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[decebal]

Hey, it's me, Paul. When we broke up I intentionally quit Facebook so I wouldn't see any new posts with any new love of yours. It has been less than two months after our last counseling session and you found a way to put salt on my wounds. Knowing that I had a Google+ account, you joined Google+ and used a picture of you and your new douchebag boyfriend. What a coincidence since it was the same day I asked you for old pictures of us from your camera.

Very classy move from not a very classy ex-girlfriend. If I can't hurt him on Facebook I'll try to hurt him on Google+.

I hope your rebound gives you whatever was missing from our relationship. I hope he puts up with your binge drinking at parties until you lose your balance and embarass me in front of other people. I hope he puts up with your constant whining about your stressful job. I hope he puts up with your addiction to food. I hope he puts up with hanging out with your douchebag step father who beat you up when you grew up. I hope he also puts up with your mom who never protected you from your step father's abuse when you grew up.

I'm glad I won't have to hangout with your narcissistic annoying friends anymore, especially the one who I gave a special bottle of wine to on his birthday. In return, I didn't even get a call on my birthday.

I'm also glad I won't have to put up anymore with your fag hag tendencies. Your gay friends were very annoying and judgemental. The trip to Mexico around our anniversary that you planned was a disaster. Your neat freak friend did nothing but bitch when even the smallest thing was out of place. Your gay friend only talked about himself and his masters thesis the entire time. All of your friends were passive aggressive towards me because I looked toned and fit in my swimming trunks and they were fat and flabby.

Just cause they ate greasy pizza at the airport for lunch, you joined them. No wonder you gained 20 pounds during our relationship. It's because you had a food addiction. I don't let myself go once I enter long term committed relationships like you. It was classy when you broke up with me to blame me. The truth is that you were eating like no tomorrow early in our relationship too when everything was perfect.

 

Good luck finding the chemistry and passion that we had with your douchebag rebound boyfriend. From the picture, he looks like a total, arrogant douchebag. Just give it six months, he will get to know the real you with the emotional problems and the binge drinking at parties. I hope he works out because the last time you had a binge drinking episode, I literally had to carry you to the car.

[seekingpeaceinlove]

Bet you're not even thinking about me. cold sob. that's son of a b*tch to you. Your mom f*cked you up...and I feel sorry for the next one who comes along to deal with your sh*t.

[Echo000]

you hurt me so badly. how do you sleep at night?

 

break a man's heart, move on like its nothing. I dont even know you anymore. I wonder if i ever did. I think i loved the idea of you more than who you actually are in reality. i bought into your bull****. i let myself be convinced from all of your apologies and tears. I showed you my special places. i lost my virginity to you. You took so much from me, and eventually left with nothing given in return. Except a pain, a void, a lack of innocence, and an anger and hope that you get destroyed by karma.

 

I am the best you will EVER have. I dont wish you well..i wish you pain and REGRET. I am tired of thinking about you..your irrelevant.

[seekingpeaceinlove]

You text me today and it made me happy, guilty and sad. I love you so much and it hurt me when you said this was really hard for you too. I was waiting to hear those words but it pained me to hear that you're hurting like me. I don't want you to be sad even though you left me...broke my heart. I know why you did it.. I know we weren't working but I still wanted to try. I don't want you to be lonely, or feel this pain because I love you so much.

 

You told me that ill always have a special place in your heart...you will be in mine too baby. Forever. I wish things were different.

[Tinysteps]

Hey L.

 

I miss you so much. You're on my mind constantly, and I keep going over mistakes and criticism that slowly pushed you away. I return to arguments as well as the pure joy I felt in our conversations and chats over two years, and the passion I felt every time we were together. How I loved your heart and your great mind as much as those generous curves.

 

My love grew slowly, yours was intense to begin with, which ended up hurting you later on. The tables turned, you became distant, I became needy and wanting more. I hold no grudges. I forgive your rather cowardly way of handling the breakup. How I sort of had to drag it out of you, and how you didn't seem able to talk about it afterwards.

 

Had I just been given one more chance, I'd spend the rest of my life recreating that sense of safety and relaxation that you always used to feel in my presence. We were always long distance, but right now, 3 and a half months later, that distance pierces my heart.

 

Love

D

[Dazzee]

I miss you so much. You mean everything to me. At the same time as all of this, you ripped my heart out stood on it and threw it in my face then ruined my life. You are the best person I know, and I don't understand what happened to you because to me in the end, you were the worst person I ever met. You were the best thing in my life, and the worst. You didn't even contact me on my last day in the country, nor did you come to the airport to see me off. Why did you do this to me? Everything. None of it makes sense and I have no answers.

