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[thishatteredsymphony]

Why did you text me last night? Couldn't you have just left me alone?

[fiftyfifty]

It feels like I just woke up laying on a piece of wood in the middle of the ocean. I have no idea how I got here and there is nothing but water around me as far as the eye can see. I am truly lost. I can't envision myself ever finding land again. I'm not sure I want to.

[Tinkerbelll]

The picture you sent me just reminded me about how many things I did for you in the past. I would always buy little gifts for you, hiding them at your place with cute notes..But really, when I think about us it I think about an Easter egg, nicely decorated but empty inside. You just disappeared from my life, one day. Stay there.

[fujidabruin]

Have a great time doing your "confused, not a relationship experiences" (laugh)..... I am going the other direction. Maybe we will cross paths, but probably not.

[HateThisLimbo]

I miss our life together. I miss how safe and secure that I felt in your arms. I miss holding hands. I miss singing our songs. I miss everything about you. My heart is still completely broken even after seven months. I can't and won't ever believe that you don't love me anymore...I know in my heart of hearts that you do. We had something so special. I still really, really love you and always will.

[fujidabruin]

As you were a great friend to me I can't help but feel a need to want what is best for you. Was going through our early emails yesterday. As I deleted them after reading I reflected on how strong a friendship and supportive bond we forged within a few weeks. Yes, our sexual desire for each other made things quite intense but our relationship was still grounded by our consideration about the friendship.

 

Now I see that you are still as confused about your relationship issues today as you were 18 months ago when we were opening up to one another and I first had a glimpse into your vulnerability. Damn!!!..... I still want to be the one that is there for you. To share a path together like we did.

 

I tell myself that I am probably the rebound guy..... after 18 years of marriage where you remained broken-hearted for the last ten..... did I stand a chance after that??? I am not sure that your flings with casuals will help you achieve any enlightenment in this area but good luck to you. It will soon not matter to me at all what you do but I sincerely hope the best for you.

 

We no longer have a shared path so I must find my own now.

 

I do love you Baby and you know I always will.

 

Peace be with you

[petall]

Thinking of you every day still. I know you did feel for me. Your fear of commitment made you run away. I know I am better off without you but I miss you so. You loved me. I wish you could have been braver.

[BrokenHeartedSavior]

Happy 45th Birthday Erica Lynne. Clearly our eight years together were poison, yet I can't help but to think of you today. Your barely second birthday apart.

 

I'm glad I know nothing about you anymore. I'm frankly shocked at what more than a year apart can do to the mind and memory. You're a stranger now. Makes me sad and happy at the same time. You see, you know nothing about ME anymore either. Even if you don't care.

 

I wished you'd sent me a text, email or just SOMETHING on my birthday, but I guess I'm fortunate that you didn't. It would have left me even more empty.

 

Well my old love, just another dose of reality for me. Thanks for helping me let go just a bit more. Hope you've found what you're looking for in life. I just do not to bear witness to any of it.

 

J.

Edited August 10, 2013 by BrokenHeartedSavior
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[incognus]

you know what chick? eff you and your goofy girlfriend.

 

I broke NC to reach a ****ing olive branch to your ass, but I see your over me and "enjoying being single"...that's all the closure I need..

 

I asked if you wanted me back cause it seemed like you were going thru the break up poorly, but I see the awkwardness was because your already eff'ing someone else..

 

so eff it...I'm finshed, I've washed my hands with the situation, and you..

 

I regret texting you, and I hate I ****ing have to work with you 5 days out the week..keep ****in ignoring me the way you have been..I'mma DO ME goofy bitch.

 

I shoulda just took the loss when I broke up with you, and reminded myself on how messed up our damn relationship was in the first damn place..

[icaro]

I just want you to know I know that you were in love with Keith while we were together. I would say in feel used, but exploited is probably a better term. I hope all I bestowed you logistically and materially during the period you mooching off me while being in love with another (others) serves as a reminder of your deceit and cowardice. I'm continually stunned by your lack of character and capacity for manipulation and deceit as well as your immaturity and heartlessness. i thought i knew you. i trusted in the best part of you, but youve shown me who you really are and the lengths you'll go to hide what you really are about. You are sick,frankly. And I hope you get help. But you probably never will. You'll continue to repeat this lurid cycle, not giving a s**t about the destruction you leave in your wake. All until the day your looks, the only thing you've ever had, fail you.

[sweetkiwi]

Inspired by a conversation with i King.

 

Dear Ex,

 

Thank you for dumping me so I could find someone I clicked with on EVERY level . Hope you're doing well.

