john 07 Posted April 19, 2007 Posted April 19, 2007 My ex broke it off with me after 7 years. We were the bestest friends we ever had. We were both in love with eatch other. After we broke up(now shes with another guy a week later after break up) I find it extremeley painful just to be friends with her. I still want to be best friends but it just hurts way too much. What is the reason for this pain?? i really cant figure it out
Trialbyfire Posted April 19, 2007 Posted April 19, 2007 Break up day doesn't kill your strong emotions for her right away. Give it time for those raw emotions to settle before considering a friendship.
whichwayisup Posted April 19, 2007 Posted April 19, 2007 My ex broke it off with me after 7 years. We were the bestest friends we ever had. We were both in love with eatch other. After we broke up(now shes with another guy a week later after break up) I find it extremeley painful just to be friends with her. I still want to be best friends but it just hurts way too much. What is the reason for this pain?? i really cant figure it out You cannot be friends with someone that you're inlove with, and even more so RIGHT AFTER a break-up. Your mind, your body and your heart is NOT in 'just a friend' mode. You love her, you want her and you expect something from her... She is with someone else now, heal yourself and end ANY contact with her NOW. You can't handle having her in your life...
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