 

You said you can't forgive me, well I don't believe that. I have never done 1/10Th of the hurt pain cruelness and heartlessness you've done to me since our break, and in time I can forgive you in time if you seek it, yet you can't forgive me? You don't deserve me, but I deserved you, as amazing as you were.

 

Contact me. Stop being selfish and cowardly. You didn't deal with anything, you ran, then told me to leave. I treated you with nothing but love and respect. You owe me so much.

 

Just why.

[Blastoplast]

Glad you found a new boyfriend -- probably a guy you had your eye on for a while when we were still together. I'll tell you one thing, if he has any balls that relationship will be over faster than it started because if I know this guy, he's not going to put up with any crap.

[Omei]

I had a dream about you today, and then it continued in my afternoon nap, Not fair go away from my mind I dreamed you contacted me and started speaking with me that there was a chance you missed me, You were flirting and trying to make me happy. Then I woke up, its so cruel all the feelings flood to me, You don't miss me, You don't love me you're so happy without me and I am stuck feeling like we could of worked if only you cared I cared I CARED SO DEEPLY I still do.

 

Then a random number text me awake, its not you, of course it wouldn't be you, you've left and forgotten me so cruel to get that text just then felt crushed when it was just some random person:mad:

 

It made me want to contact you so bad my dream but I know its not the real you and you would talk to me if I called but only so you can feel better that im okay, you never would contact me.

[SimonSerenade]

I still miss you, it doesn't hurt like it used to though but sadly I still see you everywhere I go, my heart still breaks the very moment I think it might be you, you were something really special sometimes, I hope you know that, I felt a little better today after having a family meal out and selling the ps3 you bought me for Christmas, pretty soon the Vita will be off and gone too, I wish I didn't have to sell things I loved but it was getting to the point that I couldn't enjoy them without thinking of you and the memories we had managing our team on Fifa and times when you'd complain about me watching too much Frasier and Cheers lol, I really don't know what happened to us, it all happened so fast, in a way I saw it coming and damn I know I tried to prevent it and make you happy, I guess I just wasn't enough but I won't apologise for trying to be.

 

I don't hate you and I don't think bad of you either, I'll always love you, no matter what you say or do, it'll never change that beautiful painting you drew in my heart, I hope one day you find what your looking for and I hope it fulfils you, I sure wish it could of been me but either way, as long as your happy that's all that matters to me, it's all that ever mattered.

[heartshapedrocks]

damn these heart strings are busy tonight but no way I'm I texting you.

[Lasticee]

I wish we never met. I wish I would've just brush you off when you confessed your feelings to me years ago. I regret wasting so much time, effort, and money on our relationship just for you to end it the way you did. Never in a million years would I have think that this is how we end up: as enemies. I had so many chances to cheat, and even thoughts of leaving you, but I never did because I thought you know what, this guy really love me so I can't treat him that way. Looking back, I should've left you because you leave me the second you are interested in someone else. AT LEAST own up to it, which you won't even do. You're such a coward and an ass.

[tooslowatlove]

I'm still in love with you. I don't think we could work again, but I wish to the core of my soul that we could. I'm trying to move on, but seeing you on Facebook with another guy left me in tears. I wanted us to be forever. I wanted to work together to build a future, but you wanted me to take a sledgehammer to my life and give you just the pieces you wanted to prove how much I love you. I was willing to compromise on where we lived, why were you so adamant on not moving? What mattered most to me was being with you and creating a solid foundation for our lives together. I wanted you to move in with me, yes, but I was willing to compromise. You wouldn't tell me how we could make your plans work, it just came down to that's what you wanted, and the rest was details. I'm sorry - it was too big a change for me make without planning very carefully. I couldn't just leap and hope it worked. You were too important to me for that.

 

You say I'm as much to blame for the breakup as you. Maybe. Once I hit the breaking point, we reversed roles. I was the one who was adamant on taking a break, while you wanted to work things out. Why did it take me going ballistic for you to relent? Why couldn't I have let go of my anger?

 

I miss your laugh, your goofiness, the curl of your hair, the feel of you in my arms. I was content and complete in your presence. You made me crazy sometimes, but also very happy. We were different, but complementary in so many ways. I miss you so much.

 

When I proposed, I meant it. I wanted you with me forever. And as much as I try to deny it and brush it off, I still want you, and your absence from my life is the worst pain I ever felt. I ripped my own heart out when I broke up with you. I wish it hadn't come to that.

Edited August 20, 2013 by tooslowatlove

[reddragon588]

I want to contact you. I don't know what I would say (there's nothing really to say, it's over and we both know it), but I want to. I want to have things go back to the way they were. I want to laugh with you, chat about nothing in particular with you, talk about life with you.

 

I want to check your Instagram and Facebook profiles, to see what you're doing and feel like I'm in contact with you still somehow. But I can't. I wish you hadn't broken up with me, it really sucked of you to do that.

