cr8sea Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Oh god god god ok...i thought THOUGHT id be good by today..but im not I TOTALLY screwed up last saturday when i went out with some friends and an old ex of mine. I thought i was way over him, so i thought id be ok to drink around him again. Well not so much At first everything was great, we were even singing together, he bought me a drink and he even stop a guy from bothering me. Then i drank too much I dont remember much of it, but i do remember cryin in the bathroom like crazy, some girls i didnt know hugging me, then one of the girls in our group who doesnt know me or him or our history came in and asked me if i was crying over him (how did she know!!) I said yes...and she went to tell him. Its been three years now since we broke up. ofcourse its gonna hit him like a cold shower. She then came back to get me and ofcourse he asked me if i was crying over him. Well that send me out into the street bawling. I dont know why i was crying, i dont even think it was because of him, but it will definitely put me and him back to square one. We've been hanging out as friends for over 6 months now and i thought we finally were able to be cool. Now i dont know how he's gonna take this. Today i have to see him again. I really REALLY dont know how its gonna go. How do you come back from something like that?! he must think im a psycho!!!! I apologized the next day. Left him a message explaining that it wasnt him but many other things that have been happening, but i dont know if he would buy it. HEEELP! HOW DO I GET BACK FROM SOMETHING LIKE THAT! HOW AM I GONNA FACE HIM AGAIN? HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO ACT!!! IM SO HUMILLIATED!!
Island Girl Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Why are you trying to "hang out" with him? Bad news hanging out with an ex you clearly have not gotten over. As to seeing him. You should do what you should have done from the very beginning --- ignore him. And cut him out of your life so you can move forward in a completely different direction.
Author cr8sea Posted April 20, 2007 Author Posted April 20, 2007 Well mostly i hanged out with him because i used to live in the same apartment his good friend lives so he would come over and i was there. Thats how we started hanging out and it was great for a while but for some ungodly reason i flipped out. I dont know if i still have feelings for him. Im not sure if i was crying over him or not but i do know its gonna suck to lose him as a friend...again, if he doesnt take it light.
loveinlife Posted April 20, 2007 Posted April 20, 2007 Hi cr8sea, I think the fact that you were drunk that night is a good excuse for what happened. It seems acceptable to me. Dont bring anything up when you see him, unless he brings it up. Try to go with the flow, easier said than done. Things happen for a reason. Be yourself. We dont know what to expect bc we are not prophets. everything will be okay. The other posts made a good point, are you over this guy? Good luck, let me know how it goes. =)
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