Strucken77 Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 I have been with this guy since 7th grade... 6 and a half years.. (( we are both seniors now )) and we love each other to death.. we've talked about having a future together and we love being with each other... but.. we fight constantly.. about the most stupid things. Basically, I am insecure, which causes us to argue and he says things that he shouldn't which causes us to argue.. those are the main reasons why we fight. Another reason we argue is because of World of Warcraft (if you dont know what that is, it's a computer game in which people get on teams and they have to meet at certain times on certain days and play together or something?).. well, we have scheduled days that we hang out. We hang out Tuesdays, Fridays, and Saturdays, and on the other 4 days.. he plays World of Warcraft after work. I see it as if he's putting this in front of me.. which he really isnt.. but it just bothers me that we have to have assigned days to hang out. This summer, he said he's going to cut his gaming time down to 2 days to hang out with me more... but I don't know. I am so tired of arguing almost every single day... it seems like we are trying to make something work that... won't. When we argue, he says the most hateful things (( in which he says he doesn't mean, he just says things when he's mad.. and afterwards, begs me to forgive him for being such an ******* ))... I really would like some advice. Should I break up with him? Should we go on a break for a while and see what happens? Should I stick it out and see what happens? I'm so confused. help. thanks.
Island Girl Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Cut the gaming adict loose. Break up with him completely. He calls you names and assigns days when you'll hang out?!!! You aree way too young to be this entrenched in a bad relationship. Break up with him and start getting prepared for your real life to start -- this isn't it...
Recommended Posts