smookie Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Ok so we broke up after 4.5 years of really bad relationship. Tonight he was to come over to visit (has been a month) no phone call no show, he also has mail here that he was going to give to him, I am so mad at him for this, Our relationship was not the greatest but he still is lying and still shows no respect for me. It's over why would he still be like this. Cold and distant. I just do not understand it at all, why is it so hard to communicate after breaking up? I gave him what he wanted freedom. Could he be hurting and is this how guys show it? oh I just wanted to text him and tell him off but I know better then to do that, he'll sit there and laugh at it all... pls explain why some people are like this. thanks bunches
Island Girl Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Ok so we broke up after 4.5 years of really bad relationship. Tonight he was to come over to visit (has been a month) no phone call no show, he also has mail here that he was going to give to him, I am so mad at him for this, Our relationship was not the greatest but he still is lying and still shows no respect for me. It's over why would he still be like this. Cold and distant. I just do not understand it at all, why is it so hard to communicate after breaking up? I gave him what he wanted freedom. Could he be hurting and is this how guys show it? oh I just wanted to text him and tell him off but I know better then to do that, he'll sit there and laugh at it all... pls explain why some people are like this. thanks bunches It is over as you so clearly state above. You should forward his mail -- through the post office and wash your hands of him. The only reason he can lie to you and show no respect for you is because you let him. You are allowing contact when there should be NONE. It was a bad 4.5 year relationship. You have wasted enough time. Move on.
smookie Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Lastnight I was up thinking and I put the mail back in the mail box moved return to sender, I do not have a forwarding address for him, I have a idea but not 100% sure. Ya I did waste enough time on him and with him for really no reason... NC for ME!!! Thanks bunches:bunny:
Davis Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 It's amazing how sh**ty an ex can treat us after they dump us, but it happens all the time. They don't care about us anymore, so anything goes for them. I don't think we ever understand it. My friend told me "Charles Manson was in charge of murdering people, we will never understand him". We can't understand them because we do not think like they do nor would we act like they do. So, it's not understandable for us. You can read more about rude exes on LS if you want. So, yes, go back to NC. Do not waiver! Look how this upset you. Move on and feel better!
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