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[NomiMalone]

Where are you my XXXXXXX? I miss you so bad and I wish more than anything to wrap my arms around you and hold you. I love you, with all my heart. I just wanted to say it one more time. I wish you could, and would change. I wish we could have had a future together.

Edited March 2, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[love1336x]

Cool breeze and autumn leaves

Slow motion daylight

A lone pair of watchful eyes

Oversee the living

Feel the presence all around

A tortured soul

A wound unhealing

No regrets or promises

The past is gone

But you can still be free

If time will set you free

Time now to spread your wings

To take to flight

The life endeavour

Aim for the burning sun

You're trapped inside

But you can still be free

If time will set you free

But it's a long long way to go

 

Keep moving way up high

You see the light

It shines forever

Sail through the crimson skies

The purest light

The light that sets you free

If time will set you free

 

Sail through the wind and rain tonight

You're free to fly tonight

And you can still be free

If time will set you free

And going higher than the mountain tops

And go high like the wind don't stop

And go high

Free to fly tonight

Free to fly tonight

[SimonSerenade]

It's nearly been 2 months since you left me for the final time, never looking back on the mess you made, you really have no idea how much you left me devastated, I still find it so hard to leave the house without that dreaded panic that I may bump into you and break down again, the things you did stick in the back of my mind like a catchy song, you left me feeling so worthless, left in a daze wondering what the hell I ever meant to you for you to treat me the cold and cruel way that you did yet I'm the one dubbed as the bad guy.

 

I try not to think of you as a good person, I try not to think of all the good things that came out of us, instead I try to see things for how they really where, there was problems, problems you caused, you had to go all the way back to the start to even find something I did wrong, The rest of the time I spent watching you repeat the same mistakes over and over probably on purpose, you had no right to treat me like that.

 

Good luck ever finding somebody like me again, good luck finding somebody genuine who'll stand by all your bull ****, good luck finding somebody romantic and affectionate, good luck finding somebody who will love you like I did, good luck finding somebody who will satisfy your little princess complex.

 

You had it good with me, you where just too much of an immature idiot to ever see it, I gave you what any woman of a healthy heart and mind would want, you put a negative spin on all of it, I'm not going to apologise for wanting your hand in marriage and I'm not going to apologise for wanting to treat you good and stand by you for as long as you live and finally I'm not going to apologise for being loyal and true to you, it was ****ed up that I ever had to.

 

I truly hope you regret this one day, you deserve to live in shame for a long time for what you did to me, I hope you do, it might just make you a better person, god knows your nobody to be proud of right now, if only your mother knew the evil force that resided in you, she'd be ashamed of you, after all, she was treated no better by your father, congratulations for becoming that selfish, cold, cruel and abusive person.

[mbethb]

How could you hqave done this to me? Done this to our family? This is not the person that you are! Where did the real you go?

 

I had to hold my weeping daughter for 30 minutes last night because she can't cope with the fact that we're no longer a family. And when I woke in the night and saw her laying next to me I had to weep too. It should be you laying there.

 

I don't want you back. I don't want to ever see you again, hoenestly. But that isn't an option is it. Of course I have to see you on countless occasions until our children are grown.

 

You threw me away like a piece of garbage. Worst of all, you did it knowing how much it affected me when my father did the same to our family.

 

You're a sick individual, stringing me along for months, hoping your were in "a phase". You're disgusting and I hope she enjoys you.

[Sokar23]

I still can't believe its been 10 months since you left me and 10 months no contact, leaving me for a guy I used to get annoyed at you talking to all the time who was just a "friend" then a week after the break up your in a relationship with him but yeah whatever I was clearly being jealous for no reason. 3 years down the drain when I treated you like a princess but looking back you really did treat me like **** so why I still am bothered by you frustrates me more and more every day

 

You have scooped out all the goodness I had and now I am so bloody cynical and negative it's hard to look on the bright side we said the usual we will be together forever bla bla bla. Had a few no strings encounters this year which left me feeling even more empty then actually managed to get another girlfriend which lasted all of 3 months she was a kind considerate girl so the complete opposite of you and I have broke her heart but the scary thing is I don't even feel guilty not even a little bit what the hell did you do to me

