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[DuchessKaye]

I know guys this isn't to monster this time. But Maybe this letter to my apparent best friend can show how much he has twisted me inside. I can't trust anyone but you guys...I mean..who are you gonna tell.

 

Dear Ghost,

 

You were once alive and so full of energy. Where did you go? You used to care about me and all the little problems I was having. Now you're consumed competely into your semi posessive boyfriend..whom you have cheated on numerous times. You tell me you're having second thoughts...just leave already ghost. Since you met him you dont seem to care anymore. You dont bother contacting me...your best friend. I have to try to rummage something of our friendship...which you somehow call a best friendship.

You say you are just sooo busy because of work and school and yada yada yada. Thats fine but texting me...is that so much to ask. A friendly reminder to show you still freaking care Ghost? Did you remember that I am still going through a breakup with an abusive monster? You can never understand my problems...you never were abused and frankly idk if I can trust you. Before me and monster stopped talking I would have to have him nag at me about something I apparently said..only to you. Or did you just not care and still hung out with the jerk and still talk about him like im not there. I don't wanna hear about his sex life! You don't care at all Ghost! You used to be someone with such high hopes and dreams too. My hero...someone...now you're...nothing =(...I miss my best friend ='(

 

 

Love You still like a still....my best friend...where ever you are =(

 

Awwww.... <|3

[Sing]

Dear J,

 

Cried myself to sleep last night. I hate that your happy without me but im happy that your happy.

I know it was broken, i know we werent right for each other but what gets me is that you didnt even want to talk, you were always like that, you never wanted to talk, it was easier to give up and that is what you did.

 

How can i possibly feel happy when i lost my only friend and lover when you walked away.

[ThatDudeXO]

What's up fool.

 

I'm sorry I had to tell you to stop contacting me but it's a shame things happened like this.

 

I just wish I knew what the hell is going through your head ending a 2.5 year relationship without giving me one solid answer.

 

So wishy washy, so unclear, so lost, frustrating.

 

I might seem arrogant but you won't find anyone near as good as me. I'm sure of that.

 

Buh bye.

[LostGirl11]

Just want to say good luck with finding someone that will put up with your weird ways, moodyness and vileness.

 

I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire.

 

Byes.

[IntoTheAbyss]

So after two months of separation you rejoin Facebook after 6 months of deactivation just to change your status to single. Really? We haven't even signed any papers, the divorce process hasn't even begun and you're single.. with 2 young kids. Wow. Just wow.

 

I hate how you get to me, my fuse gets lit and I can't help confronting you. You and your arrogant tone, total disregard for me or my family. You knew you had my family on there and you announced to them all our marriage was over.

 

Then you straight up laugh at me when I told you I didn't want to sit near you at our daughters recital. Why would I? The children don't need to see us together, they know we don't live together. The only thing they need to know is that we love them.

 

You weren't kidding when you said you lost respect for me. Truth is, you don't respect anyone. You don't know what the hell you want and I hope you crash and burn while I'm living life realistically.

 

Soon I won't care what you think or do, time will take care of that.

[LostJustLost]

What do I do ***? I need to tell you that I get it, even if I almost killed myself when I realized you had walked out of my life, I get it and I'm ok now. I don't need to tell you that part tho, just that I get it and that I'm ok. But I don't want to break NC. You should know that I wish you nothing but the best, that I have learned how to let go. At least I think I have.

 

Why did I want to find you the minute I thought I was in big trouble? Do you always reach for what is most familiar when you're afraid? When you're own mortality is staring you in the face, the clarity is astounding. What you did, how you handled dumping me.. the train wreck you left behind.. none of it mattered. I just wanted to talk to you, to clear the air, let you off the "guilt" hook I know you're dangling on. To let you know that I miss our friendship, we were best friends for so long.. I miss that.

 

That I will always hold the love I had/have for you in the hidden depths of my heart.

 

That I forgive you.

 

I need to make a thread. I need advice on this one.

[jennisfora]

i got a call from a number i didn't recognize, the person didn't leave a message. wonder if it was you? i still miss you, but, it is getting easier. it is no longer life or death, but i do feel like i am in a sea of grey days. i feel very neutral. not happy or sad, just drifting. april 17th was the last time you texted me, and i didnt respond. finallly, i said i dont know, because, i didnt know what else to say, and i didnt want to be cruel. but, it was a non answer, and i know you want to know when you can reach out. but, i do not want to hear the same nonsense.

 

i am done hearing how much you like being alone, and staying single. i get it. being alone is better than being with me, thanks. enjoy it. maybe i can completely forgive you one day, i am trying to be understanding. i know that there doesnt have to be a sane reason for ending things. simply not wanting to be in it anymore is reason enough. i am getting there. *hugs & kisses*

[Gulf-Delta]

I'm still angry. At the lies and deception. I know you did it to protect me, but I always valued your honesty.