[seekingpeaceinlove]

Pissed. I had a dream about you last night ..it was more like a nightmare. You were such an ahole. I was doing better a few days ago and now I'm bitter and angry thinking about the nasty way you treated me during our relationship. Im pissed at myself for having put up with you and still loving you. Why are you such an angry, defensive person? Huge ego? Why? I hope you examine yourself..realize that you will never grow or be really happy until you fix these things. You won't be satisfied with any woman... No matter how patient and kind.

 

Whatever, not my problem. Get out of my head.

[petall]

2 months of studious No Contact from me and suddenly these past 2 days I am missing you bad. Like painful bad. Why. Why. Why.

 

You could have had it all with me. I know you yourself know you threw away something special. Go ahead and live a life of no commitment, you'll never be fulfilled, never have anyone. You ran away from us and you could not face having a healthy adult relationship where both parties talk about everything.

 

I love you still D. Come back to me...

[DownNtOut]

I got a text late last night, i hoped it was you. It wasnt. Everytime i get a text i hope its you. Its three weeks since we last spoke. It feels like more.

We probaly wont speak again unless we bump into each other. I tell myself there are many more amazing women out there for me. I dont feel like finding them right now. You are back with your exbf from when you were younger. I feel so powerless. I need alot of time to heal.

 

I miss you but cant be your friend cos it makes me feel like *****

[Poptree]

I think about you too much lately. This was easier when I had much more distraction. That's okay because I'm going to get through this. I'll be strong enough to let you go because you're toxic. I don't need your negativity and all the hurt you bring.

[coltsfan1]

Memories O you memories!!

[seekingpeaceinlove]

I'm so up and down. I'm unbelievably sad today going over old letters and texts..you loved me so much. I loved you with everything. Our goods moments were so good. It was like cloud 9, high on love, make your heart and body tingle kind of love. Gazing into your eyes as we said I love you...I'd have tears bc it felt so true and good.

 

What happened to us?

[Joyvke]

It still makes me sad how things didn't work out and how you were such a douchebag to me. The only thing I wanted was to spend time, but you never let me in on when you had bank holidays and "wanting time for yourself" whilst you were pretty much always by yourself...

 

Still we haven't spoken since 21st of july and I'm curious how you are doing. Do you miss me? Are you already with someone else. I can only hope that she will be a horrible experience if you do ,so you'd appreciate what you had and regret what you had let go.

[NomiMalone]

Good night my love, how much I miss you. Although I'll be starting my new adventure soon, it makes me so sad to be leaving this city, which holds countless memories of us; and most of all, so sad to be leaving you. For some reason, one particular memory of us keeps playing over and over in my head these past few days. At the purple cafe where we stopped for brunch on our way back from the coast that fine Sunday, you came up to me from behind, and wrapping your arms around me, asked me if I was happy. Of course I was. There are so many things about you, and our time together that I'll never forget. To this day, I still cannot bring myself to say goodbye to you, so this is all I'm going to say. With all my heart, xoxo

Edited May 3, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[mtnbiker3000]

During our relationship, I cared for and respected you. You didn't!! I would have never done anything to hurt you on purpose. You could care less. I tried to be a good partner for you. You only cared about your own wants and needs. I put you above anything or anyone else. You put so many others before me. I was nothing more than a placeholder for you until you didn't need me any longer. You used me. You manipulated me. You deceived me.

[Petunia20]

I hope you realize what you lost. I hope that everytime those kids of hers make you upset or irritate you, you will remember my words about being with someone with kids. I hope that you look for me and find nothing. I hope that I will become a faint memory or even maybe a beautiful illusion you once had and that you will no longer have again. I hope that you look for me in someone else and see that I'm not there. I hope that it drives you insane to think of me like it has happened to me. I hope that you question whether what we had was real or not like I do. I hope that you think about those 3 years about us together as a lucid dream that you wished you had never woken up from. But no... you wont! instead you will continue putting on that fake smile and making yourself be happy with someone 5 years younger than you with 2 kids already at her age. SMH! Have a great day monkey face! enjoy your 5 hour drive to see your match made in heaven for the weekend. Hope that when you come back home on sunday night or monday that you miss me or at least think of me.

[hellischrome]

I miss you so much today. I can't believe that one week ago we woke up together in this bed.

[SimonSerenade]

Well that's it, every last reminder of you has gone now, I'll never watch football or own a Sony device ever again, the memories are just too strong and painful, it doesn't stop me missing you but it helps to be away from it, if you'd of told me we'd be treating each other like we never existed at the start of 2013, I wouldn't of believed you for a second, it's such a shame it turned out this way, I really was in it for the long haul, I love you, have a great life, I hope you find that one special thing that makes it that way.