ryankl Posted April 21, 2007 Posted April 21, 2007 hi all, im hoping you can give me some advice on a situation im embarassed to talk about with my friends and people who know me. well, im a 20-year-old male and ive always been attracted to older women. unfortunately, it is usually females my age who are attracted to me. up to this point, "older" has meant maybe 4-6 years older and the women i have dated have had, for the most part, no trouble fitting in with my friends and my lifestyle. recently, i met this woman who just completely blew my mind... she has to be in her late 40s but you wouldn't be able to tell that unless you looked closely at her face and noticed a few faint lines. either way, she is absolutely stunning. the way she looks, talks (amazing spanish accent), walks... has me mesmerized. she is mature and sophisticated and seems very sure of herself (which i find very attractive). unfortunately, i only see her in a professional setting and our exchanges have been entirely professional and work-related. but now it's like i'm always looking for an excuse to meet with her although an e-mail or a phone call would have been enough. i haven't been seeing her obsessively, maybe only 3 times since my first encounter with her 2 weeks ago. if this had been someone my age, i wouldn't have hesitated to try to get to know her better or talk about things other than work. but the fact that she is significantly older than me, the fact that i don't know if she's single (although she doesn't wear a ring.. but who knows), and the fact that our relationship is entirely professional has made me keep my distance. nevertheless, every time i see her, something like an electric current runs through me. i wish i could get to know her better.. but how do i approach her?? how (i never have anything work-related that would require a loooong conversation over coffee, just so you know) please help!
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