 

I feel used. I feel replaced, even though you said I never be. I'm angry that you lied about us being friends. I want to be friends with you more than anything, even though we aren't meant to be together. I miss you so much. Your clothes. Your laugh. Your sense of humor. Your gorgeous smile. Your amazing eyes.

 

I remember when we'd lay in bed for hours and just get lost in each others eyes. I have no idea how bad I wish you'd call. I want to hear your voice so bad. I miss your warmth so much.

 

I'm just a mix of emotions I don't understand. Somedays I feel like I'm in love with you still. Some days I just feel like I love you as a friend. Some days I want to call you, but I'm afraid of rejection. I'm afraid for us N. I'm so scared of what's gonna happen to us.

 

I remember us sitting on the edge of my bed, and you said you wanted a future with me. I remember when I called you your pet name for the last time, and we both cried and you said you loved me. I miss you so bad. And today's one of those days where I feel like I still love you so much.

 

I just want you to come back. I want this all to be a dream. I still love you. This isn't getting any easier on me. I love you. I just love you. I can't help it, I just do.

[Nikki Sahagin]

I realised a little while ago now, I am completely over you

But I still wish ya well dude

[jelly baby]

Hey ex boyfriend who broke my heart how're you doing?

Just letting you know last night I had a dream we were back together, one of those dreams where you wake up and you think it's real. Then I checked my phone and remembered I've deleted your number, I had no texts from you just like I haven't had in nearly two weeks. But thats fine, I'm still breathing without you. I can still laugh, love, have fun, be myself. Even though you ripped my heart out, spat on it and stood on it.

 

I hope you're enjoying life with your new girlfriend (not really, I hope karma bites you on the ass like a bitch). I hope you feel insecure when you undress yourself in front of her, all those insecurity's you lost with me because we had a two and a half year relationship together. I hope you remember you waited six months before I let us get intimate together, and she let you in her bed just days after we broke up like the slut she really is. All those times I told you just how much I disliked her while we were together and you told me ''nothing is going on'' but really, you were waiting for the 'perfect' time to break up with me so you could jump into a relationship with her. I know noone is going to read all of this, especially not you. But this is something I've bottled up for weeks, I can't tell anyone this. I heard that your new girlfriend is one to cheat on her partners, I hope she does that to you before she goes away travelling for summer, or while shes there. When shes travelling around Europe and your two month relationship is in jeopardy I hope you think about me, and how loyal I was to you. How much of your **** I put up with.

As much as I hate that skank on your arm, don't abuse her like you did me (remember that night you strangeled me? And that other time you slept with me even though I had tears streaming down my face screaming?) noone deserves that. No matter how much I hate her, don't abuse her. Don't abuse ANYONE. Because you are lucky I never told my family, you wouldn't be walking right now if I had. No need to thank me, I just hope you learnt your lesson.

 

I'm not over you, I still love you with every bone in my body. After you broke up with me I went out two weeks later and kissed someone, I felt like I was cheating on you and I haven't done it since even though your romantically involved with some loser. You both deserve each other, thanks for finally showing me your true colors. I have learnt so many lessons from you, lessons I really needed. That's the only positive thing to come out of our two and a half years together., all the rest was just a joke to you. Hopefully, you'll see what you threw away, come crawling back to me so I can kick you to the curb. Goodbye, I'll possibly text you soon asking if you want to be friends, but I'm still in two minds about that. Please don't think I'm crying about you everyday or waiting for you to text me. I'm SO happy being single, I don't need to text someone every minute of the day telling them where I am, I can finally be friends with the opposite sex without being accused of cheating, I can now get my pay without thinking your gonna take it all off me to ''borrow'' cos your a jobless bum! I love being able to work for MY money, and keep MY money. See you later loser.

P.S. remember that picture you put of you and your girlfriend on a social networking site to make me jealous, your teeth look super yellow. Go brush them, I'll buy you a tube of toothpaste as a closure present

 

(sorry if I have posted this reply wrong, I don't really know how to use it haha. and i also apologize for the super childish insult at the end. but he used to tell me how ugly i was all the time!)

[Frank13]

I know noone is going to read all of this,

 

(sorry if I have posted this reply wrong, I don't really know how to use it haha.

 

I read all of it. You didn't reply wrong. You did fine.

[LadyLost]

You said today 'sorry if it's weird having to work with me'. After 10d of successful NC we now must work together. And you think it feels 'weird' for me. Are you really that clueless? Have you really moved on to the extent that you think I might feel 'weird'?

Well I have many, many emotions and thoughts and feelings right now and I know you want to be my friend and it really p****s me off.

 

I cry for you every day. Most days several times. I am miserable and lonely and depressed and it makes me feel just great to see the extent of your understanding. So thoughtful.

 

How could you do this to me. How could you just get on with your life.

 

I have never, ever felt so let down by anybody in my life before. Well done. You broke me.

[jelly baby]

I read all of it. You didn't reply wrong. You did fine.

