Aline Maria Posted April 18, 2007 Posted April 18, 2007 Hi, I would be really thankful if you could help me on this one. I have had a LDR for 2 and a half years. I'm living in France, and my ex is Australian and travels a lot for his work. We used to meet for his holidays, about every 3 months. It was already hard, but a tragic event happened in my family last summer, and he was away. I resented him for not coming over soon enough and not staying, and broke up. This was 7 months ago. Now I'm dating another guy, but am still in love with my ex, and I just refused to share a flat with my actual boyfriend. I had a phone talk with my ex, and he still has feelings for me, but also has a new girlfriend, with whom he also just refused to live, and doubts he can trust me again. He said he needs stability, and prefers not to see me at the moment because if he did he could stop himself from kissing me again. He definitely is the one and I would do anything to have him back. I wanted to call him today to tell him, once for all, that I'd break up immediately with the other one and would book a ticket to any destination to meet him again if he wanted, but he didn't respond and I'm afraid that his phone rang while he was with his new girlfriend. Do you please have an advice on what I should do now ? Thank you so much in advance. Maria
frenchie_Julia Posted April 19, 2007 Posted April 19, 2007 Hi Maria, I had a similar relationship with my ex BF. We were together for 1 year (in a LDR...), and then, we broke up, for many reasons, but no one available, trust me... Then, I had a new BF, but not in a LDR this time. But, I didn't really love him... I was always thinking of my ex, I missed him so much!!And unfurtunaly, i'm still missing him... But i've lost him forever. So, in your case, I advice you to go through your goal: restart your relationship with your australian. Be honest, and try to talk with him. If you see that you have any chance, go straight away... If you don't, you will regret it for your entire life.... It's what I should have done, but i didn't and i regret it so much..... Love is the best thing happened to us, don't waste it. Julia
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