me now.

[petall]

It's been 10 weeks and everything seems so distant to me now. It's like I was never in your life. Did you notice I tried to wipe myself off your entire horizon? No contact, removing my profile, everything zip, vanished. Because you are not worthy of me.

 

Hey, you could have had someone wonderful to share your life with but you chose to be silly and petulant. It's ok! I've come to realise I really am not the person for you! Because I am mature, like to discuss problems and meet them head on. I am also emotionally reachable and wanted a relationship. In other words, everything YOU were NOT! Good luck with all the lonely years ahead!

[Petunia20]

ugh Going over the pictures from our San Francisco trip! Really shouldn't be looking at this. The picture in Saulsalito where we are next to the seal always gets me. You proposed to me right after you took that picture. I had no idea you were going to. I was speechless. I was happy, I was complete. We were so raw and in love. I remember how you would always tell everyone about the night before our flight left back home. And how we went out and bought a bottle of Patron, we both killed it and still managed to make our flight the next morning. The black boots, the guy at fisherman's wharf, the trip to Alcatraz, the walk to the bridge and it was so foggy! I miss all that. But back then you were different. Idk what happened....maybe you weren't different, maybe I just didn't see how ugly you truly were inside. Well...I shouldnt sit here in my room and look through these pics...I will head out to the only place in the world that makes me feel good. Off to my hometown I go to forget about this ugly city you left me in!

[NomiMalone]

Arrived at my hotel and the first thing I thought of when I unlocked the door to my room was you, and of the various places we've stayed at on the trips we've been on. Now I'm in a room all by myself and I just miss you so bad.

 

But then again... if I had you beside me now, you'd sneak your phone into the bathroom and sit in there texting or facebooking and adding up more skanks... so NO THANKS!!! I'd rather be on my own. At least I'll only have to fork out for dinner, breakfast and lunch for one, not two!!!

[love1336x]

I know your insides are feeling so hollow

And it's a hard pill for you to swallow, yeah

But if I fall for you, I'll never recover

If I fall for you, I'll never be the same

 

I really wanna love somebody

I really wanna dance the night away

I know we're only half way there

But you can take me all the way, you can take me all the way

I really wanna touch somebody

I think about you every single day

I know we're only half way there

But you can take me all the way, you can take me all the way

You're such a hard act for me to follow

Love me today, don't leave me tomorrow, yeah

But if I fall for you, I'll never recover

If I fall for you, I'll never be the same

[seekingpeaceinlove]

Bet you're surprised that I haven't reached out to you. For too long I held on to you but I will never chase after you again. Ever.

[NomiMalone]

Where are you my love? I miss you so, so much. I miss our idyllic trips away. I miss your family and how genuine and warm they always were. I miss your kisses and having your arms around me. Why did you do what you did to me? I don't understand. You are so, so far away now.

[UnsureHubby]

You know why it hurts so bad..

 

"Yeah. Your going to roll your eyes though. I don't really want to watch a movie. I have to go to Walmart and get the rest of Thing1's stuff for school and a couple groceries"

 

You come and hang out goto the store until OM calls.. Then it's ok gotta go buhbbye...

 

I ask why And then you tell me all you do is watch movies.. Then you ask OM the same day to come over and watch a movie with you. Wtf really???

 

You tell me you said nothing, but you tell him how you feel about him.

 

I'm sick and tired of the lies, I'm slowly purging you from the house. This is helping me purge you from my heart. I don't want that. But what else am I supposed to do??

 

You say sit and wait, give me space and time.

 

I say F that, dive in or keep on walking. Stop playing with my F'ing emotions. Don't come over here and say you will to do something with me then cancel with a lie and do that same thing with someone else.

 

Don't go home telling us your tired and getting ready for bed when your really getting ready to hang out with OM. Thing1 even commented to me how pretty your makeup looked. Odd you didn't have makeup an hour before when you where at my house.

 

Not only are you lying to me but now your lying to the kids. Your telling them the same lies as me.

 

You don't think the girls where disappointed when mom cancelled movie nite?

