Rewind Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 So is this the normal course..guy winks at girl..girl winks back then usually the guy will send an message. So this guy I find really attracitve sends me a wink, so I send one back..now days later nothing, no message. So guys even behind a computer screen dont have the guts to write someone a message? Then of course there's the delirious type who will send u not 1, or 2, 3 but 4 messages asking u why u didn't respond to their first message and if you can leave some feedback on what turned you off and and what you find wrong with him.
melodymatters Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 From my limited experience, I believe that anyone can make a profile, look at others profiles and "wink" or send an " ice breaker"for free. After that they need to subscribe, which costs money, so I would NOT take it personally that they didn't write back : they just didn't want to spend the 40 bucks a month !
Author Rewind Posted April 20, 2007 Author Posted April 20, 2007 From my limited experience, I believe that anyone can make a profile, look at others profiles and "wink" or send an " ice breaker"for free. After that they need to subscribe, which costs money, so I would NOT take it personally that they didn't write back : they just didn't want to spend the 40 bucks a month ! i didnt write anything to him..he winked at me and i winked back. And yes he's a subscriber..at least I think.
caringfriend Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Never take it personal! It could be a blessing in disguise that he did not respond.
jerbear Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Sometimes it could be a non subscriber or a marketing gimmick to convert a nonsubscriber to a subscriber even for a month.
alphamale Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Sometimes it could be a non subscriber or a marketing gimmick to convert a nonsubscriber to a subscriber even for a month. thats usually what it is....these internet dating sites are total scams.
mental_traveller Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Lots of possibilities: 1) he met someone else 2) he was drunk/horny when he winked you, and changed his mind once he sobered up/calmed down 3) he read through your profile after winking and changed his mind 4) it was a fake profile As for dating sites being scams, I've met people via them so they aren't a complete waste of time. But yeah, you will waste 90% of your time to find the 10% who are genuine & worthwhile.
alphamale Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 But yeah, you will waste 90% of your time to find the 10% who are genuine & worthwhile. A ratio of 99% to 1% is more likely.
Art_Critic Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 thats usually what it is....these internet dating sites are total scams. I met my GF on one... I think the winking crapola is just that.. crap.. you need to send emails because everybody can send winks and they mean nothing really..
Island Girl Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 So this guy I find really attracitve sends me a wink, so I send one back..now days later nothing, no message. So guys even behind a computer screen dont have the guts to write someone a message? Be glad if this happens that you know the guy is this pathetic now rather than later
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