 

my friend is even pregnant with a guy she met 3 months ago and they write on facebook saying how happy they are but instead of congratulating them all I can think is how young and silly they are fast forward a few years and lets see what they think then because as you taught me life can and will bite you in the arse when you least expect it

 

I now know thanks to you I will never get the old me back 24 years old and so so bitter all that seems to be left is to try and find another girl then cope with all the facebook chatting and "harmless" flirting which seems to be standard for our generation, how I wish I had been born many years ago, no morals left these days. You never wanted to work on our relationship when the novelty wore off so when you and this ****tard get to the point when the honeymoon period is a distant memory what will you do, ditch him and find someone else your pathetic and one day soon your world will crumble and if you ever message me whether it be in 2 months time or 2 years you will see first hand what a monster you have now created and yes I could better myself and try and be a better man and move on but I don't believe in forgive and forget, I was a nice guy and look where that got me with you, I live in hope that I will put my heart on the line again but not anytime soon , I miss you for some reason but I didnt deserve this I really want to text you right now but I wont you will never know anything about my life again, thanks for nothing

[unexpectedlyhere]

Please see it how I see it. We have so much to give.

[NomiMalone]

I knew you'd disappear. Although I'm sure it wasn't your intention, it came across to me that I no longer mean much to you. This was everything I hated about being with you, everything that culminated in the demise of our relationship - your silence, your stonewalling, your secrecy, your absurd belief that it was unnecessary to share parts of your life with me. I hated not knowing, the uncertainty, the feeling of my heart breaking amidst your silence. As devastating as it was for me to tear myself away from you, I also know I never ever want to feel this pain, this isolation ever again from anyone's actions.

[NomiMalone]

Goodnight my big little lion, I miss you so much.

[SimonSerenade]

I don't hate you, I guess I always knew I couldn't hold on to a prize like you forever but at least I did it for a little while, thanks for being there for me for a while, you brightened up my life at a time when I needed something, I'm sorry I couldn't be the man you wanted in the end, I tried I hope to god you knew that.

[unexpectedlyhere]

I love you so so much. I wish I could just shower you with all the love I have for you until you feel great again.

 

What we had was born even before the start of this thread. Don't kill it.

[jayhawk566]

I love you so much. But maybe not who you are, but who you use to be. You have changed so much, and not all for the better. It is amazing that this break up doesn't seem to affect you much. I remember a girl who cried and cried because she thought I would forget about her when I went to college. A girl who wanted to be with me every chance we had. Now it's like I don't even exist. You have moved on very quickly and with out looking back. I am devastated. We made so many plans and for what? Nothing. I wish you the best of luck with your life. I think I could've made it so much better but you didn't see it that way. Goodbye!

[Dumped85]

I found photos of our holiday we shared on my computer today of us, and it tore me to bits. I miss you so much and want to share our lives together again. I know I stupidly should not have messaged you on FB regarding the photos as you most likely wont even respond to my message. I hope I don't get into trouble over the message, I don't need a record against me. I know you felt the the breakup was for the best. And I really want to believe that. I just want my sentimental feelings to stop. I never get upset over anything, except the love id lost.

[Dumped85]

Who would have thought you would actually respond to the FB messages, even though they are very direct and brief. Hmm, you do have something beneath those awesome boobs.

[Dumped85]

Maybe we rushed into a relationship with eachother to soon, I honestly just wanto be friends with you at one point. Hopefully when that day comes we are both single still and can maybe ine day start again with each other.

[petall]

I wish I didn't but I miss you badly tonight. How are you spending your Sunday? Do you think of me and wish you could do things over?

[Dumped85]

I wish I didn't contact you yesterday about those photos, I feel like crap now and have stupid false hope that ill be able to see you sometime soon. Which I doubt you will let happen. Because you know how I feel about you still. I guess I'm not sure if being friends just yet is a good idea.

[SimonSerenade]

Well.... it's officially been 2 months since the day you left me for the final time, it took me a long time to find closure with the way you walked away and cut me off like that, I tried my hardest to figure out the reasons behind your actions and I couldn't find a thing that I did wrong deserving of what you said and did, none of it makes sense and it never will.

 

I foolishly thought I was the exception, the way you easily cut ties with the people in your past disgusted me and it scared the hell out of me, I prayed I wouldn't meet the same end but I did and worst of all, you lied and deceived me to take me for the most you could get out of me before discarding me.

