justwondering76 Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 There is more details but here is a start. k this is kinda long. My wife and I got married 10 years ago and we have an 8 year old daughter some stuff happened and we separated and divorced. Sex was always a tense issue with us and she never wanted it. She repeated she did not need it. While separated and divorced she moved in with some one (I know about this one) of course slept with them moved out moved to the next partner (I know about this one) and the next got pregnant had a miss carriage (said she will never tell me who it was). Moved in with some one else and you know (I know this one) now all this was over about a 4 year period and we were Divorced for 2 years of it. We start spending time together and getting along I help her redo a rental house for her and our daughter to live closer. Things are going good and we are planning a family trip away and getting along great but nothing happened between us. Then I find out that during this time she felt insecure about herself because her sister called her fat and she had a one nighter with some one and now is pregnant. We talked about working it out and trying to have more kids eventually but did not want to rush and she also has some female issues so it might have not been possible. She told me it killed me cause why did she jump in bed with someone (Who she said I will never know who and she will never tell him about baby) I really wanted it to work for us and our daughter but what now? This might be her only shot at a baby I love her but it kills me when the Doctor congratulated us or when she talks about the baby. We have still not had sex because I don’t know (morning sickness pains) Should I take this as our chance or what I want it to work and told her I would be there for her but deep down it is killing me.
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