JJman Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 Met a girl while she was with her BF around December. The girl and I became good friends. She broke it off after almost 6 years with her ex b/c he wasnt giving enough effort in the relationship. Literally less than a week later she insists we get togather. Her ex is furious, but what can I do. I have been with her for about a month now. I know she still has some feelings for her ex, as they didnt resolve anything. She feels that we should take a break during the summer, for she wants to think about this whole thing I guess. We like each other but many of my friends think this is only temporary. I think not. I dont understand why she wants a break for the summer break. We will be long distance for the summer. Why would she want a break already??
Island Girl Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 You jumped in too soon. Before starting something new she should've taken some time in between. It could be just a rebound relationship - in which case it won't last. Or it could be that she does have real feelings and it is confusing her because she is not over her ex. Or she could want her ex back -- as nothing was resolved and absence and time tends to let the bad fade but the good tends to stay a bit stronger. In any event, you don't have a choice but to step back and let her have the break she is asking for. If you go after her desperate and pleading it will not be a good move.
2ndIINone Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 We like each other but many of my friends think this is only temporary. It is. I know she still has some feelings for her ex Then why ya with her? I dont understand why she wants a break for the summer break. We will be long distance for the summer. Hmmmm..... where is HE gonna be? Oh snap... People still say that?
Poboy Posted April 22, 2007 Posted April 22, 2007 you are her rebound and wanted to get one up her bf for what he did at the time. find someone else man.
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