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I'm the only girl that doesn't like gushy stuff, I swear!!


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So I'm going out with this guy, I've had issues with running away from relationships in the past, even with him. Everytime I start hanging out with a guy its all good and then he start to act like he likes me and I get this gross feeling in my stomach and just run away. I've done it to him twice and after I run away we wont talk for about a year and half but for some reason he always takes me back. So anyways, we started talking again about 3 and half months ago. And I had the old feelings again, but this time I'm really trying to overcome my "crazyness" and we've been officailly dating for about two weeks.

 

I told him in the beginning we can be exclusive as long as things don't get really serious, right away cause otherwise I'll get all wierd. And I thought he understood this, but apparently not. And it's become the situation where I can tell he's more into me that I am into him. But, I'm getting wierded out by him saying things like "You're cute" out of no where, or when he says "I like you" (Cause I prohibited love for a long time even though I've known him for about 4 years) and of course I tell him I like him back, cause I do, but I feel wierd saying it cause I'm not used to it, BUT then he says "I like you more" and I cant help but cringe. And I know it sounds stupid but it really bothers me! What should I do? I dont want to hurt his feelings by telling to stop saying stuff like that but it does need to stop, cause I'm afraid it will get worse. I know I must sound really heartless, but its just how I am. I mean, I even cringed when he told me he missed me the other day, we had only been apart for a day!!! I mean come on! So, if anyone has advice that would be great cause I need help!!!

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