soft heart Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 I am feeling pretty blue today I dont want to make any mistakes, therefore, I decided to come here to ask for some help! I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We both got really stressed and down about our jobs.. he has been looking for a new job and was not getting anywhere and I quit my job at the same time. I guess this has affected our relationship. He was ready to leave but I asked him if he could give us some time without any contact for like a couple of months, instead of breaking up. He agreed to that. It's been 21 days since my boyfriend and I last spoke. It's been 3 weeks since we agreed that we will not have any contact for a couple of months in order to focus on ourselves and see how we feel. The thing is as much as I have been focusing on myself, made progress in my career, I miss him terribly. I honestly realise over and over again that I love him, noone else. I am worried that he has moved on, he has met someone else, and he has forgotten all about me and I am feeling pretty sad about that. I asked my housemate, who was the one advising me to ask for this break, if I should contact my boyfriend. My housemate told me that I should wait some more time and maybe send him a small message a week later. However, a week later will be only a month since our agreement?! I am not sure what to do to be honest. I am not sure whether to stick to 2 months with making no contact, or whether to send him a message a week later, or whether to just not contact him at all and wait if he makes the first move??! because he was the one ready to leave the relationship completely. In the end if he agreed instead of making it a final break up to have a break, spend some time away from each other. Please tell me what do you think I should do? Thanks.
oppath Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 I think you should ask for what you want and have no regrets if you don't get it.
sb129 Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 Softheart, this is exactly the same as your other thread. What gives? People are going to say the same stuff hon.,
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 "Insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results" --attributed to Albert Einstein Softheart, open up your old posts. Read them. I think you know what the best thing to do is.
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