 

I had to face the truth and it tore me apart, I didn't want to accept it even though it was staring me in the face the whole time, I meant nothing to you, I never did, your actions after you ended this confirmed it, I was just somebody to waste time with, I'd never been treated with such disrespect in all my life, I opened myself up to you, I made all the efforts to make it work for you, I gave you everything most women would dream of and it still wasn't enough for you, you found fault with everything I did for you.

 

Your a cold person, you use an honest genuine persona to draw people in and right when you've got them where you want them, you use them up and toss them aside, I was no different, I got bored with hurting myself, I used to wish you would come back and tell me I meant everything, now I just wish you'd leave town and never return, you don't deserve my love.

Edited July 29, 2013 by SimonSerenade

[mtnbiker3000]

Relationship? Ha! That's a fhuking joke! We had no relationship. You never loved me. You had no respect for me. You used me for your wants and needs, and never gave a shyte about mine. You put everyone else in your life above me. You kept me on the end of a string for 3 years, and played me like a piano from the beginning. And I let you. Not sure who I am more upset with. Please don't contact me. I have nothing to say to you again. Ever.

[SimonSerenade]

Eughhh, I still miss you, despite everything, despite meaning nothing to you, I still miss you, I just wish for once you would show one ounce of weakness, I guess that was always too much to ask.

[OverThinker72]

I miss you and still love you very much. I miss our talks and I miss our future. I miss your little boy so much too. I miss our dreams and the way you would hold me tight when I needed a hug. All this missing you but I honestly do not want you back. I know what you did. It's not that you didn't want to be in a relationship "right now". It's more the case of you not wanting to be in a relationship with ME and wanting to be in relationship with HER. You see, I know about her, but you will never know that I know. How could I ever want anyone like you back in my life? We've had no contact for 2 weeks now and hopefully it will remain that way. I'm hurt but I know I can get through this. I go away with a clear conscience and that gives me peace You in the other hand should question why all your past relationships have been a complete disaster. I may cry myself to sleep at night but that is because I am releasing you from my heart. I know you will get in touch again, but it's already too late. Goodbye Star Trek God

[thishatteredsymphony]

I had one of the best days since we broke up. I took so many awesome pictures and even had one taken of me. I could see my smile, and it looked so happy. I felt like if I didn't know myself, anyone would think in that picture I was having the time of my life.

 

But all day I still felt sad and angry deep inside. Every day things continue to get better but I'm still feeling hollow at my core. How could you have done this to us? Why couldn't you have just been honest and spared me all this hurt? Why am I still asking these questions when none of them matter?

 

In the end, I believe this happened for a reason. I'm still trying to figure out what that reason is but I hope someday I will discover it. But until then, I'm still torn up inside. It hurts so bad to not know how you feel. Maybe you miss me and maybe you don't care anymore. I will never truly know the answer because, frankly, even if you told me you missed me I don't know if I can take what you say as truth anymore. The person I believed you were... does she still exist? Did she just disappear? Or did she never exist at all?

 

I ask you again, God... please take this from me and let tomorrow be an even better day for me. Please do this for me.

Edited July 30, 2013 by thishatteredsymphony

[love1336x]

I wish you still cared....

But, you don't, and that's okay... that's okay.

[Dumped85]

Miss you so much bella, miss the nights and days together. Even though I respect and understand your choice. I'm devistated by not having you in my life anymore.

[SimonSerenade]

I hate my life, first you **** me over, leaving me telling everyone I'm a bad person when your the BAD PERSON and now my dad is in hospital possibly dying, I can't hold myself up anymore and I can't even bring myself to go and see him, I've turned my back on god, if there is one surely he couldn't be this cruel to put me through so much and leave me with nobody by my side, I feel a bitter cold person forming inside me.

 

My dad was a selfish man and even if things were different, he still wouldn't have done anything differently, I've never been worth anybody's time, maybe that should tell me something about myself, I guess I'm just a meaninglessly pathetic person who people can pick up and put down at will, I guess my dad will just be one more person in my life who ****ed me over and couldn't give me the closure of saying sorry, just like with you, it shouldn't hurt but it kills me.

[SimonSerenade]

hes not got long left now, hes in a diabetec coma, they told me all i can do is le it take it's course :'(, i can't handle this anymore.