Evilken21 Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t115193/ The crazy thing is I thought I actually did pretty decent on the date, so my confident level went up a bit, than she went and pull that crap on me. cancelling the next date and you well, you know what happens, if you didn't read my Jen topic, go and do that. Anyway, by now I should of been over her, but everytime I think back on it I just keep thinking and thinking and thinking. Many people replied listing the things I done wrong, I think the problem is I made it sound worse than it really was. Because me and her got along just fine. Now, im afriad to go on another date because I can think it went pretty good, but really it went bad and get hurt all over again, I just can't take this. I mean....that just lowers my confidents 10 folds. Its like....you have a test coming up, and you feel pretty damn confident that your going to pass the test. You feel smart! you feel like you can pass this test no problem. You studied hard for it. Than you do it and you thought you did well, but you didn't at all, you got a D or an F on it! It makes you feel pretty damn bad!! Makes you feel like crap! makes you think " Well im not as good as I thought I was" You know....it makes you feel terrible and with this Jen girl, it makes me feel I am not even good enough to talk with her. I mean, this barely ever happens but yea. Its hard and telling me to simply move on doesn't help. Its easier said than done
kepners Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 straight up. you wrote that as a story... why? thats plain odd... listen mate your not even be rational about this. the woman diont have to fancy you because u learn how to manipulate someone over the net! simply shes was never attracted to you, like you where and are to her. you manipulated her to meeting you. she did, she thought you maybe where a real man by being alloff etc, but deep down she knew the truth. but hid it from her self, she fancied someone else or was thinking about someone else when you met, but met you because she felt she owed it to you. the fact is she remained in the car, says EVERYTHING... she saw u first... weighed you up before you even said hello. its was dead in the water. she didnt want to be seen with you at all. period. she was embarrised about being seen with you. she instantly knew you where NOT her type, but you serious SO NOT her type that she didnt even want strangers seeing you together!! seriously as harsh as it thats the facts from a man. 1: she knew u was a sap, 2: thought you maybe a man (when u was palying mind games) 3: knew u was a sap but gave you the benefit of the doubt 4: saw you first and realised you was a SUPER SAP 5: instanly knew you wasnt her type 6: so much so she didnt want you to see her so stayed in the car 7: was embarrised about being seen with you 8: freaked out by everything else u did (as everyone else said) serious harsh but that why everything happened the way they did, you manipulated her in to seeing you when u knew she didnt fancy you. and you lying to urself trying to see positives in negitives, trying to see things that are clearly negatives, because honestly mate, when a chicks hot for you, she makes it clear in a non-SLUTY WAY! her hold ur hand whilst she watching a rom film her NOT her coming on you to yoU! shes a woman, the same way you watching porn with ur mates and getting wood dont mean your GAY!!! seriously, get over this, i know ur totally besotted/obssed with the girl, but by her reaction to you mate, YOU out of her league! and the way ur reacting to everything is kinda proving to everyone she was right in her judgement of you. women are hard creatures, they got no time for the weak! and brother your weak! i mean i have had tuffer farts.
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