 

Love, Kiwi

[reddragon588]

For some reason, maybe I'm projecting, but I get the feeling you might be seeing/hanging out with someone. I want to know if you are, but I don't also. I wish you would tell me so that I could shatter the illusion I have that we might be able to get back together some day. Even though I know it's over and you're gone. I still love you even though I don't know why. I wish we could just get together, agree to work it out and make the effort to make it work.

[fireb3nder]

I dont get why I liked u in the first place when you are not even my type of guy. I know i was my fault, but do u have to be so unforgiving? I gave u a lot of chances even when I dont know where our relationship is going, I just went by faith and trust, foolish girl that I am. I gave u chances when u did the same thing I did to u, and I believed the girl that time. U treated me like your cheating ex girlfriend since day 1. Taking me for granted, just cuz Im always there for u. Not everything is about you. I have needs and wants too. But I always take the back seat cuz you're not interested. You value your brains and cunning why not look back and think maybe the fault was not entirely on me. Or her. And just becuz we broke up doesn't mean I dont care about u. I still do. I think about u all the time, wondering if you're happy, or sad. I am full of remorse. But Im not gonna waste my breath saying sorry to a person when I know it will just fall on deaf ears. Even God forgives, so why cant u?

 

It was a really rocky relationship, but do u have to turn your back on me completely like nothing happened to us? Treating me like I should be happy if you gave me a moment of your time. Of all the guys, u hurt me the most too. That makes both of us. They say time heals all wounds, so for both our sake, I really hope that is the case.

 

I miss u everyday babe. I have never cried this hard in my entire life. And everyday too. Feels like years have passed..Its like time moves so slow..I remember our happy times together..and the bad. :'( I want u to be happy, even if it means u find another. That hurts so much. I dont know why I love u even if we are wrong for each other, even if it didnt work out.. I lost u, and our friendship. Basically everything that matters to me. People might as well call me a zombie. A walking, talking dead person. I know it sounds melodramatic, but thats how I feel now.

 

Add stalking to my list of faults. It hurts so much when u are being sweet to other girls, even on FB.. and you are rarely like that to me.

 

I wish u all the best. I love u.

 

Your Gemmy

[reddragon588]

I want to log into Facebook and check your page but I can't. I miss you.

[reddragon588]

Happy birthday. I wish I could be with you on your special day. I still love you.

[The Situation]

I miss you, and hope to see you again, bull****-free. No more emotional baggage. No more stress. I just want to be with you. My messed-up past is exactly that now. I'm finally seeing you for you and not comparing. Even better, I've got my focus back, and don't want to run away any more. Being at home and close to you sounds perfect.

 

I miss our nights in. I thought I'd be over you by now, but it appears you meant more to be than my fuzzy mind realised. Hope we can reconnect one day. I want our banter back.

 

Until then, take care of yourself, C.

[stormer1092]

Hey I know its only been a couple days but I really miss holding you close to me. I know I haven't been myself lately and I haven't been there for you like I should have been. I now realize how much that was hurting you. I still love you and would do anything to have you next to me. I now realize what I have to do with my life and I am currently working on it. I just hope you're ok.

 

With love, D

[fujidabruin]

Drove passed your car this morning when it was in the park and I wanted to see you so bad. I doubled back to see if you were still walking the couple blocks to work. I am still attached to what we had and ultimately attached to you. I am ****ed up still and its pissing me off that I am not over you. I gotta stay away from you and I need you to stay outta my life.

 

Still think we had it all together. Just such a good thing. A special bond without the expectations. Maybe it was just me..... maybe you were not that into me..... maybe you just said the things that you knew I wanted to hear..... maybe you were just keeping me close till a better opportunity came along..... maybe I should congratulate you for fooling me into thinking I meant soooo much to you..... IT DOES NOT MATTER ANYMORE.

 

We were probably doomed from the start even though we did have one very good year together. Thanks for that.

 

Bye

[Gingerlee]

Had a slight relapse today, i'm really unwell and I miss how you used to care for me and stroke my hair until i fell asleep. But you are now doing that with your new girlfriend.

 

Haven't spoken to you in nearly a month now, it's scary how fast time passes.

 

I've been fine without you babe, I really have, but sometimes, days like today, I'm really missing you.