 

Yay, I did it right! Wow, reading back that is reaaally angry. So glad I got it off my chest, like a weights been lifted off my shoulders. I hope you didn't read it and think I was a nasty person, I'm really not. Just had a lot of hate bottled up inside haha

[CopingGal]

Hello Worthless,

 

How are you? Weird and stupid I guess...that's all you've ever been.

 

Have a nice day, and as always,

 

F-you

[Frank13]

Yay, I did it right! Wow, reading back that is reaaally angry. So glad I got it off my chest, like a weights been lifted off my shoulders. I hope you didn't read it and think I was a nasty person, I'm really not. Just had a lot of hate bottled up inside haha

 

I don't think you are nasty at all and understand where you are coming from. If I thought you were, I wouldn't have replied. I replied to show you I did read it and I do support you.

 

That is exactly what this thread is for, getting things out that you would like to say to the ex but know it would set you back if you broke NC.

[Idylle]

I just cant believe it!!

OHH Its probably going to take a while before I find someone again. I really need to find a person that will take the time, and someone special blabla

All that stuff you said about being oh sooo miserable and needing to find the right girl was just a load off BULL****!! And once again I feel so STUPID for actually believing you!

I finally see it the way it is. You couldn’t care less who it is you’re dating. You just date whoever comes along and is willing! You don’t turn down anyone, and when there is no one willing present at the time youg o all : ohh I want to take the times to find someone special, ohh it’ll probably be a while before I will date someone again, I feel so miserable, I miss talking to you, yeah right, only when there is no one else to talk to …what a load of CRAP! Are you really that unable to be alone, gawd. I only have one word for what I think of this: DISGUSTING!

[CopingGal]

You stink and you're filthy.

[LadyLost]

I miss you tonight. I love you still.

[leannesagoodman]

I don't think I can do it.

It's been nearly 4 months and nothing's worked. This month's only going to be worse.

I don't want my birthday or the 15th to exist because last year my present was you. And it will never happen again.

This makes me hate myself and everything.

[Chrisal23]

At first I felt hate towards you but deep down I knew I loved you. It's been a month and a couple of days without seeing you or hearing your voice. My world is tilting sideways without you. This isn't the first time we broke , and before I would always come back to you because I needed you in my life, and I didn't want to loose you. Now I still feel the same way and it hurts to remember some of the special moments we shared. So why is it so hard to text you this time, or go pick you up and let you know that I love you more than anything? I guess it's cause I feel that you don't feel the same way. You once told me you wanted to go out with someone else, and although I was mad , it honestly hurt me a lot. Each day is getting harder and more confusing, how can you not text me or call me? you make it look so easy. I guess sometimes the truth hurts, but I still love you.

[jennisfora]

i still miss you, babe. tomorrow is mother's day. you were so sweet last year, got me presents and a card. i helped you pick out something for your mom and sister. you me and my boy walking around the store, trying to find ideas. you got us a bottle of wine and some chocolates for later, i believe. you were such a sweetie. i wonder if you will try to contact me tomorrow. i bet you will think of me and my son.. i wish you well, *hugs & kisses*

[jennisfora]

mother's day is next sunday, lol, aw well.

[msfreebyme]

I laughed the hardest I have ever laughed in awhile after watching the movie The Avengers with my friends =). It shows that inside im getting better. But I still have awhile to go to get away from you mentally Monster. I want to find a good therapist because you screwed my heart up pretty good Monster. Also my mind still plays tricks on me (mentally abused people understand). I still can not understand how you couldn't change for me even though I gave you that secound chance. I was that one person to believe in you. You sure fooled me. But at least I can't blame myself for trying.

Now you're going to go to Prom with that younger chick you have been using as your sex toy. I'm not gonna lie...deep inside it still bothers me that you jumped into bed with another so quickly after me and are most likely somehow enjoying it..but I usually don't think about it. And when she dumps your trashy man whore ass....how are you going to get over me. You won't be anywhere near from getting over me and thats just sad.

 

You are pathetic Monster. You know who you are...deep inside...you just choose to not change. You don't care. You won't even change to save a relationship with someone you apparently loved for three years...even though she still loved you. You accknowledged it too...and no such therapist because you want a gun license. It hurt me to break away from you....pretending like I don't care....acting like a cold hearted witch so you wouldn't maipulate me again. I have learned your ways. You never loved me. You just wanted sex....but could only get it from me..and thats sad. To me it's like you have no soul...I hope the next time you see me and the 20 pounds I have lost (after gaining 60 lbs from being with you) and how beautiful and better off I am without you...you will realize I was the best thing you will never have.

 

I know you hate this song but it just discribes you if only you would realize..I was the one that got away:

[coltsfan1]

Dream on, Dream on!!

[CopingGal]

And when she dumps your trashy man whore ass....how are you going to get over me. You won't be anywhere near from getting over me and thats just sad.

 

You are pathetic Monster. You know who you are...deep inside...you just choose to not change. You don't care.

 

I don't think he's a man whore. I think he's just a whore, period!