InjuredHeart Posted April 19, 2007 Posted April 19, 2007 Long story short..................i live in California and she lives in Greece. We have talked about everyday for the past 2 years and i have visited her there and we got really intimate. The time i spent there was nice, but i was sad that in the back of my mind I knew that this was just a fantasy since she lives so far away. During the 2 years we became very close as expected. We discussed whether one of us were willing to move , but never really answered the question fully. We kinda dodged the question. Anyway, now its come to the point where we have to answer that question since neither one us are getting any younger. After long debates and arguments, we came to the conclusion that neither were willing to move. I would refuse to give up on things hoping something may magically happen. But i think she was more realistic and spoke more rationally. She would tell me how difficult things would be even if one of us happened to move to the others country because of the language, culture, politics...basically everything. I know she loves me and i love her, sometimes in life things arent meant to be. This is so hard for me to accept...since i am very stubborn. I know being friends is the best way to go and still have her in my life, but i just cant seem to get my heart to feel the same way. Should i maintain friendship? What do i do if she finds someone and i feel the jealousy? Sometimes....life just sucks. I wish things were easier and we lived in the same place. I dont know what to do...any help would be nice. Thanks for letting me rant.
Sand&Water Posted April 19, 2007 Posted April 19, 2007 RE: The only way, in my honest opinion, for this relationship to work out is IF she accepts to move to the USA. Otherwise, you can't expect to move to foreign country knowing the chances of success is very slim [~ 5%]. So let her go. There is no future. No point is tearing your hear out knowing full well that reality is reality, it doesn't lie to you nor will be change with time [in your situation]. Start dating women in your local area -your heart will heal faster that way, and before you know it you will, hopefully, have a new girlfriend. Sand&Water
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