[Misfortune]

You had 23+ years before ever meeting me to find yourself and figure out what you like. You had your college years and relationships with other guys to figure yourself out. Why did you lead me on and wait until we got married to come out of the closet? Now you're free and happy; hoorah for you. What about me? What about us? Guess none of that matters now that you have your gf/soulmate. Glad it was so easy for you to give up on us and move on to someone else. I never even got a chance to fight for what I loved(you, us), its all about you and what you want. You even abandoned your family that has been there for you all your life, for this person. Smh; hope it's worth it.

 

Hope your life with your soulmate and new friends is everything you dreamed of. Friends will never leave you. Sorry I held you back from your smoking, drinking and party life style. -_-

[ndt]

I'm sorry I pushed you away. I know I told you we should go our separate ways just yesterday, but I still look at my phone, hoping it's a text saying, "we should talk" or something.

[seekingpeaceinlove]

I go back and forth from missing you with every fiber of my being and holding out hope that we can be together again someday to agreeing that you and I weren't right for each other. I'm angry that you would say you love me but how could you walk away without trying everthing to make this work?

 

I'll miss your kiss and breath..your hands, your smile and laugh. The way you used to look at me and kiss my shoulder, my forehead, my lips. Even up until our last argument we were saying I love you. I loved you more than I have ever loved anyone and gave more of myself that I ever have before. You told me in Jan how you never wanted our journey to end.

 

I'm sorry for the mistakes I've made but you never seemed to want to forgive and move on. I wish you could have put your ego aside and realize that I was there to love you, support you and make you feel adored. That's all. The mistakes I made were small but to you and your ego they were huge. I forgave you so many times and learned from the experiences...that's a relationship..why don't you see that? Why don't you see that people aren't perfect and that a relationship takes work, forgiveness and understanding?

 

Will you remember all of the sweet things I did for you? How I loved you so? Our adventures together? Remember how I told you when we first started dating that I had this urge to feed you and take care of you? I've never felt that way before..I wanted to be your wife someday. I wanted to call you my husband..to love you forever. All you seem to remember are the bad times.

 

I was willing to battle my family to be with you. You said that if I truly did love you we would have been futher along in our relationship by now. BS. I tried hard with little to no encouragement from you to bond with your lil boy. How can you not appreciate and see the value in this? How patient and supportive I was with you being a single dad having your son the majority of the week? Simple fact is...you didn't need me in your life and as soon as our relationship needed fine tuning and repair..you just weren't interested in putting in the real effort that it takes to work it out.

 

You're so messed up. I was willing to change, make things work..but you gave up. You f*cking gave up on us and it hurts like hell. There are so many things I want to say..but does it all matter at this point? No. You gave up. You decided that our love wasn't worth fighting for. I pray that you will see that you have the power to be happy and that perception is everything. Your ego will never allow you to be happy.

 

So you're right. We aren't right for each other. You couldn't see my worth.

 

I'm moving on.

Edited August 15, 2013 by seekingpeaceinlove

[reddragon588]

I can't stop checking your social media. I miss you a lot. I miss your companionship the most, and the way you laugh. I loved looking over at you and seeing that cute little smile you got when you looked at me. I know that I'll never get to see that cute little smile again and it hurts. I just wish we could be together.

[heartshapedrocks]

I'm mad at you today.

I hate this.

[SimonSerenade]

It's so sad to think it's almost been 3 months since it all ended, 2013 has been a bad year so far, it's a year I'd like to forget in a hurry, I miss you, I don't think I'll ever stop missing you, I wish it could of been so straight forward for us, I really did love you like I'd never loved anybody else, my heart always skipped beats knowing I was going to see you, I loved when you'd just randomly show up at my door and you'd think you was unwelcome and it was the complete opposite, you brightened up my day entirely.

 

Just like my dad, it's so sad to think I'll never be able to look forward to seeing you again, I'll never hear "I love you" again, it's hard to believe we've gone from being two people madly in love to two complete strangers, I'll always miss our phone calls and hearing about your day, I miss everything about you, I'll never regret meeting you, I always said after the relationship before you ended that I would give love one last try with somebody and if it didn't work out I would stay on my own and be happy that way, I've kept my word but I'm happy that I gave you a try, I'm happy to have spent my time with you, it was so precious and I'll always remember the girl who stole my heart for the very last time.

 

You ended things on a terrible note and hurt me more than anybody else ever had but I forgive you for it all, holding on to resentment and bitterness isn't worth the feelings that follow, I'm ashamed it took me seeing my dad on his death bed to realise that, you weren't perfect but you were mine, I should of accepted you for who you were and everything that followed, nothing was worth the pain of losing you and nothing will make up for that, I only hope that your happy now, I love you and if you ever believed anything I ever said, I hope it was that.