insomnie Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 Would you be pissed if he didn't make any time for you on the weekend and you generally didn't see each other during the week? If you relationship was based on weekend slumber parties and this weekend he decided he wanted to hangout with his friends instead...all week long. Not a single night reserved for the two of you. I am asking because this is my first relationship...so oftern times I don't know whether I am reacting properly or not.
Star Gazer Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 From the detail you've provided regarding your nonexistent sex-life, it seems like he's treating you as your relationship essentially is: a friendship. I'm not pissed at my female friends when they make other plans, and you shouldn't be mad at him for spending this one weekend with his other friends either. What you SHOULD be doing is looking for someone else to be in a ROMANTIC relationship with, because he's obviously not into this one...
sb129 Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 SG is right. I think your BF wanting a weekend "off" to be with his mates now and then isn't in itself a bad thing, but when you look at the big picture of your particular relationship, I think you should reassess your R, and actually ask yourself what you want from this guy, cos he clearly isn't fulfilling your expectations. Have you talked to him about the problems? Is he aware that you feel there are issues within the R? Sorry to be harsh, but maybe he is not as into the R as he has been previously.
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