Thing1 walked up to me and said "It's ok dad, I'm here and I will watch a movie with you"

 

She is smarter then you think. I think she knows better then to talk to you about what's going on. But yet she talks to me.. She asked me yesterday how much longer they have to stay at grammpys house, she doesn't want to go back and forth all the time. She misses her bunk bed in "her" room. And most of all she misses us being a family.

 

You are the one that's making things look bad. Your friend OM agrees.. He said it looks bad but nothing is going on. He said he feels like an ass just hanging with you because you hide it and lie about it.

 

Who do I believe??? OM, he tells me things you say are a lie..

 

You?? You make things look like you are having am affair, or worse yet it looks like your dating another man after we agreed none of that.

 

I don't think you have had sex, believe me if thought that I wouldn't be here at all. I do think your playing games with my head. How can you do this? Why?

 

I ask for honesty?? Is that so hard?

I ask for a little effort?? Is that so hard?

I ask for the woman that said I do to spend some time with me and our kids.. Is that so hard??

 

You know what I get in return... Maybe, sure, hold your breath.... Then what.... poop... It's like that button.. Here is a cookie... Here stand over here and try again.. Opps sorry did you just get pooped on....

 

If punishment was your goal consider me bruised beaten and ready to surrender.

 

I'm almost out of fuel to fight this fight... I don't want to give up but your pushing me to the point where I just don't see any other option to end the pain I am going through.

 

Its starting to be that time in my life when i need to get someone who can't tell me the truth out of my life.. Get someone who doesn't want to be part of my life out of it, get rid of the fake/convenient friend...

 

This means no friends, I'll be nice because that's what good people do, but there will be no "best friend" here... Friends don't lie to each other. Friends are supportive and honest even when it hurts.

 

I have set a goal and a date myself, I'll either see you at the finish line by my side or you'll be alone and far behind me. I made a promise to myself to never look back to see just how close or far away you are.

[Petunia20]

I don't know when these feelings are going to go away. Every morning I wake up and convince myself that this is my life now. I wake up in this huge bed alone. Everything hurts...every single memory every word you ever said. Its so hurtful and unbelievable to me that you've moved on and are "happy". I ask myself how could a normal human being act this way. I think you pride yourself in breaking hearts and always having someone to fall back on. That pisses me off and gives me motivation not to contact you or let you know how I'm feeling. I don't think you would answer my call anyways. I need to accept that you don't think or love me anymore. I'm having a difficult time with this. How could you not want to be with me? Why would you rather be where you are at and be with that girl? I don't think she is better than me in any way. Like you used to tell me...you knew that you were better than "John" . I hate this. I will try not to miss you anymore. I will work on removing you completely from my heart. Two months since I saw you and three months since you left, I guess you really want to be where you are at.

[ellowmay]

All I have been able to think about is contacting you to make things right and be friends again. It is not a promise I am willing to let you break. However, making friendship conditional and into a chase is wrong and you are a narcissistic selfish ******* for making it like this. I can't believe you took the word of a pregnant seventeen year old dope slinging slutty sociopath over what you know to be true about me and I have every right not to forgive you and burn all of your things and curse you and throw ashes at your head. But I won't. I know you want me to evolve spiritually and emotionally, and as far as I am concerned apologizing to you and having to endure the drama wrought unto me by your ****ing ignorant friends is more maturity than you have thusfar exhibited. And I deserve better than you, and I deserve an apology. It sucks that I am the one who is getting the **** end of the stick and you could give a **** less about me after four years I put up with your bull**** and loved you anyway. **** you you self righteous prick, I love you. Hurry up and come around so we can both move on and be friends.its gonna be on my terms this time though bitch.

Edited September 4, 2013 by ellowmay

[tart6245]

I am happy to say I am almost at the point where I don't even care to contact this girl who recently had a falling out with me.

 

After talking to some of my closest friends about the situation, where she, as my FWB, had a one night stand and instead of being remorseful told me she was proud of herself, they told me she was nuts and I'd be crazy to apologize for saying hurtful things to her.

 

I am beginning to think they are right. She doesn't deserve to be told I was wrong. She has some serious issues, and the sooner she gets help for them, the better. I could help her, but I doubt she wants anything else from me after what happened a few weeks ago.