Trimmer Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 i don't think it's that easy No, I accept that it may not be for you... I don't mean to imply that it wouldn't be a consideration at all, or that I wouldn't have to consider the implications, but if I felt a sufficiently strong connection and attraction, then for me, the "cousin of a mate" thing wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker. I'm not saying that you should feel that way; I was just answering your specific question of what I would do, and even at that, all I can tell you is what I might do. You were there, I wasn't. I go back to my earlier point that you have to choose the path that is right for you, given the specific situation, and your ablility to deal with it. Look, if it's too delicate for you, then I support you in thinking it over carefully and making a thoughtful decision not to go forward. But if that's your decision, stop agonizing over it, get on with life, and start looking forward to bringing a pen to the next wedding. Again: decide, and act.
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