Star Gazer Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 I have a late night weekend lover. He's called my FWB.
IpAncA Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 We have never officially gone out. Just for lunch once. But mostly weekend visits etc..... Why not try dating him FIRST and see it leads. I'd personally run but if your set on being with him, at least know what your getting into.
sb129 Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Maybe he's using me! !!! Maybe! I have a late night weekend lover. He's called my FWB. Can you remind me what a FWB is? Caringfriend- you can't possibly know this guy well enough to be thinking he is the one. You aren't part of eachothers lives. How come you can't meet his kids? they are old enough to know if Daddy is seeing someone else. If he has a 19 year old then he has a babysitter that could occasionally look after the kids if you go on a date. He is being too dishonest with you.
Miss_Bee Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 If he has a 19 year old then he has a babysitter that could occasionally look after the kids if you go on a date. He is being too dishonest with you. Good point SB. Caring friend, you should definitley just date him for awhile and get to know him, before deciding that he's the one that you want to spend your life with.
stillafool Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 What does it mean when a man only comes over your house at night? After 9-10 PM. Is it me but its been two months and we have never gone out on a real date? This is known as a "booty call". If he hasn't taken you out yet or introduced you to his friends, etc. he is using you. Drop him fast.
stillafool Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Okay I just read all the posts----he has 6 kids but told you he had 4? Yet he says he didn't tell you because it would scare you off? What was he going to trick you or something? Leave this guy alone. He is talking marriage in only 2 months but yet you haven't met his kids?
jcster Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 And...if this guy is 34 and he has a 19 year old kid - then the first kid was born when he was 15!!!!! There's a whole lot of weird going on here. I would NOT continue seeing this man.
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