trueblue Posted April 18, 2007 Posted April 18, 2007 Hey guys. I'm new to the forum and looking for some good advice. I'll try to make this long story really short. Basically about a month ago my boyfriend broke up with me. We were together for 18 months, lived together for the last 12. We had a really good relationship, and he always told me that I was the one, and we were going to get married and all that stuff. I was really in love with him and thought I would spend the rest of my life with him. Well a month ago, he came home from work and said we needed to talk. then he started telling me how I'm not the same person I was, how I haven't grown, how I'm not motivated enough and how I'm dependent on him, and that we needed to break up. He said he needed time and that he might feel different in a few weeks. So of course I was heart broken and depressed, and I moved out two days later. Then about a week later I found out he was seeing some other girl he met at work. Well cut to a few days ago, I go to our apartment to pick up the rest of the stuff and even though he was supposed to be at work, he was home. As soon as I walked in the door he came over and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the head. He told me I looked really cute about 5 times and wanted to know how I was doing. Then he took his shirt off to show of how hard he has been working out at the gym, like he was trying to impress me, then he told me that he was seeing that girl anymore and it was stupid. So I got my stuff and was going to leave when he again told me how good I look and then he said that I should call him sometime so we can hang out. And I told him that he was the one that broke up with me so he should be the one to call me if he wanted to hang out. Well its been a few days and he hasnt called, but he is really stubborn and not usually the one to make the first move. Even when we started going out, he liked me for a long time but he waited till I asked him out. So now I really dont know what to do? Should I call him, should I wait for him to call? Does he even want to get back together with me? I know I do because I still love him a lot, but its all so confusing...any advice would be really appreciated!
krzr Posted April 18, 2007 Posted April 18, 2007 dont call him maybe he will miss u and call u after awhile pretend like ur ok with it
Author trueblue Posted April 19, 2007 Author Posted April 19, 2007 anyone have any advice? Please. I am really confused.
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